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Ok this is serious and I'm really scared. Please answer this truthfully. So today I was with my boyfriend of over a year at his house. He was fingering me and then he stuck his penis inside of me...without a condom. = ( I didn't realize that it was his penis. I quickly got it out, less than a minute. Then he went and got a condom and he put it in there for about five minutes tops. He wasn't being the rough but what are the chances of me getting pregnate? oh and by the way i'm only thirteen, but i've had my period. what do i do if i am pregnant and what is the earlyest i would be able to tell? i rate really high
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Woah woah woah, calm it down some. You have a right to be sacard. 1st off if your bf is 13 or 14 too then he had no right to be fingerin u or stickin his penis in you or asking you if he could. And you need to go with a freind and get a test to see if your are pregnant. And before you do that. TELL YOU PARENTS RIGHT AWAY! They'll be able to help you by letting you see a doctor to see if you are going to have a baby. But if you don't want to see a doctor still TELL YOR PARENTS! You'll be able to tell that you pregnant about a month or so. I really hoped i helped. Oh one more thing. Break up with ur bf. He, and you too, are to young to of had sex!
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I know what you mean. My boyfriend and I had just gotten done having sex and he wanted to know if he could get inside of me without a condom, just for a second. I let him and I was very freaked out for a month, as I should have been.
My advice is go to Planned Parenthood ASAP and get the emergency contraception pill. They make you pay according to income level so if you're broke they should give it to you for free. But it only carries a 70-89% rate of success, for reasons stated in the paper they give you. While you're there I also suggest getting on birth control so this need not be a worry for you.
And talk to your boyfriend about putting his penis in you without your consent, because that seems a little shady. Especially without a condom, because there is such thing as precum, which can contain sperm and can get you pregnant.
If I can ease your mind at all however I seriously doubt you are pregant but be more careful next time! But if you do happen to be pregant you will be able to tell from a test after you miss your period (if you do) and you need to tell an adult if you are, and go from there. Best of luck!
♥ Christina
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first of all, calm down, sweetie. go to a drug store with one of your friends and buy a pregnancy test. if it comes out positive, tell a family member, or guardian. if not, your fine. if you dont feel like going to get a pregnancy test, you can wait until next month when you are suppose to get your period, if it is more than about 5 days late, then tell someone
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hey! ok first of all don't freak out, but when a guy gets aroused he has "pre cum" which can get you pregnant. there is not as much sperm in it as in regular cum, but still there is a chance.
if you act quick, you can go to a doctor or a planned parenthood clinic and ask for the "day after pill." it is effective for 72 hours after intercourse and it has a 70 to 80% chance of preventing pregnancy. i strongly reccomend that you do this, just in case, because you don't want to end up pregnant at 13. explain the situation to a parent or a trusted adult ASAP and go get this pill!
if you don't want to or can't do this (which i strongly recommend that you DO just in case) then you can take an at home pregnancy test and see what the results say. you will have to wait a few weeks for this, because it won't be able to read it now.
also, why did your boyfriend do such a thing without consulting you about it first? that wasn't very smart of him, and i would talk to him about it to make sure that it never happens again. sex comes along with SO much responsibility... i don't know if it's something you guys should even be doing if he is putting his penis places without your knowledge!! good luck, and deffinitely talk to him about it because he needs to be more responsible from now on!! :)
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There can be a 50-50% chance but there is a higher possibility that you won't get pregnant. First of all, if he cummed and if it went inside you, then yes you could get pregnant. If he just put it and took it out nothing will happen. Next time, be more careful. You won't always be lucky. If you are pregnant (which you're probablly not) tell your parents or gardian first. It might be hard, but you need to tell an adult. You can usually tell when you're 3 or 4 months.
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