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every so often after i go pee, it feels like i still have to pee,but i dont.its not exactly a burning feeling, but sort of.what could it be?

thanks.

If it starts to be more painful every time you pee, your pee is cloudy, or you start to notice a little blood in your pee, and these symptoms last for more than 24 hours than you probably have a Urinary Tract Infection, which happens to almost everyone at some point in their life, and is really not a big problem... go to the doctor and they will give you antibiotics.
Also, drink cranberry juice and lots of water. :)

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Hey guys,
I'm really hoping someone can help me out. I used to have a bump on the inside of my nose right where my nose ring was. My older sis called the lady that pierced my nose and she said it's perfectly normal to get a bump on/in your nose after you get it pierced. Well I've been cleaning my nose mostly everyday since I got it pierced, and the bump that was inside of my nose is now gone. My older sis had a bump on the outside of her nose, but now that is gone. I am really worried now, because I had a bump on the outside of my nose the other night. It looked like it could've been a blood blister or something like that. I made the mistake of picking at it until it started bleeding a lot. It was bleeding for a while, but it finally stopped. The bump was right by my nose ring. Now the left side of my nose is so0o0o red(the side it's pierced on). It feels like it could be scabbed up or something, but I'm not sure. I don't think I should've picked at the bump when it was there, but I did. Now I'm worried my nose will never get better. I'm probably not gonna be going back to the lady anytime soon because she's only at the place at certain times during the day. Does anyone think I should be worried at all, or should I just continue cleaning it and see if that helps? I've been cleaning it everyday with just soap and water, and trying to turn the ring. I have a nose screw in at the moment, and it's 18 gauge. I'm trying to look for this cream stuff that I used to put on it after cleaning it. If I touch my nose it doesn't really hurt, and I am still able to turn the ring. If anyone can please help. I'm really really worried right now. None of my piercings ever ended up like this before. I don't think it could be infected, because it would probably hurt a lot right now and have pus or something coming out of it wouldn't it? I don't wanna have to take it out, because I didn't get it pierced for nothing. :-( I really only want people who have/have had their noses pierced to answer this, because they'd probably know more about this. Thank you so much. Please answer ASAP! I don't really remember when I got it pierced. I'm pretty sure It's already been pierced for like 2 months. Healing time is 3-4 months for a nose. I just ordered a new nose ring off the internet and I want my nose to be healed if possible by the time I get my other nose ring so I can switch it.

I have the same exact problem with mine, and you'd be surprised at how common "the bump" is.
But yeah... I tried to pop mine too. Big mistake.
I read that doing heat compresses and soaking it in diluted salt water (non-iodized sea salt, not table salt-- which I made the mistake of using-- because it dries out the new cells that are trying to form around the piercing)for about 3-4 minutes should help... or so I've read.
Also, you turn yours?
I have a screw as well... and I was told to never turn it-- it's not like an ear piercing.
Anyways, please let me know how it works out for you, because I'm trying to heal mine as well. I've only had my nose pierced for maybe a month or so, so I'm new to this.
Best of luck.

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13/f okay so i love guys and have had many boy friends. The problem is sometimes when i am around girls i kind of want to kiss them and i dont know why. But then other times i think it is really gross but i still want to. Am i bi/lesbian/what is wrong with me??> >3 i rate high

Completely normal, especially for your age. Everyone has thought that at some point or another... and anyone who says they haven't is lying. You're just bi-curious. Teenage years are all about discovering yourself... and it's perfectly normal to want to try or test out different things and see what's right for you. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you.
:)

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Hey peeps. I am thinking of becoming a goth. But I have some dilemmas.

1 my mom wont let me be what I wanna be. I know the consequences. I told me mom that I wanted to dye my hair black, and she freaked.
2 I cant get past the metaphores. To goths, gothic sayings may have a meaning but when I hear or see gothic sayings or quotes or whatever, all I see is stuff about blood, guts, and death.
3 Idont know any chain stores that has a lot of gotic clothing and silver jewelry with the gothic sighns.


Help.

Poseur.


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Everyone tells me that glow in the dark tampons are a bad idea. Am I the only one that thinks I could make millions off of it?

hahahahahahahahhahahah

I love you.

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hey
does any one know the answer to this riddle?

What is greater than God,
More evil than the devil,
The poor have it,
The rich need it,
And if you eat it, you'll die?


please some one answer because its VERY irritating trying to figure it out :(
thanks ♥

The answer is "Nothing."

...pretty disappointing, if I do say so myself.

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k im 13/f

there is this boi in my s.s class and he likes me every1 has told me this even his best friend! i also heard he wants 2 ask me 2 the dance next friday!

i dont like him tho he stinks and picks his nose!! ewww!
how do i tell him i dont like him ???

help please!

Just be like "Hey, I think you're a really cool kid and all, but I don't really see you as anything more than a friend."
Just be cool about it. Be poliet and don't break his heart. Put yourself in his position.

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What are some EMO stores? Pacsun is too punkish. Hot topic is great but its too gothic. i want something emo-ish


i rate high!!!!


*emo-lost*

If you're a girl... DELIA'S !

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What are some songs that are about being sad because of the death of a friend? Thank you.

