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Condomses
this isn't really that big of a question, and before I go on this is NOT a protection issue. I don't want like... OMFG YOU DON'T USE A CONDOM shit, alright? I'm with him, he's with me. period, he has nothing (I have proof) and I have nothing.
I really -want- to start using condoms more but that fact is it just kills sex. PERIOD. he's had enough to get off as it is but doing it with a condom is next to impossible.... if anyone has any tips... it'd be much appreciated.
and I'm NOT a girl... I'll get pissed if you assume so and go "well hey grrl whatzup" kind of deal x.x
oh, and forgive the harshness. it's 3:00. I'm tired.
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Well, maybe experimentation is something you need to try out. There's all sorts of condoms - texture, flavour, etc. Since spermacide won't be an issue, that opens things up even more for you.
If condoms are treated as an ordinary part of sex, you'll both have to adjust and find things that work for you. It's when they're treated as an extra pain-in-the-butt type thing that sex can get complicated.
Figure out what each of you likes individually and as a couple, and then try new things. Incorporate the condom/other safe sex things into your new practices, and hopefully things will work out.
Best of luck.
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