Were hott... we are Dumb and Dummber! If you ask a stupid question... ill give you a stupid answer.. if you ask a question and your like "Oh im still single and i d k y!! I mean im hott... and im good ar everything" ill just say "you preppy bitch get a life and stop being full of yourself!"
Gender: Female
Location: Cali babay!
Occupation: Umm.. school?
Age: 13
AIM: Ummm.. no
Yahoo: Noneofyobusiness@yahoo.com
Member Since: March 30, 2005
Answers: 31
Last Update: November 4, 2005
Visitors: 2505
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I just wanted to get this off my chest and I wanted to know if it seems as though I'm going through alot for my age...I'm only 13. Here goes.
I did drugs (cocaine, and pills), I was constantly getting in fights, I've been to court 11 times, arrested 3 times, longest was for 7 months, I've been taken away from my family for a little while because I needed "help", I had a boyfriend for three years,then we got into a fight because he was moving, as soon as he left my house after the arguement he got into a fight with these people, got hit in the back of the head and died before I could say sorry about the fight, I never told my parents, they still don't know about it, after that I started to get into cutting, then I tried to kill myself by doing the following : drown myself, hang myself, stab myself in the stomach, from which I now have a scar on my stomach, had to stay in the hospital for that for a couple of months, then got taken away from the family again, then after I got out I tried to shoot myself but accidently left it on that safety thingy and couldn't get the nerve to do it again, I tried to get an ex whom was the boyfriend at rhe time to shoot me and he almost did 'til his mom walked in, I got taken away from the family again after that and was gone for about a year, he got arrested, and then I got heavier into cutting to the point where I would cut everyday even without a reason. That's when I got into the drugs then I got expelled, got sent to rader, my family now does not mention me to friend's, they tell me to my face that I'm an embarrassment, they all tell eachother they love eachother in front of me but have not once said it to me. Then I became bulimic, then anorexic, then after I stopped I found out my mom was over dosing and was bulimic and still is to this day. My brother might die at any moment because he now has heart problems and he's supposed to take medicine to help him but he doesn't take it, my parents are trying to get me sent away to korea or tennessee so I'll be out of their lives but none of my relatives in either places want me with them, I have no clue what's going on in my life anymore, my family insult me constantly, my dad and brother both hit me and I have serious health problems ( I get headaches at a minimum of 4 times a day, I pass out at least once every other week, and i throw up at least twice a week and I have no idea why) and my parents won't take me to the doctor to find out why, they've told me they hate me, and I do not understand myself whatsoever, and my parents told me pretty soon they plan on kicing me out with out a place to go and I'll just have to find out how to take care of myslef, and are trying to get me sent to a "institute" for help. And I was forced into sex because the person threathened me and I don't know if that is considered rape. Am I going through too much for my age?
Sorry it was so long... (link)
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You are definitly going thru alott for your age. Im 13 too and omgsh! your parents are treating you like dirt... which they should try to help you with all of this... i hope everything gets better. maybe try to talk to your parents about how they are treating you and they maybe the problem that makes you wanna cut yourself. =( keep me updated please
amanda
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My friend Sam started going out with Nate at the beginning of the school year. Nate sat at our table at lunch, and some of his friends did too. One of them is Andrew. We all got to know different people because they were going out, and Andrew and I became friends fast. Last Tuesday, I found out that Andrew liked me, but I didn't really think about it. Tonight, he asked me out. I was SOOO surprised. We only say each other for a few minutes after that, so I managed to avoid answering, but I can't avoid him forever. Please HELP ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I like him more as a friend than a boyfriend, but people keep saying to give it a chance. What should I do??? (link)
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Well, you can say yes and then get to knoo him moree. or you can say no and then get to kno him moree. but if you say no, then you get to kno him more, and then you like him he mite not liek you backkk. but i would try it and if you end up not likeing him more then a friend you can always dump him =P
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I really need someones opinion cos i cant figure this out. me and my guyfriend talk more everyday and now we're pretty close and i know i like him more than a friend. But i dont know if he likes me that way. He makes fun of me a lot and says hes kidding when i get annoyed. and he doesnt make fun of other girls that hes friends with. and he stares at me ALL THE TIME. what should i do? It seems like he likes me sometimes but i dont want to do anything that would ruin our friendship especially if he doesn't really like me.
thanx soo muchh (link)
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okkay. this is what I did... and it worked for me... so dont say this is a bunch of bullshit. lol well i told the guy i liked him and he liked me back and it made our friendship stronger. we still talk to on the fone all the time and stuff and i can tell him anything and be myself around him... so like i would tell him and see if he likes you back. if he doesnt you can still be just as close. but if he stares at you ALL the time i think he likes you and if he treats you differently from other girls its kinnda obvouis. keep me updated on what happens!
hope i helped!
amanda
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ok thsi is going to sound really stupid...but i can not for the life of me figure out what that blue chalk stuff does. i mean i know you put it at the end of the stick, but what does it DO? why do you put it there? if i dont use it will it affect my game? i will rate you high if you are able to tell me! (link)
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It helps keep friction with the ball. like it makes it so when you hit the ball, it will go in the direction you want to & it wont go in all different directions. yes it does affect your game.. USE IT!
