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over-reacting?
Ok, me and my boyfriend Cory have been going out for 9 months. Well, there is this girl named Stephanie who has been hitting and flirting with my boyfriend ever since we started going out. I have always hated this girl, so it makes the situation worse. She'd do it in my face, wherever.. she doesnt care. Once, i saw her, her friend, and Cory at this baseball field playing baseball with some younger kids and i got pretty mad about it. I forgave him and we went on with our relationship. He always compares me with her, like ill do something, and hell say, "Stephanie wouldnt do that!" then i get pissy, and he goes im sorry baby, im sorry blah blah blah... well, yesterday he was here, and i havent seen him for about a week, so i was talkin 2 him and he jus wanted to watch tv. Then left 20 minutes after he got here because I was being annoying. Well, now, i just learned that him, Stephanie, another girl, and another boy are at this other boys house. It really pisses me off because he is controlling, and I wasnt allowed to go to my friends house (a boys house), because he doesnt like the boy. So i said fine, i wont go. I really think hes cheating because he lets her flirt in my face and hes been acting really strange around me. So, do you think hes cheating? SHould i give him another chance? Should i call him? idk what to do because i dont want to overreact and i dont want to throw away a 9 month relationship! I would want to sit and talk with him but im scared he will hurt me physically and i dont want to lose him, im 14 and hes 15... what should i do??
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wow..well you might have to do the sitting down with him thing..but why do you think he'll hit you..??and if he does that means that you need to leave him..but you know if he doesnt even get worked up then you stay with him..but about that stephanie gurl!!
from the way it sounds,shes trying to ruin you guyz realationship!!but you no..thats how it sounds..and your right,its not cool if he doesnt let you go to a boys house..and hes gettin all up on stephanie..maybe you to just need a break..and you need to tell him to cool it that stephanie gurl if you guys are going to stay together..and he shouildnt even be telling you what to do..honey your 14.. live your life..dont let your life be around a guy that might be cheating on you..so you go where you want..and you do what you do..but dont sink down to his level..and start flirting with other guys and stuff..just live your life and have fun doing it..dont let that boy get in the way of you and your firnds!!
hope i helped..
*love always*,
ilovepink101
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To be completely blunt, your BF seems to be a womanizing bastard. There is a line between friendship and a more serious relationship, and it seems your boyfriend is crossing it with Stephanie.
If there is any fear of abuse, then dump his ass.
Look at it this way: You've spent 9 months with him. Why waste anymore, when you could be with a better guy?
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its grat that you dont want to lose a 9 month relationship but your better off dumping him!! look at the way he is treating you .. dump im and get it over with
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You need to move on from him, i know its hard when you love him but he obviously doesnt feel the same way.
He has no respect for you, he wont spend alot of time with you, he tells you your annoying, he is flirty and lets stephanie flirt with him without any thought of your feelings, he compares you to this girl. he upsets you and makes you feel bad and stressed out and upset.
When you look at it like that you can see that he isnt boyfriend material.
Your relationship wont last and you wont be ogether forever.
dont waste your time and tears on him sweetie because he really isnt worth it. you deserve better, it sounds like you have a lot of love to give so wait for someone special and who loves you and feels the same way as you do.
End your relationship with your cruel boyfriend and move on.
Good luck x
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Sounds to me he is cheatin he knows you don't like this girl and yet he lets her flirt in your face and he is stressin you out thats no relation ship but its upto you do you think he is cheatin ?if so break up w/him as for him hurtin you i would break up w/him like in a place where theres an adlut the girl sounds like a *b* don't give him another chance but its not up to me its up to you Thats all i can think of i really hope i helped Bye Good luck♥
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wow. A healthy relationship really shouldnt involve any fear of him hurting you physically or any suspision of him cheating on you. so i suggest you just slowly back away from him because it seems as if he isn't giving you enough attention so just forget about him, and so what if it has been nine months? He shouldnt be treating you like this or letting that girl stephanie offend you in front of him or at all. Just slowly back away. And if he does physically hurt you report him without hesitation. Good luck
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Sounds to me like its time to find someone else.
If you are afraid to sit and talk to him for fear of what he may do...you're better off without him. I can't say weather or not he is cheating, but it doesn't sound as if he is treating you very well. You should be his priority not anyone else. Find someone who will treat you like you're special to them. :)
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dump him! any man that will let a girl flirt in front of your face, and ditch you for a whore isn't worht your time. he obviously doesnt care as much as you or he wouldn't hurt you like that. your too good for him, go find yourself a real man*
good luck hunnie, xoxo
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