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Hey you guys.. Im Alli.. im 15 years old and I live in the Woodlands.. Im in a dancing/singing group Called #1 Crush.. and its my life... i dance and sing everyday... and its amazing that i get to do what i love everyday of my life. Make sure that you check out our website at www.onecrush.com or our music myspace at www.myspace.com/1crush... So im up for any questions.. ask away.. and ill try my best to help

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what should i do? i have a friend who i'm pretty close with but we got in a fight over something stupid and are both to stubborn to fix it...any advice?

SOunds like i answered this below

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what should i do? i know this girl and we've been friends for a few months... we get in a fight over something stupid and are both too stubborn to fix it

sounds like me..:-)

how bad do you want the friendship..fight for it.. IM SURE she doesnt want to loose you

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hey im sorry this is a wierd question but its really important... my boyfriend said he wants to engage in anal penitration... is this abnormal? do we need to take a break or should i go with it?

- aaron -

ha um.. its a decision that HAS to be made by you... and if you DONT want to then tell your boyfriend that.. and if that causes you to break up *or take a break*(breaking up for those to weak to say the words)... then you know he wasnt there for the right reasons... if you were concerned enough to ask me over the internet.. then it doesnt truely seem like you are ready for what your boyfriend wants...
SO honestly.. in my opinion.. i would say SLOW DOWN.. even though you thikn you are ready for it... asking someone for their opinion proves your not

but.. i can only tell you my opinion.. as i said above.. this decision HAS to be made by you...

hope i helped you out

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What if you are not allowed to go places with your friends by yourself. My mom and dad would never let me do that. They are way to srtict and i would have to have parent supervision like where ever i go. Plus my bf already left for the whole summer an i no that it is a lot of money to call from over seas but like i am always the one to call him and he never calls me. he didnt even call when the mavericks lost to the heat in the nba finals! and we are like really big bball fans beacuse my dads the coach of the mavs. . .but n e ways it kinda stinks that we will prob. never get to go n e where. but our familys are friends and i could just say we wana go somewhere but then theyll like follow us "supervise" where ever we go which really stinks.

hope u can help
ur band is awesome
*CHRISTI*

ps. if u show this letter to BAM or brittney she'll probably no who i am. laugh out loud( this thing wouldnt let me writ laugh out loud like in abbreveatiions!). by the way where can i buy one of your shirts for the band!?!?!?!?? :-)

While is he is gone.. its alot to expect your boyfriend to call you... its very difficult believe me.. but the only thing i can think of is to see if your parents would let you invite a group of friends (including your boyfriend) to come over and watch a movie.. or something like that... promise to keep guys out of your room and doors open and lights on.. and not sharing blankets with guys.. so that they can come check whenever they want to.. hopefully you parents with see that you are very willing to obide by there rules but would like to spend time with your boyfriend and friends :-)

our #1 Crush shirts will soon be sold on our website www.onecrush.com
but for now are being sold at our concerts (which concert dates are also posted on the website)

hope i helped
--ALLI

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alli i just want to ask you from a peer standpoint how does it feel being a star? do you feel like nick lache when you walk around the local food market?

