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Last Update: July 19, 2006
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its mar by the way! =]

okey dokey

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haha. hey laura! i cant believe you borught this back again. i tried to log into mine, but i couldnt figure out what my password was. i made a new one but its not that great. so i probably wont even use it. haha well i think its just so funny how you brought this one back beacuse this was like so popular in what...7th grade?? haha. love you!

hahaha yeah man...but who is this? abbey? marley? haha well yeah its pretttty sweet!
-laura

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yo yo yo, i like this girl. she said she likes me but she always flirts with my best friend... hook me up with a sweet response

ok well i would tell her that you think she is flirting with your friend...maybe she isn't meaning to or something else. Just tell her that you really like her and if she likes you too thats great. but if you still see her like flirting with your friend i would definately talk to her about it and tell her how you feel about it. she should understand! write back if you need anything else!

*lauren

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ok so im kinda known as the "sweet girl" and like nice to everyone but im quiet and im kinda sensitive and i used to have a lot of friends. but two of my friends didn't really like each other but now they hang out with each other more than they hang out with me. it sucks and so idk what to do and i can't just be like "well i dont want yall to hang out anymore you should hang out with me now" so yeah

ok well you need to "put yourself out there"! be loud and fun to be around and its great to be freinds with everyone!about the friend thing--tell them that you love that their friends now but kinda feel excluded and try to plan something that all three of you can do together!
good luck and write back if you need to!
--laura

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I LOVE MATTHEW BOYD! i can't get over it!

ok i don't really see what you are asking...but i guess if you really love him that's great! are you like wanteing to go out with him? if so, i would get a friend to talk to him about it or something...write back if you need anything else!

-lauren

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i used to be really popular and then suddenly no one likes me and whenever i want someone to come over or something they ALWAYS find a reason to say no. and once i asked 15 people over and all of them said no. but i do have a boyfriend. and it seems that now that ive got one people are being even meaner. and its not that they are jeaulous cause they have boyfriends do. and its this one girl that always steals my friends. i really want my friends to like me again.....what should i do????

hmm this is a hard one...i would just talk to them and ask them if they really hate you or if they are mad at you...definately just talk it through with all the people that you think are being mean. talk to that girl who is "stealing your friends"...they can be your friends and her friends too so don't get too mad.
love ya!!

-lauren

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i really like this guy and one of my friends really likes him too!! everyone is saying i have a better chance then her but idk about that!! it makes me REALLY mad because she is ALWAYS flirting with him and doing all this weird stuff to him!! what should i do?

ok well all i can say it to not worry about the guy and think about remeining friedns with the girl because friends will last longer than guys. if you really like this guy, keep liking him and dont let it bother you when the other girl flirts with him! i understand its annoying but you have to realize that they have just as much right to like him as you, even if people say you have a better chance. i say keep liking him but dont let him ruin your friendship and try not to get annoyed by this other girl! good luck and write back if needed!
-laura

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I have a girlfriend and i rly rly rly like her but i dont think she likes me anymore or likes me as much as she did. She says she does like me alot bt idk if she's tellin the truth and our relationship isn't exactly great especially with her living so far away but i rly love her so much what should i do?

well have you talked to her about it? ask her if she rly means it and just talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. and if you feel like yall's relationship isn't that great, well i would tell her that! and just because she lives far away doesnt mean she doesnt love you as much! don't let that ruin yall's relationship! good luck and write back if you need anything else!!
xoxo

-lauren

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well this girl likes my boyfriend and she keeps trying to break us up and she is always flirting with him...and she's always talking bad about me and telling people that we don't like each other and we're having problems staying together..which isn't true. it's kind of hard that we go to different schools but she won't give up on him and she say things to him and does things that really makes me feel like she's going to steal him, and i would NEVER do these things to her and i dont know what i did to deserve this. like one time she told him to she wanted to make out with him while he was going out with me. not only what i not do that to her, but i would NEVER do that to anyone! what should i do?

ok well i would definately first talk to ur boyfriend about it! then talk to her about it!! you should rly just tell your bf and her that you aren't comfortable with it, and then maybe yall can talk it through and work it out! good luck and write back if you need anything else!

lauren

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yo i never say yo
i didnt say i liekd becky
matt b

ok thanx matthew! so whoever was wondering if he did, he apparently doesnt!

