Question Posted Thursday November 3 2005, 10:19 pm
I really need someones opinion cos i cant figure this out. me and my guyfriend talk more everyday and now we're pretty close and i know i like him more than a friend. But i dont know if he likes me that way. He makes fun of me a lot and says hes kidding when i get annoyed. and he doesnt make fun of other girls that hes friends with. and he stares at me ALL THE TIME. what should i do? It seems like he likes me sometimes but i dont want to do anything that would ruin our friendship especially if he doesn't really like me.
thanx soo muchh<3
PePPerMIntPUnk answered Friday November 4 2005, 4:07 pm: okkay. this is what I did... and it worked for me... so dont say this is a bunch of bullshit. lol well i told the guy i liked him and he liked me back and it made our friendship stronger. we still talk to on the fone all the time and stuff and i can tell him anything and be myself around him... so like i would tell him and see if he likes you back. if he doesnt you can still be just as close. but if he stares at you ALL the time i think he likes you and if he treats you differently from other girls its kinnda obvouis. keep me updated on what happens!
hope i helped!
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Belladonna answered Friday November 4 2005, 4:57 am: You need to make a choice here. You can either do your best to get over him and keep him as a friend, or you could ask him whether he likes you. It may/may not ruin your friendship. You can never tell with these things. But if he's a true friend he won't let that make things awkward between you. These things happen all the time- friends fall for each other and sometimes they don't realize that they both liked each other until it's too late. Don't miss your chance.
If you do decide to go for it, to make sure, you could joke around with him and say "everyone keeps asking if we're a couple, how funny is that?!" and see how he responds. Alternatively, you get a third party to suss him out. Are you friendly with any of his guy friends? If you can trust them enough, tell them how you feel about the guy and ask them for advice. Other people seem to be able to pick up on these things really easily. Often they see things we don't, because they see them in a neutral light.
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