hahahaahhaha



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alli i really need your help.. my dad got a job in alaska, which means.. i have to move there.. well i have lived in the woodlands my HOLE life, and i cant imagine life anywhere else.. all my friends are here... i have made a commentment to my cheerleading team.. i love the school im at.. and my parents just expect me to pack up and go..? my dad really wants this job though, and i want him to be happy.. but if i move there... i know im going to rebel, get myself into trouble,not socialize, and just be miserable and a pain in the ass. but the thing is, is my best friend... i already like live at her house.. and i love her parents.. so i was thinking about me finishing out my high school years here, like living with her,(my best frined..she has 3 extra bed rooms..and her parents love having extra people around.. so its not like they dont have room.. they do).. i mean i will only have 3 more years left.. and then i will be off to college.. and i understand it would be hard for my parents to just leave me.. but i am just not moving..i cant.. i would be leaving my sister and brother behind becasue they are both in college here.. even though my dad has talked to my sister about switching colleges.. (which is NOT right) but i just cant leave here.. most people who havent lived here their hole lives dont like it.. but i have lived here since i was 1.. so this is all i know.. and i love it here.. yea there are some ups and downs.. but every place has its downs.. well i guess what im trying to say is *how do you think i could convince my parents to let me just stay here and live with my best frined*.. like i will be turning 16 in july.. so that means i will be getting a job.. and this could teach me to be responsible. also, during like easter and christmas and other like 3day(or longer) weekends.. i would go up there to be with them.. and i am the baby of the family.. so i understand it would be hard.. but you would think if they really wanted me to be happy.. they would just let me stay.. but when i brought it up to my mom.. she got her feelings hurt and was like .."that really hurts that you could just be able to leave your parents.." or something like that.. like yea it would be hard.. but i mean my education is going well here.. and she was also like "i want you to learn OUR values and OUR morals.." but its NOT like the family i would be with runs a whore house or anytihng.. like they are very responsible parents and they love me like their own.. but my dad seemed like i MIGHT be able to do that(live with my best friend i mean).. but you know how it goes.. the MOM always has the final word.. so i really need your help al.. i cant say who i am because if my dad doesnt want me to tell anyone.. i just dont know what to do or say.. everytime my dad brings it up or sometihng i just burst into tears.. and my dad knows i dont want to.. but he really wants this job.. so please help me al.. i just dont know what to do anymore.. sorry this is so long..



Alaska.. wow.. i would try to explain to your parents that you completely support them in the job move.. but you have made you life here.. with your friends and your school.. and that the woodlands is one of the highest ranked education system.. explain to them that you would get a job and support yourself and wouldnt RELY completely on them.. or your best friends family.. explain that you feel you are resonsible enough to handle the burden of supporting yourself.. make a plan.. and show your parents... that this COULD work...and you are willing to do whatever it takes to keep your life under control... that you understand that they want you to move.. but staying here will benifit you alot more.. show them you love them.. and will visit often.

hope i helped!

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so this older guy used to contact me a lot and we got sort of close. feelings started to form and then all of the sudden he just dropped me and doesnt talk to me anymore. when we make eye contact he laughs, in public he ignores me, but then again he used to tell me how much he liked me and wanted to be with me. is that a sign of "leave me alone" or what? idk how to handle this boy anymore. what do you think i should do about it

in my opinion is obvious that hes not as into you as he used ot be.. i would try to move on... you shouldnt be laughed at by the guy you like.

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Ok so I had this really big crush on this person that I have a slim chance with. I told this person how i felt and got completley denied of anything more than friendship. This person had a vacation for a week or so and now are back and have contacted me multiple times to hang out. I've ignored a few for fear that i might regain my crush, and now i really want to hang out with this person without ever feeling like more than a friendship. What do I do.

this is very hardd.. but you will need to learn to accept them as a friend without ignoring themm

maybe not (one on one) time.. l;ike maybe a BUNCH of you and your friends and her and her friends hang out and see a movie.. something like thatt

hope i helped

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are you guys REALLY opening up for ASHLEE SIMPSON?!

Yeaa.. were on the side stage June 16th at the Ashlee Simpson Concert

tickets on sale now..
also new shirts as well as the old will be sold..

so make sure you come see uss

All new merchandise
4 new songs
All new show

--Alli!

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What if your boyfriend still says that he is interested but he never says i love you or ily on text any more or on any thing. An i am the one always saying i love you and love ya lots. Also since he wont ask me to go on a date how do you ask him to go on a date. But on top of that my mom and dad dont know that were going out because i am not really aloud to have a boyfriend yet. But he used to come over to my house because his brother would come over and play with mine so he would come to. But i just dont how to do it with out my mom knowing. Next, my friend who has been friends with him since kindergarden told me that he told him that my boyfriend isnt the kissing type and holding hands type of person! so i have no idea where this relationship is going to go if theres not of that stuff involved in it.

I have a lot of problems as you can tell,
Hope can help,
*CHRISTY*
ps. wen is ur debut cd coming out

alrighhtt.. so..i def think its weird that your boyfriend stoped saying *i love you* and *love ya lots*.. but maybe he doesnt know thats important to you.. also.. since neither of you can drive (im assuming) its hard to go on an actual date.. but group dates can also be funn.. just meet up with ur girlfriends at the mall.. and have ur boyfriend and a couple of his friends come.. and walk to the movies.. or around market street.. something like that.. that way it wont be such a *DATE* and your parents might be more open to that idea... and consider it a GOOD thing that your boyfriend isnt the Touchy Feely type.. you know hes not using you.. and it will be more special when anything does happen :-)



hope i helpedd ya outt
Alli

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What if you dont want to ask a guy straight forward if ur interester? Because your kind of scared what he will say and how u would ask it. its really hard.

