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guilt...
well you see i am soooooo guilty of what i have done i well... looked at porn all different kinds and i feel so guilty should i like bow down to my parents and like tell tem or shoul i live with it? I'm going on a trip in like a couple weeks and i dont think its going to be any fun being guilty. but i realized if i tell them i might not get to go on the trip!!!! HELP ME PLEASE!!!
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Seriously no big deal. The guilt is normal for young people and it will pass. It should pass quicker if you try to remember that you didnt do anything wrong. No one got hurt in any way, you just looked at something. No sweat.
Dont worry about the addiction thing either. Unless your closet is full of porn and you are currently investing in a new harddisk- you know, cause 160GB just cant fit all the vids you downloaded :) - then you are just fine.
Sometimes people blow this porn thing out of proportion. To think of all the real problems in the world today, I just cant believe people can get themselves to give a damn about this. Anyways, enjoy your trip, dont tell your parents, and just remind yourself that what you did was no big deal.
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If it is becoming an addiction then you need to tell them. Trust me, I know it's hard, but sometimes a clean conscience is the only cure.
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There's nothing really wrong with looking at porn as long as it's not becoming an addiction for you. Everyone looks at it from time to time just out of curiosity, and I mean EVERYONE. Anyone who claims to never have seen it before is either your great-great-great-great grandma or a liar. I wouldn't reccomend telling your parents about this because they will probably be upset with you for looking at it and probably won't let you go on your trip. Just concider this one of those adolecent learning experiences that everyone goes through... no big deal.
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hey! aww don't feel guilty, you really didn't do anything wrong! it's normal to be curious about things... you just wanted to see what it was all about! now that you did, you don't have to look at it again, or feel bad about it! everyone has seen some kind of porn, so don't freak out. just keep telling yourself that you didn't do anything wrong or hurt anyone, and eventually you won't feel bad about it! :) its ok!
oh, also it's not still on your computer is it? lol
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Well, doun't tell your parents or you will get yourself into huge trouble. If your a part of the Christian faith, you could go to Confession and get cleared of sins. If you're not Christian you won't know what that is. Just pray to God and say you're really sorry for what you've done and you want to be forgived. Okay, if you need more ideas give me a hollar! k? Good luck. :)
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don't tell them; save it for after the trip and many people will understand.. i dont look or watch people but i know how you feel sort of. tell them and trust me they will understand. everyone looks at porn well, a lot of people. and i am almost positive one of them did ;)
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It's totally, absolutely normal to look at porn. It's even normal to like it! Do NOT feel guilty about it, it's nothing bad at all. You were curious and wanted to see, there's no shame in that whatsoever. Don't worry and have fun on your trip :)
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