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okay- two guys like me, they are best friends, i went out with one but he broke up with me becuz he found out his best friend liked me. now i like his best friend, not him. but now they both like me and idk wat to do.... help! --anonymus

hmmm ok, well if they are both your friends, don't make one feel really bad. i guess just be nice to both of them. i would say to move on from both of them, you dont wanna get them in a big fight, im sure you can find someone else where no one will get hurt. if you have any other questions or the advice doesnt really work, just write to us again!
good luck!
we love you!

-lauren and laura-

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ok my friends hated my bf with a passion and then the minute i break up with him, they absolutely love him? whats up with that??

--faked out.

its laura--
well my best guess is that they were jealous. they couldve felt like you were spending more time with your boyfriend and neglecting them. try talking to your friends and the guy about it (seperately)!
good luck write back if needed!
-laura

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ok so the first jesuit game this year..i got to talk to an old guy friend, who i knew from last year. and when i would talk to him my friend would always walk up to me and him. and now i like him, and so does she. but i knew him first, and im better friends with him. but my friend liked him, then got a dif. bf, and now likes him again. and i knew him first and i like him more. i dont know what to do

its laura--

well, if you knew him first, great! but i think you should talk to your friend about it and that you like him and want a chance with him since you knew him first. but really, dont make it a big deal with your friend! maybe he likes you and not you friend, maybe not. just dont let a guy mess up your realationship with your friend!! there are plenty of other fish in the sea! and maybe your friend will realize that you really like this guy and know him better...maybe not! maybe you should see how it goes with your friend and him! whatever feels right!
write back if needed!
-laura

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yo. i do like becky.
matt the cat.

ok thanks matthew! ok so for whoever was wondering if matthew likes becky i guess it is true! unless matthew or whoever wrote this is lying! ok well what ever! haha

-lauren

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ok i really like this guy and he says he apprently likes me or thinks i'm pretty, but idk....anyways he has a girlfriend and they like really like each other!! but i have heard lately that he thinks she doesnt like him! i mean im sure they will stay together for a while, but i dont know and i dont know whether to give up or not!

ok...well i would not give up on him...it sounds like he and his gf could be having some relationship problems...if he said you are pretty and he might like you i would definately not give up! keep hangin in there girl!
xoxo

-lauren

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ok so there is this guy i like and me and my friend both met him,and i heard he liked my friend, that night when we got home i asked her is she liked him and she said no, it turned out he liked me instead and asked me out and i said yes. now she is being totally wierd about it, and reallly awkward, how do i talk to her about it without it being just wierd

well this is a tough one! it sounds like your friend is just jealous or maybe she rly does like him and she just doesnt want to admit it! just ask her if she feels weird about you and him going out and tell her how you have been noticing her acting weird...she should understand! write back or IM me on leono237 if u need more help! good luck

-lauren

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i really like becky but i dont know how to tell her..

its laura

umm just go up to her and tell her i guess...its good to take risks! maybe she feels the same way and if not, move on!
good luck write back if needed!

-laura

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The girl I like already has a boyfriend and he is a jerk. So should I wait it out to tell her that I like her?

--its laura

yeah, you could probably tell her, but only if you want...i would probably wait it out so the other guy doesnt get mad and let her find out that her boyfriend is a jerk then go for it if/after they break up!

good luck write back if you need to!
--laura

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I like this girl but I don't know how to say it to her. What should I do?

well, girls loveeee to know that someone likes them...do you like her so much that you want to ask her out? just tell her the truth and what you feel about her...thats the best thing to do. good luck and write back if you need anything else!

-lauren and laura

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does matthew brooks really like becky or is that just a joke?????

umm i really don't know!! i never heard anything about it, so im sorry! i guess try asking someone else! write back if you need anything else!

-lauren

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