"Steven" -Senses Fail
"Tear" -Smashing Pumpkins
"Fuck You Aurora" -Alkaline Trio
"Helena" -My Chemical Romance

Hope I helped :)

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ok all the time my hands get all clamy and sweaty and even after i put on lotion is there anything i can do or iam i stuck with clamy hands

One word.
Drysol.

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why was the site down? well i just heard it was.

ill rate...

The area the site is operated from was hit by Hurricane Katrina.

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What exactly is "feeling up"
What would it be considered if a guy fondled with your chest? 'Feeling up?'
What is the guy about to do if he takes one of his fingers and starts at the top of your head and sloly draws a line down the middle of your body?

Yes, a guy fondling your chest is considered "feeling up".
Basically him touching your boobs is feeling up.

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what are some good scary movies?

Psycho, House of 1000 Corpses, The Cell...

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i pretty much like my body..except my legs. is there any exercises for your calves? i hate mine :[ -- im a girl.. help please

Running up and down the stairs about 10 times a day worked for mine.
Good luck.

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Hello I am an 18 year old female with a rather embarrassing question. My vagina has this weird..... almost like a hanging flap of skin on one side. And only one side. It is pretty long, over two inches when pulled up. I am afriad to date or anything because I dont want him to think I am freaking looking down there. I havn't seen barly any vaginas in my life- is this normal?? PLease help!

I have the EXACT same problem, but I'm 15. And I am also very self-conscious of it, and won't let a guy down there. I've been stressing about it for about 2 years. You have "asymmetrical labia". Apparently it can be corrected with surgery, labioplasty, I believe. It only takes about 1-2 hours and is relatively painless. But as long as it's not uncomfortable or causeing you pain, I wouldn't worry about it. But if it's two inches, which is about how mine is, I'd imagine that can't be comfortable. I want to get the surgery, but I don't want to talk to it about my parents or anything...
Anyways, best of luck. And I'd really appreciate it if you got back to me with how things work out for you. Because I'm still undecided about what to do about mine...

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What are some things that turn on a guy whenever a girl does something?
[Example: Biting ear, kissing neck?]

I asked the same question practically word for word and I barely got any responses. :(

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i heard that if you put toothpaste on your pimple overnight, the next day it because less red and smaller. do ya think colgate works well ?

The toothpaste thing has worked for me in the past... so I say give it a try. Though I've heard it has to be white toothpaste in order for it to do anything.

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hey
do you guys know if the deodorant Arrid Extra Dri works or its just no good??ps i have that 1 problem where the deodorants doo not work i have to use that 1 thing called certain dri.

I sent my mom out to get me Certain Dri, and she couldn't find it, so she came back with Arrid Extra Dry. It doesn't work for me. >_<

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Okay, this is gonna be long..but- 2 years ago a met this guy and we became friends turns out..he's MADLY inlove with me! That's all fine and dandy, I don't mind reject people I don't like, but it also turns out this guy is suicidle! Now, please don't say get him help! He's gotta better about cutting himself, and he sees a therapist. But every time a guy asks me out, even the ones I like, I make up a stupid excuse and walk away for fear the 'suicidle guy' will kill himself! He's told me before I'm his reason for living! What do I do? I rate high!

Wow, I am in the EXACT same position myself!
And if you don't want to be with him, you shouldn't have to. And if he respects you as a person, he'll respect that. If he's so in love with you, all he's going to want is for you to be happy... whether it's with him or not. I'm not saying 'GET OUT OF THERE!', because I myself have tried that, and since me and him are so close, it hurt a lot... and it's better to just talk to him about the situation. There's no reason you two can't still be friends. But there is also no reason you can't be happy, and get yourself a boyfriend just because someone else likes you. I've learned that the best thing you can do for this boy is to just be there for him, as a friend. Just help him through this and talk to him whenever he needs to. But you can't be worried about what he will do because of you... (I actually just made my friend promise me that if he cares about me, he'd never kill himself...and he's has never broken a promise to me yet, and I'm 100% positive he won't this time.) Just let him know that if he ever did anything like that, it would kill you... and that if he loves you, he won't want to put you through that type of pain. BUT DON'T LET HIM HOLD YOU BACK.
Best of luck. Hope I helped!

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i have this thing called hyperhydrosis, which is when you have really really really sweaty hands and sweaty feet ALL THE TIME, and even if you wipe them off on something, they don't get dry, they just stay wet. my boyfriend keeps asking me if we want to hold hands, and i keep making up excuses and stuff because it's really embarassing that i have sweaty hands, but i don't want to keep having to make up excuses every time, because he asks a lot, and he's already starting to get really suspicious and everything. please help me think of a good excuse that i can use everytime, or tell me if you think i should just tell him about it. if you think i should just tell him about it, then tell me how i should say it.
i know this might seem like a stupid question, but please help, and i'll rate high for good answers!!!

I have the exact same problem.
Just tell your doctor and he'll prescribe Drysol.
Just put it on your hands, feet, where-ever, at night.
The next morning you will be dry.
However, it does irritate for the first couple weeks.
But once you get past that you'll be fine.
Good luck! :)

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