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OK....i want to do gymnastics and im not very flexible. I am but not as flexibale as other ppl....anyway do you hav to be flexible to do gymnastics? And is it hard to learn to do gymnastics?? Plz help i rate high! (link)
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well it depends on your own like... level if you think its hard or not... and you'll get flexible from doing gymnastics and by stretching
Amanda
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ok...well this is really bothering me..cuz my brother told me i was spoiled and and i told him i do work around the house for my mom...this is the convo...
ME: i help my mom around the house i wash the dishes i clear n set the table i clean my room and make my bed daily and i always put away the groceries
HIM: how much do you get for all that?
ME: i dont get money i earn the stuff i want by doing that.
HIM: you are definetly spoiled.
please tell me if you think i'm spoiled...this is just gonna bother me alot((he's a half sibling))
different moms (link)
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no i dont think you are because you EARN the stuff you want by doing chores and helping around the house
Amanda
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omfg!!! i have the worst cramps ever today!! i took ib profen already and that didnt work!
i need some way to get rid of them or make them not so bad!
ik ppl say working out helps..but there is no way in hell im working out with this bad of cramps!
HELP!!
ill rate 5s! (link)
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You can take a hot bath... people say thats supposed to help... i havent needed because muh cramps dont get soo bad so yea.... just try it lol
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I have had daily headaches for the past 5 years.Must have had every test going!But the CT scan or MRI doesn't show anything.There seems to be no rhyme or reason. Could be weather(especially humidity) ,eating to much or certain foods, tension ,stress.My shoulder muscles are hard and neck very stiff every day.Medicines such as anti-inflamatory's ,muscle relaxers or migrane pills (such as Imitrex) all work the opposite on me making things worse.I take Oxycocet only for the pain and sometime's that doesn't even help.Also,it is like I have too much fluid in my head.My ears have fluid in them quite often,nose runs when I eat anything and boy if I was to cry, my head would pound severly. So... What do you think? Cujobird (link)
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Ok hun. I went to the hospital because i had a migrane. this is what happened: THe right side of my body was numb and i couldnt talk. Like i knew what i wanted to say but i couldnt get it out because the right side of my face was numb. I've been havein headaches for a long time before this happened and then they evolved into migranes. When i was in the hostpital they put me thru alotta tests. a ct and a mri the same ones you went thru and everything was fine and then they ruled out everything else and they said it was a Complex Migrane. I was in the hospital i think on june 14th to the 16th. Of this year '05. it was scarey but im glad they found out what happened. I take Inderal- im not sure how to spell it put it sounds exactly like its spelled. Its highblood pressure pills because a migrane is when not enough blood gets to the brain and the blood pressure pills make sure that enough blood gets to muh brain(i kno it sounds silly but its true) and when this happened Muh right Side was numb and then an hour later i got a serouisly bad headache. Processed meats such as Lunch Meats and hotdogs can cause migranes. Chocolate can, Caffiene can, and certian kind of cheeses can. Also stress and pressure can cause them too! And if you ever go to the hospital for migranes and they say you have one.. dont worrie you can still play sports ans stuff and do everything else in your everyday life! I Hope i helped!! If you have any other Questions just ask me!
and ya kno what? it wasnt a "mini Stroke" they RULED OUT EVERYTHING ELSE< derr already said that...
PePpErMintPunk (Amanda)
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I am 14 years old and I am self-conscience about my breast size. Is there anything that I can do to reduce my breast size? (link)
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Ok... dont get breat reduction surgery... just wear lose fitting clothes...
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I have to give a speech in fron of the whole class next week, and I'm absolutely terrified. I am really bad at speeches. I start shaking and I can't read my notcards. Does anyone have any suggestions to help me get over my fear? (link)
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When you look at the people in the clas look over their heads not at them..
try finding a spot to look at where there is nobody there!
~duMMer~
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Every morning i put on enough make up. However, buy 11:30 am its faded! I need 2 know how to get make up that lasts. Brands,tips,etc.
please help i rate 5s for average answers.
xOxO (link)
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Change your brand, like try water proof or just a diff brand!
Sry i dont kno any but Avon works pretty good!
Hope i helped!
SinCeRly,
DuMb!
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I need to make a cd for this dance/party. What are some good songs,like hip-hop or something you can dance to? Thanks a bunch.Oh, and by the way, what was that onesong from last year with trick daddy ... ahh i forgot who else and what it goes like. maybe someone knows? thanks a bunch. easy rating. =) (link)
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Personally, i'd go for punk rock or like alternative rock! Like: All AMerican Rejects, Green day, Good Charlotte, Blink 182, The used, My Chemical Romance.. tee he he AND NO SIMPLE PLAN THEY SUCK DUCKS!
