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WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME>???


Question Posted Monday December 12 2005, 4:29 pm

13/f okay so i love guys and have had many boy friends. The problem is sometimes when i am around girls i kind of want to kiss them and i dont know why. But then other times i think it is really gross but i still want to. Am i bi/lesbian/what is wrong with me??> >3 i rate high

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ThugGirl041790 answered Monday December 12 2005, 7:14 pm:
Sounds like you may be bisexual and want to experiment a little.. Nothing wrong with that.. ♥ Dez

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Monday December 12 2005, 5:52 pm:
You're 13, your hormones are racing you've probably been in puberty for a year if that long.


All it is, is that your hormones are going crazy right now.

At 13, no one can tell what their sexuality is yet, since they aren't far into puberty at all.


I've gotten the feeling to want to kiss girls before. I have kissed girls before. This doesn't make me bi or a lesbian. I have a boyfriend that I'm very happy with. I just don't see anything wrong with kissing your girlfriends.


Nothing is wrong with you. I'm sure no one will really admit it, but they've probably felt that way at one point or another. There is no need for you to be jumping to conclusions saying that you are bi or a lesbian. You're too young to know right now.


Trust me, if you were TRUELY a lesbian, you'd know. I have tons of friends that are all insanely different. "Goths", "preps", "skaters", "punks", gays, lesbians, bisexuals. My one friend that is a lesbian told me she really started knowing she was when she fantisized about having lesbian sex with one of her friends. I highly doubt you've reached that point.


Nothing to worry about, you're normal. It's just your hormones at this point kid.

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lookthroughme answered Monday December 12 2005, 5:11 pm:
Completely normal, especially for your age. Everyone has thought that at some point or another... and anyone who says they haven't is lying. You're just bi-curious. Teenage years are all about discovering yourself... and it's perfectly normal to want to try or test out different things and see what's right for you. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you.
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