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Question Posted Tuesday August 2 2005, 10:48 pm

ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...

ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.

please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
different moms

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oxipreferpreppyox answered Saturday August 13 2005, 12:19 am:
Well maybe compared to him you may seem spoiled, but I personally don't think so.

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kaka6 answered Friday August 5 2005, 1:26 am:
ok 1. that isn't spoiled ok you are doing work and getting somthing for doing that. 2 maybe he is just mad that that isn't him getting that stuff I dunno but that isn't spoiled that is a mature nice person

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caligirl07 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 10:17 pm:
i dont think your spoiled, but if you are who cares. i am extremly spoiled, i dont do any chores, never had a job, can do whatever i want whenever i want, i have my own credit card with no limit, a mercedes(04)..point is, learn to love it and take advantage of it while it lasts. if people tell you your spoiled like its a horrible thing, then they are just jealous.

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afro_timmy answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 4:27 pm:
your not spoilt at all.
hes jealous

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Teza answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 3:27 pm:
Noo thats not spoiled at all. Thats how I am. If I clean my room and vacume and clean the rest of the house I get paid! Its good that you work for it that means you deserve it.

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ShYbl0nD3 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:35 pm:
ok that doesnt make sence that he told you that you were spoiled.. i mean you said you dont get paid but you earn that stuff you want by doing it which i think is fair, its like working for what you want, like a reward. I dont think your spoild. Unless its like you do that stuff around the house and get a car lol

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twistedsister17 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 11:09 am:
you're not spoiled, you just sound a little shallow for having to ask people on advicenators.

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Alpha345 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:22 am:
I don't think your spoiled, spoiled would be if you did no work and got stuff for doing nothing, or an excess of stuff that you really don't need.

You however work for what you get (and by the looks of it is a fair bit of work). I would say he is just a bit jealous or mad at you for some odd reason. Just what I think. Hope this eases your mind.


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SexiBlondie101 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:59 am:

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iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:50 am:
Well, it depends how much stuff you're getting for doing that. If you're getting a lot of new things just for cleaning your room, then (personally) yes, I think you're semi-spoiled. If you have to do this stuff all week and you do and then you get just a few things that you've been wanting, then no... you're parents think that you've earned it and you deserve it... and if you DON'T do the things you have to-you won't get the things you want. I don't think thats spoiled.

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brunettecutie answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:26 am:
no your definatly NOT spoiled. if you do work around the house and dont get money, of course you get something for working. your not spoiled. its like your parents are paying you for cleaning but they are like spending it on stuff you want just like you would yourself. your not spoiled.


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charmed3fanatic answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:24 am:
i do the exact same thing! .. no you earn what you get... it's not just give give give.. its like "you do things for me, i'll do things for you in return" it's you give you get sorta things.. so no your not spoiled.. you earn ever little bit you get!

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Loveneverdies answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:17 am:
omg grl you are not spoiled! Did you ask him what the hell he does?
Spoiled, is my sister. She has everyone waiting on here hand and foot. Heck,she literally carries a bell around and rings it when she wants ice cream.<<no joke.

P.S-- i hafta get my own ice cream...

Rate me.


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azngemini answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 12:09 am:
omg, your brother is so like my brother!! he's always telling how I'm spoiled because I have a lot of things but I never work or earn money or anything. just 10 minutes ago, he came home from work, and was outside my room and was like, "all she ever does is watch tv and sleep and go out..blah blah blah"
I'm just like you, like I wash the dishes, do the laundry, do my chores, and other things. you're definately not spoiled because I kno a lot of other girls out there that dont do anything at all. atleast you actually do things, it's not like you sit around all day, doing nothing and eat all you can like it's a frickin buffet, lol. your half brother is just jealous and he's lashing out at you for a really stupid reason, and trust me, you're not spoiled

hope i helped :)

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PePPerMIntPUnk answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 11:54 pm:
no i dont think you are because you EARN the stuff you want by doing chores and helping around the house

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modelkate11 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 11:36 pm:
you're not spoiled. you should apreciate that you work for what you want.


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craZlilchelC152 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 11:29 pm:
i don*t think your spoiled you do more work than i do haha um yeah but i don*t think you should really be that upset by one comment, but don*t worry bout it, you don*t sound spoiled.

hope i helped hun!! xoxo, chelsea

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Michelley answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 11:25 pm:
no you are not spoiled!! spoiled would be if you just got stuff for doing nothing. you are definately not spoiled, you earn the stuff you get. don't listen to him
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!

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rikatree2375 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 11:19 pm:
If you're working to get what u want then gurl you aint spoiled!!! He's probably jealous cuz you're getting things and he's too lazy to do the same. So don't worry about him and keep up the good work!!!

4Him, Disciple (plz rate and send comments!!!)

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Razhie answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 11:17 pm:
Is this any of his buisness?

Do you feel you take advantage of your mothers good nature? Do you demand things that she doesn't want to give you or guilt her about things she can't afford or doesn't feel you should have? Do you cry, pout or otherwise punish your parents when you don't get your way?

If you do. Then you are spoiled. Sounds to me like your brother was just being an annoying shit disturber. Aren't siblings just wonderful!

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miikelaxsays answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 11:15 pm:
that kid doesnt know what hes talking about!
hunny your not spoilied and if hes calling you that he doesnt know what hes talking about and he needs to get off his ass n look it up!
lol good luck babe!

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