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Theres this guy and he is 16 and sometimes i think i have feelings for him lyk a boyfriend but then i dont.....he likes me and he said he wanted to screw me and i told him id let him but i dont know if i would let him because im only 12 and loosing my virginity at my age seems a lil to fast but i feel ready, and i think i want to?? should I??
~Clueless~
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Girl you must be crazy, you dont want to lost your vriginity to him at this age and trust me when you do, he wont talk to you anymore because all he wanted was to have sex with you, you are 12 years old, so go and do something more better in your age than to think of having sex with a boy, go bake cookies with your mother or something and stop think about sex, okay bye think about it and send me feed back.
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Girl listen, i know what your saying, you think your ready to go and lose your virginity, and after that, everything be ok. Thats how it always seems untill it happens, they up and leave you because all they wanted to do is get laid. okay listen alot of people your age now days are going and losing their virginity, and they think its all good, girl it aint even all that good. Your 12 years old, you look at all those 10 year olds getting pregent...think if you want that..your a child, children cannot take care of themselves, therefore they cannot take care of another child. Wait untill your a little bit older. Dont fall for his actions girl, he is just one of those guys who are just tellin all these kinds of girls that hes interested in them, only for sex. Hope i helped..if you need more help just let me now :)
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Kristi<3
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Ask your 'boyfriend' if he's a virgin, I'll bet you he's not. Why are you so willing to lose your virginity to him? I think at your age maybe you haven't really thought a lot about the value of your virginity. It's not something you get to go back on. I have known a lot of girls who have let someone take their virginity too young, and regretted it for years. I'm sorry if everybody is a little mean about this, but it's probably because most of them are older and have made mistakes of their own already. Take it from those who know, your 'boyfriend' is probably just trying to take advantage of you. Be sure I'm not saying you should immediately go out and dump him. If you really like him, then you can keep seeing him, just take things slowly. Don't let him play you into doing anything you don't truly want to do, because you will regret it the rest of your life. In my personal opinion, putting myself in your situation, I wouldn't go NEAR a guy who said he wanted to "screw me". Not only is the expression of interest vulgar, and blunt as a brick, but you might not know him as well as you though. Rape is always a surprise, otherwise women would not place themselves in situations where it would happen. At the very least, consider that the word "screw" has more than one meaning.
Please don't...
-K
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hes just using you to get laid.eh just try to stay friends. and your only 12 so thts kinda crazy to be thinking about actually doin it. you should be thinking about kissing, not sex. hope it all works out!
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I'm not even gonna comment on the age factor here because it should be painfully obvious that there's something wrong with it... but if you don't feel 100% ready to have sex with this guy, you shouldn't do it. If you have any doubts at all, you'll regret it later if you do it just to impress the guy. And I agree with you.. 12 is a little young...
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Do not loose your virginity to him. You are too young for that. You're not even a teenager. Plus, 4 years is way too much of an age gap, especially now.. if y'all were 25 and 21 then that would be different. But being 16 and 12.. and especially you being 12, you don't want to loose your virginity. It'll ruin your life... save it for somebody you're truely in love with, please.
-Morgan
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i think personally your stupid.. your just a baby your not ready for sex.. you should lose your virginity to somebody that you love and that means alot to you.. just fuckin anybody is something your going to regret.. you THINK your ready your not ready for sex you probably dont even know what to expect and im sure your not ready for consequences.. such as pregnacy,STDs or even a broken heart.. this guy came after you and said that cause he thinks you easy to fuck, if you fuck him he's going to know that he was right dont make him right.. dont do it and wait til the right person comes along.. ♥ Dez
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I think your too young right now to do something like that.. i'm about your age and i wouldnt do that yet.. and the guy should understand and if he doesnt then he doesnt care enough about you to understand you..
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I really think you are a little young. in like 3 years it would be ok but think about it if you let him, do you think you will regret it later, I DO! Tell him you are'nt ready for something like that. If he really likes you he will understand and wait. I REALLY HOPE I HELPED!~!~!PLEASE RATE!~!~!
-BabiK
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this guy knows that your young and he knows that you will probably do anything..dont do anything sexual with him ...first because hes to old for you ..and second you probably dont know everythign about sex that you should know ...it seems that all this guy wants is a piece of ass...you shouldnt loose your virginity at the age of 12 either its wrong and later in your life when you hit high school people will find out about it and they will call you a slut...its not a good thing to do ...
hope i helped
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12 is too early to loose your virginity, especially to a 16 year old
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