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16/f
i am going to camp this week, and my ex boyfriend will be there.
we broke up in april and we haven't really talked since.
he came up to me at chruch once and apologized for what he did, but i don't think he really meant it because he still acts like a jerk towards me.
my question is, how can i have an awesome time at camp without thinking about my stupid ex?
thanks in advance
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Well, don't let him spoil your fun time. ANd if he tries, ignore him and dodge him.
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I am sure there will be so much to do, and so many people to hang out with that you shouldn't have to give him a second thought. Just ignore him. :)
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Well, meet some new people, do new things. I think the reason you are thinking about this is because you guys haven't really settled what happened in the past. Tell him you are totally over him, and you want space. Because then maybe you won't think about/see him. Just try to avoid him. Sorry if this advice sucked!
Tasha
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think of this as a chance to get to know new people (especially boys) if you suround yourself with new faces and new experiences it will show your ex that you could really care less about him try to have fun get involved with something you really like while your there if hes acting jerky chances are he misses you guys are weird like that they try to block you out so that they feel better but it just makes everything worse. if that doesnt work try to talk to him maybe it will get easier to be around him if yall understand each other. hope i helped!
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well hopefully your best friend will be there and just blow him off dont pay any attion towards him because that is what he wants and we dont want to give that to him! so just be the way he is to you and shove it in his face.lol
i hope i helped!
<33 Lexie
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Well... if he's a jerk then why do you need him? You shouldn't waste time thinking about someone you don't need. But if that doesn't work than just pack a lot of stuff to occupy yourself. Or hang out with a whole bunch of people and have fun. Don't ever not do anything because then you'll start thinking about him and you'll get like sad and what not. Just keep yourself busy while having as much fun as you can.
Hope I helped! Good luck,
Caitlin <33
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Well First Think About All The Stuff He Did...like being A jerk...then be like i dont need him im goin to have fun..and do alot of action packed things at your camping trip...dont tell me your goin to have a guy ruin your fun! are ya!?
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well girl I'm sure this will be touph but I think that the best thing to do is don't talk to him pretend like hes not there finde other stuff to do and have a great time with your friends hope I help and if I didn't I'm so sorry I'm new at this.
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well theres alot of things to do at camp keep busy.. ♥ Dez
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well when your not sure a guy said what he meant then take it SLOW!!!! dont get to involed into talking and if you get nervus then remeber what you did tourds him to coulm you down!
i hope you like my adivce!!!!
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ok like the others said don't talk to him and just pretend he isn't there if he tries to say sorry again say last time you said that you were a jerk to me and walk away and like we say pretend he isn't there hoped i helped
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just give it back to him!!!! or you can just walk away if he says somthing to you
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It will be hard to forget about him, I'm sure. There isn't much you can do, because he has just as much right to go to Camp as you do. The best thing would be just to try to keep yourself occupied and avoid him, if you place your mind on other things you will be less reluctant to think about him. He's a jerk, yes. But, that does not entitle him to ruin your camp experience.
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It'll probably be really hard not to think about him, but just keep telling yourself that he's ajerk and not worth your time. Hang out with your friends and keep yourself occupied. If he tries to talk to you, or something, just tell him how you see it: that he may have apologized but he still acts like a jerk.
I hope you have fun at camp, and I hoped this helped.
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