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I love animals and I love to write. My parents are divorced. My father is marrying another woman. I have a dog and two rabbits as pets and soon I'll have a 'step cat'(when my dad get married). One of my rabbits died, so we got a new one. Uhh, well other things include that I'm good at writing speeches and my favorite subject in school is math. I have two siblings. I'm kinda solitary. I don't care for groups or clicks. I have friends, alot of them, but I don't enjoy being surrounded by large groups.Actually, I used to but school is wierd now and I got put in a no-friend class. IT wasn't as a punishment. I got student of the month in my class. I'm a good kid. I do girl scouts and play many sports. Well thats me. You can learn more about me though. 'Ask me a question' to find out more about me. :) ^.^ ;)

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my friend "Tori" found out that the boy I have a crush on Liked me back but now everyone is saying he lik-ed me. But she found out recntly that he thinks I am cute. if he thinks I am cute and liked me does that mean he stil likes me?



if I guy thinks ur cute and states it to a bunch of other guys does that mean he thinks she is cute or he likes her

It probably means he likes you- but be careful with him- he might just like your appearance. Be careful to make sure he's not a sick guy who just likes to brag to his friends about going out with this cute girl. I think he might like you though if he had the courage to tell his friends your cute before he had a date with you. Hope he likes you and Hope I helped.

-An Honest Soul named Tori.

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I like this guy.. we hardly ever talk but I still like him.. what to do?

O.K. I'm no expert on boys, but I'd say get him to notice you. Not the 'accidentally bump into him' routine but the put on something cute and say you like his hairstyle or shirt or cool new jeans. If that doesn't work do what I did (hehe) leave a note iin his locker saying you like him and sign it annonymous(sp?). After awhile tell him it was you. Or yo could ask him to dance with you at a dance, or even ask him to a dance. Sorry if your not a teen cause I'm giving you things a teen should do, but you made it hard to tell without an age on your queston. Hope I helped! :)

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Well i new my bff for 9 years now, and i was moved away in a different state for seven of them (but we kept in touch, i visited constintly) but now we are losing a bff style, like whenever i call she has to go, or if she doesnt she'll proply hang up on me in a few minutes anyway. i cant trust her because she always lies to me and brakes promises and tells secrets.i am really starting to dislike her, but never the less i have known her and was her bff for 9 years now, and she used to be so kind and sweet to me (its only been a year where she was rude to me) i miss her being the way she was. please help me!

I can relate, sorta. One of my friends moved away, not too far but I miss her still. For the first few years we kept in touch well, especially in the summer. Later, around the fourth year I didn't see her for, like a whole year because we just didn't find time. Well, I invite her to my B-day party every year now and we see each other alot in the summer. My advice to you is to see her face to face, for a while, and then if she doesn't seem happy or if she's aacting strange you'll know what's wrong. She might be having family problems or be sad that your far away and broken apart so she made new friends, and now she is scared they'll replace you so she won't talk to you. Hope I helped, and hope you find out why she won't talk to you much.

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There is a small group of about 4 families and we usually have these dinner get-togethers on weekends sometimes. They're usually pretty boring for me because all the kids are guys, and they're all about 4 years older than me (I'm 13/f by the way). It's our turn to have one this weekend, the 29th, and on the same day is my friend's pool party, one of the best parties of the year and me and my friends go every time. Of course I wouldn't mind skipping this get-together for the party, but it just happeneds to be my mom's birthday the same day, so we're atchually inviting a lot of families, some including a few of my friends. I was planning on leaving my house at 9 (they usually last from about 7-12am) and going to the party, but I don't want to leave my friends hanging, and I know it'll be boring for them if I leave. I don't think I can take them to the party because they go to different schools and they're definatly not the type who will like this kind of party (trust me). I know it sounds selfish, but I REALLY want to go to this party, I haven't done much for the past few weekends. Sorry this is so long, but Which one should I go to?

I may not be an expert, but I'd say go to your mom's party. It's her birthday: the one day of the year she gets to lay back and have fun: her day. You can go to your friends house any time, and sure it may not be her party but at least you'll get to hang out with her. As for your mom, this one day make her happy. I mean really, how much time do you think she has between work, chores, driving kids everywhere, and everything else? Make her happy today(or on the 29), she deserves it.
Hope I helped :)

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My younger sister has a lot of girlfriends, and they go out to places and meet guys, so my mom and one of my sisters' friends moms have been listening to her conversations on the phone, lets just say they aren't liking what they are hearing. My sister talks to a certain guy that has had a very sexual communication with her, she hardly knows this guy. I've known my boyfriend for over a year, and I know my mom wouldn't like the things we talk about either, and she talks about how she should take that guy away from my sister, and so now, me and my boyfriend fear that I will be banned from him, he moved, so the phone is all we have now. We really love each other, my younger sister would get over it if that guy was taken from her, but I know that I can't live without my guy if I were banned from him. We would go on and do the smart thing and cut off all "bad talking', but is that what we should really do? We are so used to it that sometimes it slips, but would it better or does anyone think we might be safe?


I RATE HIGH I SWEAR!

I believe that to avoid losing him you should probably stop bad talking. That would be the best thihng to do if you still wanted to call him. Remember you can also write letters to him or call him on a cell phone (if you have one)so that your mom can't listen to your calls.
Hope I helped :)

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Okay, well i have to do a speech, and im doing it on how girls are just terriably mean to eachother with the backstabbing, and the calling of names such as "whore, slut, skank.. ect" and everything else that has to do with bullying. if anyone has any stories about their lives and being bullying by other girls please comment me. or e-mail me on xobabicakesox@hotmail.com
thanks so much
ashley

Sure, I have a story for ya. I don't know if this is exactly what ur looking for though: There is a girl in my grade who's 'special'(mentaly challenged). These two girls who are real jerks always say that she's stupid and a retard(sp?) all the time. I don't think she understands why they say that but she does think they're mean, and cries when they taunt her. She even had to move lunch tables to avoid them. She is the sweetest girl but she is always bullied. I try standing up for her, but you know how bullies are. They never give up.

Hope I helped :). -An Honest Soul.

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