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HElp!!! asap
Well its been about 2 weeks sense i had sex, we used a condum and everything we were so careful even after we had it for the first time we checked and made sure there was no hole and i'm suppose to start my period right now at end of the month well didnt come and i took 2 test to see both came back negative and i still havent started my period. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like a year and 3months first time we did it! i just need help i fit doesnt start soon by this week were going to the doctor well i live in san antonio i dont know were to go because if i do they might tell my parents???
please help
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Okay first thing, your doctor would not be able to tell your parents because as long as you are over 12, I think it is, they cannot discuss your problems with anyone but you without your consent, so please don't worry about this.
Next thing, I very much doubt that you are pregnant but please bear in mind that condoms are not 100% effective and if you really want to ensure you won't get pregnant, get yourself put on the Contraceptive Pill, when you visit your doctor, so you are using condoms and the Pill - which is 99.9% effective - at the same time. It's what the Dutch call going 'Double Dutch'. The Pill will also help to regulate your periods and I highly suspect that irregular periods are the reason you haven't come on yet, rather than pregnancy.
Don't worry too much for now. Get yourself to a doctor as soon as you can if you don't get your period. He will be able to confirm if you are pregnant and if you aren't, get yourself put on the Pill.
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This is something you and your boyfriend need to discuss. What if you are?
But in my opionion, you almost certainly are not. You took 2 tests, and you checked the condom. Even after a few times with sex, your cycle can be thrown off, just another fun trick our feminine bodies like to play. If you still don't get your period in another week, take another text, it will be basically absolute by then. But try to relax, doctors are tied with a doctor-patient confidentiality, and if you ask around, if the need arises, you will find a good doctor that will respect that confidentiality.
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hey! well you took 2 tests, and they came out negative so i don't really think you have anything to worry about. when you first start having sex, it can throw off your cycle a bit, so it is normal for your period to be late. i suggest waiting a week or two, and if you don't get it then do one more pregnancy test... if it comes out negative again, then go see a doctor. do you have planned parenthood where you live? do a google search or go to their website at plannedparenthood.com! anything you say to them they HAVE to keep confidential, so they will not tell your parents.
also, don't forget that if you are younger and just recently started your period, it can still be irregular! i don't think you have much to worry about... just wait a little longer, i am sure you will get it soon! :) be careful and good luck!
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They cant tell your parents... its completely confidential. And you should go to the nearest Planned Parenthood... look it up online or in a phonebook to find the closest one to you.
Sometimes periods are late after sex, especially for the first time, because your body isnt used to what has just happened. it will want to form an egg and since the sperm couldnt fertilize it it will take a little bit longer. Also stress can make your period late.
I hope you arent preggy =]
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