Christy

i can def see where it might be hard to ask.. but its the best way (in my opinion) to get a straight answer.. i know its hard and embarrising... but if its to hard to ask in person or on the phone.. even on the internet.. ask him where he sees you guys? ask him if he could see having a relationship.. or can only see being friends.. make SURE you express that you will be fine with whatever he chooses.. so its not like you are forcing him into a relatonship he might not want

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How do you know that your boyfriend really likes you? He never textes me and im always the one to text him and he never calls me. He used to say i love you or ily but now he says nothing. And he is goin away for the summer, so ill never get to see him until school starts again. He never asks me to go any where. I just dont no wat to do and i seem to be the one making the moves allllll the time and it stinks. by the way im 15 and im a girl.

hope u can help,
thanks,
christy
ps. ur band is so cool and keep up the good work!!!

well.. from the wayy you made this sound.. you might just want to ask him straight forward if he is still interested... bc honestly you shouldnt ALWAYS have to make the plans/moves/efforts

Hope i helped
Alli

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hey alli! uhr. so this boy and i have been off and on dating all through this year. he insists we are meant to be together, but i dont want to find my soul mate when i am only a junior in highschool. i dont know how to tell him how i feel because i know he will be crushed, and i cant let him down, but then again this summer i want to have fun, not have to worry about a boy friend. help! :)

well to me
this seems like you are ready for a break... but want to spare his feelings

in my opinion.. theres ho reason to keep in the relationship tthat you dont really want.. but i wouldnt lie about it either.. tell him what you told me.. that you dont want this kind of relationship being only a junior in highschool.

it might crush him to learn that your feelings arent as strong but you may as well gie him the summer to move where you are
dont feel like you are letting him down, your not, you have to follow your heart.. and do what you feel



and theres nothing wrong with having a boyfriend in the summer... having a boyfriend doesnt make your summer not fun.. so im not sure what to tell you about that


hope i helped you outtt
Alli

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i have a problem.... i often get erections irregularly. its embarasing especially when i walk down the hallway in school with a woody the sice of a baseball bat stickin out of my pants.... do u have any sugestions for me?

haha.. im sorry.. that suckss
i dont really have suggestions

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alli,
im really shy at school and keep to myself. even when people talk to me im not very open. but when im not at school i am a fun person to be around. how can i open up more? any pointers?

i would suggest finding a group that you are not shy around and can be yourself.. take small steps.. and the more you feel like yourself in front of that group and are accepted the more you will be able to be your self in front of your other class mates ;-)!

hope i helpedd

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So i was at your show on Saturday at the artway festival thing and yall were really good! Are yall on radio disney or anywhere i can let my family and friends hear yall!!

thankss! umm were on radio disney a little.. not alot yet.. we dont have a "label" yet... so the best way to listen is our music is myspace @ www.myspace.com/1crush
or check out our shows!

muahh! thankss

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why do i love alli cannon so much?

mm hard to sayy

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alli-
heyyy so i have a major problem.. its so embarrassing tho.. but lately i have been having really bad diarrhea diarrhea diarrhea diarrhea, and today at school this group of kids heard me in the bathroom, they wont stop laughing at me now.. i just dont know what to do! they all call me diarrhea diarrhea diarrhea diarrhea girl now.. should i say something to them?

thats kinda your choice.. theres nothing you can really say to themm..

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i have a bf, we have been going out for 7 months, and he is most liky going to anohter school next year, im scared that he is goign to brek up with me becase he is leaving, or if he finds another girl he will like better...
HELP

i just answered this question

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ok, so i have this bf, and we have been going out for like, EVER! (7 months) and he will probabaly go a different school next year, and im really sad, but im scared too, wat if he breaks up with me? Or wat if he finds another girls he likes better?

well...this question is kinda vague... is he going to a different Highschool or Junior High.. or is he going to college... if he is going to a different college.. in a different city.. that will be VERY hard..if its just a diffrent school.. then it shouldnt be a big deal.. as long as you trust each other to not do anything with anyone else.. only time will tell what is going to happen

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