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My younger sister has a lot of girlfriends, and they go out to places and meet guys, so my mom and one of my sisters' friends moms have been listening to her conversations on the phone, lets just say they aren't liking what they are hearing. My sister talks to a certain guy that has had a very sexual communication with her, she hardly knows this guy. I've known my boyfriend for over a year, and I know my mom wouldn't like the things we talk about either, and she talks about how she should take that guy away from my sister, and so now, me and my boyfriend fear that I will be banned from him, he moved, so the phone is all we have now. We really love each other, my younger sister would get over it if that guy was taken from her, but I know that I can't live without my guy if I were banned from him. We would go on and do the smart thing and cut off all "bad talking', but is that what we should really do? We are so used to it that sometimes it slips, but would it better or does anyone think we might be safe?
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ok, first of all you should talk to your mom about all this tell her how you feel about your bf and tell that you may talk like that but you guys do really do that stuff... tell her that she cant cut you guys off because right now all you got is that phone to keep in contact with... SO she shouldn't breake you guys apart. Ask her how she would feel if all phone privlages and any contact with her loved ones were taken away.
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Your mother is just worried about your yonger sister. I'm sure that if you go to her and explain how YOU feel about her listening in on your sisters conversations, she might not do it to you. Also, tell her exactly what you and your boyfriend talk about. I mean, don't go into great detail, but just say something like "well, sometimes it slips because we are so used to it. I am more mature though and I know when enough is enough and I would appreciate it if you respected my space."
I don't think your mother would have a problem with that if you were mature and open about what exactly was going on. Tell her your feelnigs about your boyfriend and just explain the situation.
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you should tell your mom that its not right for her to be listening, and tell your sister to stop talking about it on the phone, or you could take all phones in your room! haha hope i helpedd rate me<3
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Sounds to me like she's concentrating on your sister. Her and the friends mom must have heard rumor of something they didn't like. I don't think I wouold worry to much about it. Your boyfriend not being right there for you to go out with must not make him to much of a threat! :)
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I believe that to avoid losing him you should probably stop bad talking. That would be the best thihng to do if you still wanted to call him. Remember you can also write letters to him or call him on a cell phone (if you have one)so that your mom can't listen to your calls.
Hope I helped :)
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Aw, man, that sucks. I'd stop the badtalking for a little bit, yes, until your mom gets over the phone calls she lsitened to with your sister. Just let her cool off for a bit, and she should forget about it. Otherwise, you could just keep calling and being your normal selves, but just wait until a time when your mom's not around. (When she's sleeping, or something) Haha, gooddd luck! :D
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Yes, go ahead and stop the bad talking to make thinfs beter....
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