SiNcERLy
DUmB
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This may be a little long, sorry.
I've been with my boyfriend [we are both 18] for almost three years. Ever since he started college, he began experimenting with pills. I honestly don't like people who mess around with drugs, and I've told him that I don't want him poppin pills. He told me he likes the feeling, and that he isn't going to stop until he wants to, whether or not I like it, and if it bothers me that much, that he wont tell me when he does it.
I'm not saying that I want to leave him or anything, but I don't like the fact that he hasn't put my feelings into consideration. He gets mad at me when I get mad at him, and I can't stand that. I'm not the one doing anything wrong, unless caring about him and his health is wrong.
I really don't know how to go about this situation, because it does make me very upset. When he goes to parties, I tend to wonder if he's doing drugs [pills] and I get mad. It's not like I can ask him either, because really, it doesn't make a difference, and I know that, and because he even said it himself, he's not going to tell me when he does it.
Now I feel that there is lack in communication and trust. between him and I. Am I being overprotective? He had said to me before, "watch when you go to college, you'll see how the world is really like, and you're going to experiment in a lot of different things." [I will be attending college this fall] But I know that I wouldn't do drugs because I live in a big city, where drugs are put out in the open, and I haven't tried anything besides weed. Besides, I absolutely HATE people who pop pills.
With that also being said, I'm beginning to feel a type of way because he is one of those people. I don't hate him though and I don't want to end a three year relationship with him just because he is taking pills. I just don't know what to do or say to him anymore.
Please help. Any advice is welcomed. Thank you. (link)
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Hey! I kno you dont wanna end the relationship... but im a relationship, you need trust and communication!! and its not wrong to care about sumbody and their health! i kno you already tried talking to him, but is he doesnt care about wat you say, then i would consider breaking up! i kno you dont wanna, but maybe if you break up w/him and say im breakin up w/you b/c your taking pills, maybe he will finally listen and stop taking them to get you back IF HE REALLY CARES ABOUT YOU
hope i helped!
SiNcErLy,
DumB!
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This probably sounds really gay. But im OBSESSED with the computer. I mean im on AIM from 7 in the morning during school and until 930 - 10 @ night. I waste practically my whole day on it when i dont have school or something. I just want to get away from it and do something else but i can't! i (link)
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Well, GO SUMWHERE! like do sumthin with friends! you can...
*Take a bike ride
*Make sumthin crafty or w/e
*Call friends and see if they wanna do sumthin
*Rollerblade
*PLay with your pet.. but if you have a fish i have no clue how you would play it it!lol
*Volunteer somewhere
*Help out your mom or dad for cash
*Watch a movie
*play a sport (tennis, softball, basketball, and volleyball are the best)
*Just try somthin new!
Hope i Helped!
SiNcErLY,
DuMb!
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I want to start designing my own tshirts- and I'm not talking about iron ons and stuff like that. I'm talking about like, cute, haute-couture sort of stuff- orginal, like plain tshirts spruced up so much that they look completely different. Can someone help me or give me a site with ideas? I'm not a bad sewer. (link)
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First draw your degisne on a peice of papper. try to get ideas from ur fav stores!
~!duMMer!~
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Any tips on how to be more patient? It seems like when I'm waiting something that I REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEALLY want [lol] I cannot stop thinking about it. Any tips? (link)
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ok try keeping urself busy by:
*coloring
*singing
*farting (lol)
*reading
*watch tv
* call ur friends
~!duMMer!~
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ok so my guy friend i like him but idk he's been acting werid huging me and stuff touching my hair holding me and he always says i love u babe its freakin me out! wat should i do ? (link)
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He probably likes u and showing it in a different way. Or he just flirting wit u.
~!duMMer!~
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My friend and I are good friends and have good times and stuff like that! But she always takes advantage of me. Like she will always ask me for everything and get her things and sometimes i will do it and sometimes i wont! And when im around her friends, she just doesnt talk to me she ignores me. I mean she will talk to me but not like she does when its just me and her. Her friends and I are friends too. What should i do...she does treat me like a friend its just the taking advantage part i dont like!
I will rate and give feed back :) HeLp mE
*!*!*!*Morgan*!*!*!* (link)
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OK try to make new friends and see how she feels if she gets mad at u tell her how u didnt like her taking advantage of u.
~!DuMMer!~
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In high school, we get to choose which language we want to take- French or Spanish. I signed up for Spanish, but I'm having second thoughts. I like French a lot more, but I want to do what's best for me. Does anyone have any pros or cons for taking a certain language, or just general advice on what I should do? Thanks! (link)
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Any good ideas for a hairstyle with long bangs- yes I've clipped them back and pulled them back- I just need some more ideas =] They come up to about.. my chin! ♥ (link)
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OK you could look in magazines of ur fav celebes and see how the style there hair.
~!DuMMer!~
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