ok here it goes there are a couple of guys that i am interested in and i cant decide who i like the best ( im 16/f) the first one is reelly hott and hilarious but he gets in trouble alot too and theres this other guy hoos one of my good friends and stuff but he annoys me all the time(hes just a little less hott)in a flirting kinda way and another guy who is so sweet and i know he likes me cause he asked me out before but i said no. So i was wondering if anyone could tell me which guy i should go out with and why *ill rate good for a good answer*
Additional info, added Sunday August 14 2005, 4:36 pm: oh yeah and the first guy has already asked me out too. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xl_h0ll0w_Li3s_lx answered Sunday August 14 2005, 11:08 pm: well it looks like the second kid is definitly not the one to go out with if he annoys you .. um . the first guy ehh .. he seems pretty hott from what im readin but him getting in trouble could get him grounded so you'd never see him or like.. you could be with him when he got in trouble so you'd get in trouble yah know? soo i saythe last guy since he is sweet and stuff. i mean he could make you happy and not get you in trouble and not annoy you ,you know what im saying hun?
GraspingToControl answered Sunday August 14 2005, 9:24 pm: i say the very sweet one,because if the first one gets introuble alot he probally wont get to see you alot because hes to busy getting introuble and if the second one annoys you.. cross him out. and the 3rd one seems sweet and theres nothing wrong with him in your eyes. then i say go for him!!
MCRfreak8 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 9:04 pm: OMG GIRL! You bettr go 4 the 1 that asked you out and you said no! Mayb he still likes you, and now you're finally realizing that you mite like him too. Hope my advice is wut happends! Thnx. [ MCRfreak8's advice column | Ask MCRfreak8 A Question ]
CApeach93 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 7:18 pm: i think you should pick who you feel most best with and comfortable with. someone who you can talk to if you are upset or someone who will be understanding if you want to break up. that is the kind of boy you want. follow your heart and it will lead you on a good path. [ CApeach93's advice column | Ask CApeach93 A Question ]
Ask_Kayla answered Sunday August 14 2005, 6:27 pm: you cant always go on looks or how hot he is..you have to go by personalty and how he acts..
personal expericence--> this really hot guy asked me out he is really nicen adn everythting but he has the worst attuide and he is like a bad boy I liked him but i told my self that i would never go out with him..the next day i got asked out by this guy that i liked for along time and he wasnt hot but he is really sweet and you can trust him with everything he has had problems but i have deal wiht them and he cares about what i say and listens and he was my best friend so we just got alot closer and we have been goign out for more than a year now
it depends on how you look at it! i cant choose for you but at least you have to ask your self which one the hot bad boy the one that annoys you all the time or the sweet guy that has asked you out befor.you have to chose
Spark120 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 6:14 pm: i'd go for the 1st guy...but thats because i like bad boys... ;) But i mean, they all sound nice...you seem to like them all for different reasons.
Now, i cant tell you which one to like, because i dont know you...
the way i would find out is by not thinking bout the guy..but think like "whats my favorite thing in a guy?" and which ever one has that in their personality, then go with them...then you'd get what you want.. :D
x_pink_x109 answered Sunday August 14 2005, 5:46 pm: I think you should ask the first guy out because he's hot (you say) and you KNOW he likes you. You don't need to JUST look at looks. You shouldn't just look at an ugly person and assume he/she must be weird. But good looks are good and hey, you don't want an ugly boyfriend, right?You also want someone with a sense of humor and who is funny and always makes you laugh and cheers you up when you're sad. He seems caring AND hot and that is a REALLY rare combination.
Usually, hot guys think their too good for everyone because they know they can get any girl they want and for him to be hot AND funny, that's really rare... BUT GOOD!
The second choice would be the sweet one. Again, you KNOW he likes you because he asked you out. You want one who cares a lot about you. You want one who knows what's wrong, just by looking in your eyes and he seems like that guy. I think he should be your second choice.
Your third choice is (of course) your friend who is less hot and annoying. You DO NOT want an annoying boyfriend, one who is weird, one who makes people stare, you don't want that. It's embarassing.
Also, there is a chance of him saying "No." because he has not shown any sign of really liking you, except flirting a little but hey, GUYS LOVE TO FLIRT. You have to know that JUST because a guy flirts with you doesn't mean he really likes you. Sometimes, guys flirt just you to THINK that, ask him out, and then he gets in your pants. That has happened to people. All I'm saying be careful. Your friend would probably never do that but still... he's the least out of the two.
That's MY oppinion, meaning you don't HAVE to choose the guy I would. Do what you think your heart would follow. Actually, you should let your heart lead.
You can email me if you have any further questions. My email address is x_pink_x109@yahoo.com O.K? You can also drop one in my inbox if you want.
xomegaroni answered Sunday August 14 2005, 4:36 pm: the 3rd guy seems like the best, but you should go on like 'hang out friend dates' to figure which ones for you.
first guy-him being hott may be tempting to you and being funny is a really good thing, but if he really is that hott, then he's that hott to a whole bunch of other girls, and you don't want them chasing him down a lot. he seems like someone to juss be friends with.
second guy-he seems a lil better, but if he's annoying that isn't good even if it is in a flirting way.
third guy-he seems sweet and plus you already knows he likes you, and since he asked you out he's ready to commit.
do what you think is best. juss tell them how you feel too.
Teza answered Sunday August 14 2005, 4:16 pm: We really cant choose for you, but if I was you I would go for the first guy. I mean you wouldnt want an annoying boyfriend! That would just be so lame! Lol.. and plus you said the first guy is really sweet, hot, && funny. I think that you will have a lot more fun with him so try to see if it will work out! I know you'll make the right choice! Good luck! [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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