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OK so i go to A LOT of pool parties.
and well the thing is, i usually look horrible after i get out of the pool!
I see other girls just get out and dry off and they look great but my hair is very thick and wavy and when it gets wet and dries on its own, it gets very dry and frizzy.
also my face gets really dry after i go in the water and at home i use a hydrating gel, but i cant at a pool party.
I also have some acne that i like to cover up with makeup but that usually washes off and i mean i try to bring coverup to touch up in the bathrooom but still.
I want to know what i can do to just have fun at a pool party and not have to worry about how i look?? (link)
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I bleach my hair so I have the same problem. All you have to do is when you get out of the pool put conditioner in your hair, not to much, but make sure you cover the whole head. It won't frizz. If that doesnt work for you message me and Ill tell you more ideas.
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i need help i want to change my image to like punk or emo but i havbe no idea what to do first (link)
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thats a hard one lol. Sorry it took so long for me to get back to you. But I guess start hanging out with punk/emo people. never be what you dont wanna be though. the usual sterotypes for this would be skinny jeans. and the typical emo hairstyle hah sorry I really cant help you
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I have wavy red hair a little below my shoulder. I want a cute hairstyle either my current length or a little shorter. My face is fuller and I don't want a haircut that would make my face look bigger.
Here's a pic of me:
http://i7.photobucket.com/albums/y294/mvinlover/Extra/l_8073facd243328ec72e2cfdf30145dbc.jpg
Any help will be appreciated. (link)
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Okay first I would actually grow your hair a little longer. Because since you said your face is "fuller" than you need the longer hair. second from seeing your picture I think a part in th middle/side with LONG bangs would be very cute.
Any more questions just ask
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14/f
i was textin` my boyfriend.. and then he had a problem w/ my top at first.. since he was number three.. but he had to understand that no guy can go before my bestestest friend.. and that i couldnt make her number 3 either.. and he didnt care about that, i think.. O.o and then it turns out that he didnt like the person on my top 1.. and stuff like that.. but he doesnt know her well enough to say things about her and all. and then later on he told me that he was going to miami next month for a week, and he said "it wouldnt be any difference.. we never get to see eachother anyways, we can js text." and i was lik` "i see you every week" and he said "haha yeahh.. wait lemme correct that, once a week." and he doesnt understand .. cause i have alot of things to do.. depends on the weather, my sister sometimes cant take me.. and my parents dont like me being w/ him and stuff.. and hes the only person i get to see every week since my friends live kinda far away from me. and then i said "is something bothering you?" and he said "no nothing at all" >.< and he says that hes thinking about the past.. and i told him that hes worrying me. and he said "whys that?" and i told him to reread that he said.. and yannoe what he said? "-_- whatever.." >.< idkk whats going on.. i wanna stop texting because im scared whats going to happen. he says he wouldnt leave me cause he loves me so much.. but idkk >.< im getting scared.. and worried. please help me!!! (link)
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I completely agree no guy should go before your best friend on myspace. I'm the same way. But if you have another guy before him on myspace, thats a different story. I think something is DEFINITELY bothering him, but avoiding him won't help. so I think you should settle everything with him before h leaves for miami. guys usually like to see their girlfriends a lot, maybe he thinks your cheating on him for not seeing him all the time, which is his own security issues.Did you see him a lot more before yous started going out? That could be what he meant by the past. But you just need to talk to him. Avoiding him and not texting him won't help you. I think you need to call him and be like Listen I know somethings wrong tell me.Let me know how it goes! Any more advice just ask. Good luck.
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Does anyone know of a simple code i can use for my myspace to get 2 pictures on one thing...like...1 picture, then another one underneath...wht do i do? Something inthe caption?
thanks.
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exactly what the other poster said lol but just a note:
if you use photobucket just use that second code/link under the pic !=]
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Does any1 know how to delete your history on google?? i need to know by tomorrow which would be June 8th.. (link)
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open up your internet explorer click on tools, properties. and click clear history, and than click delete passwords. any more help just ask!
