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okay...i'm 13, and just lost my virginaty yesterday. actually, i'm not sure if i did or didn't. i was raped by my next door neighbor who is 16, and has a gf. also, my bf came to find me, and caught me being raped, but he thought that we were actually having sex. now he's mad and won't talk to me because i won't have sex with him. i really need help talking to him and everything. and should i tell my parents? or not? help!!!
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First of all, you should tell your parents. Then,
you can tell you're boyfriend later. I know it will be hard, but you need to tell your parents! Good luck, and best of wishes!
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Listen sweetie I was Rapped when I turned 16 last year in august and you should tell your parents because if you don't it's gonna haunt you and soon as i got raped i Called the cops and they examined me and everything at the hosptial but after everything was over after 9 mnths i realized i was losen it i did'nt wanna go anywhere all i did was sat in my room all day and night but for now don't worry about your boyfriend worry about yourself your crying out for help but pleses tell your parents asap because if you son't he's gonna try to do it again so tell your parents first thing soon as you receive it please don't end up lie i almost did and that was crazy almost on my way to bellview so please tell them so you can make sure everything is okay before the damages and everything he did to your insides fade away then your parents are gonna thin that you were been having sex and make sure you tell the truth cause the cops are gonna ask you the same thing over and over then later on infront of the grand jury but please stay strong and don't be ashamed and hold your head down for no on ps any time you need help you can write me personally at www.Salena_galena@yahoo.com
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You need to tell your parents right away, don't wait, do it now. Thats the first thing. Make sure they call the police. Than after you have that handled explain everything to your boyfriend, he should understand. If you need any more help, just ask me. I hope everything works out.
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Tell your parents NOW. Call the rape crisis center in the phone book NOW. It's not your fault, so don't sweat your boyfriend and his negative vibes. TELL SOMEONE NOW!!
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TELL YOUR PARENTS RIGHT NOW.
YOUR NEIGHBOR NEEDS TO BE REPORTED.
He raped you. He need's to be taken away.
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YOU SHOULD TELL SOMEONE RIGHT NOW.
Rape is the worst thing ever, and you should tell someone about it. You should check the doctors to make sure your not pregent. And you should call your boyfriend and explain to him what happen AFTER telling your parents, and pressing charges on this boy.
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You have GOT to tell someone NOW. If this guy raped you, you need to report it to the police while his DNA is still on you. And yes, he has taken your virginity. The Police need to arrest him because he could have done this or might in the future do this to any number of girls. Don't let him get away with it.
I am so sorry that this has happened to you. It's truly awful but you need to tell your parents and you need to tell your boyfriend. If he really cares about you, he will believe you, especially when you go to the police about it. However, I would like to stress that you're only 13 years old and your boyfriend should NOT be upset with you because you won't have sex with him. You're underage and he shouldn't be putting any pressure on you to do this.
Speak to someone, don't suffer in silence and don't let him get away with it.
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you NEED to tell your parents. tell them everything and tell them how your boyfriend saw you being raped. they will probably call the police and you can go from there. the biggest mistake you can make now, is not tell.
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YES you need to tell your parents right away. I know it might seem awkward but you need to tell them. If they don't believe you, go to another adult, an aunt or even your boyfriend's parents. Your parents should take you to a hospital to make sure you are okay and then they can and most likely will press charges against your neighbor. What he did to you was wrong and you shouldn't let him get away with it. As for your boyfriend, try to explain to him what really happend and if he wont listen get your parents to talk to him.
I hope everything turns out alright <3
Kate
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Quite honestly, if you aren't very close with your parents, then it isn't a good idea to tell them.
1) They could get that kid in A LOT of trouble, which he no doubtably should, but if you don't want to get involved in a huge mess of legal matters, don't bother.
2) If your boyfriend doesn't trust you enough to believe that you weren't doing it because you wanted to and he's only mad because you won't have sex with him. Then you shouldn't be with him, he isn't in it for you, he's in it for what you could give him.
3) You didn't loose your v-card if you didn't say yes to having sex with him. So stop worrying, you're still a virgin. &make sure your bf knows that .. doesn't still think you aren't.
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You need to tell your parents. The police need called and the boy needs to be arrested.
No doubt your boyfriend will believe you after all that happens.
You will probably have to go to the emergency room and have a rape kit done for the police. They will check you out and make sure you are OK.
They will take samples that can be used against the boy in court.
They will also give you info for following up to be checked for STDs and pregnancy. May even give you a pill to make sure there is no pregnancy. :)
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omg you neeeeeeeed to tell your parents. if you told him no and he kept going then you NEED to tell them. its a CRIME and your only 13 years old.
Technically you lost your virginity, but since it wasnt mutal you could say your still a virgin.
You need to sue this guy, and make sure you tell your boyfriend that this guy raped you.
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omg yes tell your parents. they'll help you get in touch with police and you should go to the hospital to get tested and make sure everything is ok. as for your b/f. well put yourself in his shoes. seeing that would have been quite a blow especially since he thought you were doing something different. just call him or get him alone sometime and you should tell him the truth. he should trust that you are telling the truth. he might not know what to say at first, and maybe walk away. but in time he will most likely come back and comfort you, and you guys will be able to work things out. but omg i just wish you the best of luck in all this...i can only imagine how stressful and hard that would all be. xoxo helpachick
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Tell your parents right away and get a report filed. Rape is wrong. Don't let him get away with it. And after that have your parents take you to your boyfriend's house so you can talk to him about it. Tell him that you were being raped and explain that it hurts that he won't talk to you in this tough time in your life. Hopefully he will believe you and be there for you during this tough time. Either way you need to tell an adult, and fast! Best of luck and I'm so sorry this happened to you.
♥ Christina
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