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I made out with this guy... umm he was HORRIBBLLEEE.
I just don't know what he was doing haha. Anywayss, basically, I'm afraid that he would tell people that I'm a bad kisser, because he doesn't really understand the way to french/make-out. Like I just don't think he grasps the concept of how to make out...
Anyways, now we're like pretty much hookup partners haha, so how do I adjust to his kissing or is there something I could do to improve the way he kisses? (link)
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okay you dont wanna hurt his feelings.
but I'm not exactly sure what he is doing SOO wrong so if u need more advice ask me. but give himt he why dont you try this... but say it in a way it doesnt look like u think hes a bad kisser. teach him.
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Okay, you said you'd help so here ya go. Oh And you don't have to type all proper, I will read anything. :)
1st guy- Tyler [14 years old] Prep, HATES emo people, cusses, is bad but really sweet to girls, hilarious, likes to fish etc., thinks he's all that, wears certain shoes and shorts, skater, MAJOR MAJOR PREP, reallreallyreally nice to girlfriends, likes the fast heavy metal music, is a drummer, use to be fat but now really toned up and muscular and skinny and hot, has had sex 5 times (so he says), kinda lies alot, told me he loved me (few months ago) but then got a girlfriend (who just broke up with him), talks/sees his girlfriends everyday when he's dating someone. Doesn't go to church alot, but is a christian. likes girls who are outgoing. has a pretty good sense of humor...but is usually nasty. plays football.
2nd guy- Will [15 years old] Amazing. Not too preppy, just awesome. Kinda smart. Likes the same music as me, the old stuff like 80s and 80s (eagles steve miller band ac/dc etc) Goes to church every sunday and wednesday. use to smoke weed, but quit because he knew it was bad. very religious. likes to have fun. likes to swim. when he likes a girl, he is up front with them. wants a seriuos relationship. likes girls who are outgiong. funny, watches family guy etc, funny shows. plays football and is on the wresteling team and works out at the gym. I went out with him before, but he stopped liking me "because i didnt say more than 2 words to him" (thats what he said)
3rd guy- Tyson [15 years old] Kinda emo. Shy at first but once you get to know him, he's hilarious and awesome. He's super sweet and he'll drop what he's doing for anyone. Not the leader of a conversation. Doesn't date many girls. Really sweet. Lives with his mom and a bunch of sisters (thats probably why he is sweet) (link)
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i tried typing regular haha but when you type an answer you have to type a certain way or the thing like corrects it. its weird.
im confused on what u wanna know. and i take it u wanna know what guy haha. but the first guy the bad things are: from what you described he thinks hes all that, lies, if he did have sex 5 times experienced. but the good things are guys who are preppy are usually hott hah in my opinion. and hes really nice to his gfs. and you want a boyfriend you can see almost everyday.
the second guy the only bad things is that he broke up with you because you only said "two words to him" if he really liked you he shouldnt have broken up with you just for that. but besides that he seems okay.
tyson seems good. I find it cute that he is shy at first. depending on your personality that could be a bad or a good thing. I personally would go with tyson guy. I dont think your too into the first guy especially because he seems to have the most negative things. any more help let me know. tell me how it all works out.
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For my birthday im getting a coach bag. I cant decide which one i want though :
This one :
http://www.coach.com/content/product.aspx?product_no=9353&category_id=256
orr
http://mirror.replicasi.com/productInfo.asp?MercID=2&ProdID=1931
Pros and cons of each bag would be great if you want to thanks :] (link)
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the first ones real & its cute. it goes with every outfit
the second one isnt that cute. and its fake.
plus it really wouldntt go with much.
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I want to describe 3 boys, and someone tell me what kind of girls each one of them would like. But I don't want to describe it on here incase they read it. So someone just answer and tell me if you're willing to help. [15/f] (link)
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I'll helpp =]
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I forget what the flavors were.. but their colors are YELLOW, ORANGE, PINK, OR RED. pick any one of those 4 colors. please dont say something else like "green" because that wont help me at all.. its for this project i have to do in school. thanks for helping! ♥ (link)
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lemon & orange is my favorite.
I dont know what flavor the orange one, but I think its just orange? haha
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Alright i'm a guy i tried to straighten my hair for the first time and it didnt quite go so well. one thing is i totally dont know how to do it. i used my mom's and it was clip on type thingy. i noticed it gets warm and then really hot to help straighten my hair. so do i put my hair between the hot metal bar and clip and how long do i keep my hair between it? i want my hair to be straight going down my forehead andi dont want it to curl up or in any other direction just straight down because lateron when my hair gets longer im gonna have an Emo hairstyle. so basically im a simple guy asking a simple question on how you straighten your hair. girls you can tell me every bit of detail on how you do this stuff and guys that straighten their hair tell me some tips. lol (link)
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okay well u wait for it to heat up...
than you take a section of your hair and put the top part * by ur scalp* in between the two metalish things haha and than just move it down, repeat until its straight. any more questions let me know!
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what if you made out with a guy in party and when you were drunk is that slutty or what? this is your second or third time
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no this isnt slutty.
I do it too.
but if you had sex it would be totally different.
but watch the guys your with when you are drunk because some guys, while this is wrong, will take advantage.
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what is this song?
ive tried finding it on google and i cant find it and its driving me crazy cuz its stuck inmy head
the only part i know is
"i've got 32 flavors of that bootylicious bubblegum" (link)
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the song title is: rock yo hipss
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ok i used this tanning bronzer but i have spots (like my hands and feet) were its darker how do i remove some of it i mean i used nail polish remover and it helped a lil any other ideas? (link)
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I'm not sure what tanner you used but the one I used what I did was I stopped using it obviously lol and than in the shower wherever the spots were I just used olay and a washcloth and scrubbed harderr and it came off pretty easily.
any more questions feel free to ask.
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Ok tomorow is my friends get together with the most popular guys in the 8th grade and im in 7th. I know this guy wants to make out with me whcih im a liitle freaked out but thats not what im worried about. I have no idea what to wear. I have these really cute shirts but i can't decide. Please pick your favorite!
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_328235_-1_12648_12635
but this is in yellow
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_333643_-1_12622_12552
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_332640_-1_12647_12635
Be honestt!! hurry please
and thanks ahead! (link)
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Id go with the 2nd.
The 1st one I'd save for when the summer =]
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Alright, I found a tube of lip gloss on my desk at school today. well, it was victorias Secret, very expensive, it was a full tube, and it seemed like it was only used a few times!
well, what is the chance of me getting anything if i use it? is it even possible to catch anything, other than maybe being sick, but like disease or antyhing from it? (link)
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thats a bad idea.
there are many stds that can be contracted through lip gloss and sharing drinks.
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is england a country? (link)
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yeah
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Okay so i have some jewelry. And i think its pretty nice too. So i really need money. So you know those places where you go and like sell the jewelry to the store. Well What are those places called?
Think its a good idea? (link)
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Those kind of stores are called Pawn stores. I would be careful because some owners and kinda shady and might try to rip you off. If you do decide to go I think it would be a good idea to bring an adult.
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can anyone tell me when, where, [also what did he discover] "isaac newton" was brn? and why is he popular.. just wondering.. were studying about him in math.. and im really curious!!! please help me!! (link)
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according to galileoandeinstein.physics.virginia.edu/lectures/newton.html
Isaac Newton was born Christmas Day 1642 in older calander terms but it would really be January 4th, 1643 ( I have no idea thats just what it says. He was born in a manor house located in Woolsthorpe, Lincolnshire, England. Isaac Newton is popular because he was one of the world's greatest scientists and explained the universe through math. He used formulas to explain his theories and findings. Hope I helped, anymore questions feel free to ask =]
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