Gender: Female
Location: Bernalillo, New Mexico
Age: 17
Member Since: May 5, 2005
Answers: 14
Last Update: January 28, 2006
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I am 13 and my sister is 28, married and has 1 child. She is very clean, doesn't drink, doesn't smoke (Anymore). But she is depressed. She is in debt, and her husband is never home because of his job. He is a truck driver, so it's usually her and her baby which is 2 years old.
Every week that her husbands not home I have to go spend the night with her. It feels like a second home. One night, not to long ago, I went to her house to spend the night (of course) and she was crying. I asked her why and she started to tell me but didn't and I took it as if she was depressed or that she was alone and afraid because I wasn't there.
People have tried to steal things from her and her husband many times. Her neightbor thinks they sell drugs and take the money to buy all of the things she has. Which isn't true of course. She's in debt. My sister and I have never argued. I like to make her laugh because it makes me feel good that she can accually have fun.
Another thing is her weight. She's shorter than me and she is a little chubby. Everytime she see's herself in old photos she says she wishes she could look like that. One night I didn't want to spend the night with her and my mom made me go. The next day I found out that she was crying because she thought that I wasn't comming out. I really don't know what to do anymore. Can anyone offer any help? (link)
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its realy hard to have a husband who is always on the road. I know this from experiance. My dad is a truck driver and my mom tends to feel the same was. All she has to remamber is that she has a baby and she should be happy that she has a part of him with her all the time. She may not be depressed. its just that she is lonely and dosen't have anyone to talk to. You should tell her husband how she feels and maybe he can talk to her about it and see what it is that is buuging her so much.
About being in debt, things will turn around for her soon she just has to give it some time. After having a child it is always hard to get back on track with bills and everthing else.
I hope my advice helped. So good luck and tell your sister to keep her head up it will soon get better.
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hi im 15 and my boyfriends 16. although many adults say that us teens dont know what love is teens know when their in love. i just want peoples opinions (teens and adults) on if teens know what love is and also me and my boyfriend are really in love and its NOT lust. we know it. anyways we decided we were going to have sex (no my boyfriends not like that hes never pushed me into sex ever) but were not having sex for the fun of it we really do love eachother. please give us ur thoughts and please dont be mean thanx!~Kelley (link)
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yes teens can be in love... I know what love is and i got hurt from it.. Parents just tell us that so that we wont have sex and wont get into anything we cant handle. its not bad that you and your b/f have sex its ok.. as long as you guys know what your doin..
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im 15 and someone told me that my boyfriend -hes 15- looks at porn..is that normal? and like he said that my bf jacks off to it, too...is this normal or bad or what? and should i be offended that i cant make him feel good enough or somethin? (link)
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it is normal for him to do that.. guys do it alot.. their like gurls.. they have to get more pleasure some how even if they need a pic to do so.i hope i help you a little bit
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My younger sister has a lot of girlfriends, and they go out to places and meet guys, so my mom and one of my sisters' friends moms have been listening to her conversations on the phone, lets just say they aren't liking what they are hearing. My sister talks to a certain guy that has had a very sexual communication with her, she hardly knows this guy. I've known my boyfriend for over a year, and I know my mom wouldn't like the things we talk about either, and she talks about how she should take that guy away from my sister, and so now, me and my boyfriend fear that I will be banned from him, he moved, so the phone is all we have now. We really love each other, my younger sister would get over it if that guy was taken from her, but I know that I can't live without my guy if I were banned from him. We would go on and do the smart thing and cut off all "bad talking', but is that what we should really do? We are so used to it that sometimes it slips, but would it better or does anyone think we might be safe?
I RATE HIGH I SWEAR! (link)
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ok, first of all you should talk to your mom about all this tell her how you feel about your bf and tell that you may talk like that but you guys do really do that stuff... tell her that she cant cut you guys off because right now all you got is that phone to keep in contact with... SO she shouldn't breake you guys apart. Ask her how she would feel if all phone privlages and any contact with her loved ones were taken away.
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how do i keep my vagina clean?...not smelly (link)
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like alot of other ppl are saying soap isnt to good for it, normaly you should take a bath so that it'll soak and stuff because a shower can not really clean you as well.
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my friend has been 2 months late on her period.. she took a pregnancy test and claims shes not pregnant. she said that if there are 2 lines, it means shes pregnant..well i saw 2 lines, one was darker than the other and when i said i saw 2 lines she threw the pregnancy test back in the box. shes been awfully moody lately and has been telling her parents she has gotten her period for the past 2 months. she hasnt been acting the same..im really worried. what do you think? (link)
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ok this is what you do..go and buy another pregnacy test kit one that has the easy to read screen.. There is this one that is really easy,After you do your thing on it, it either comes out blue or pink and you wouldn'tbe able to get confused about it.. the lines test is sort of hard because they tend to show anyways.. or you can give her the digital read out one.
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my friends keep making fun of me,but i know there are just joking but it makes me feel bad, can anyone help (link)
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really, all you have to do is tell them how you feel about them saying things about you.
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well theres this guy at my school and ive always really liked him. but hes one of these guys that everybody likes and is really popular so people just think hes out of their legue and so forget about him. well that what i thought anway but now ive found out that he likes me. he asked someone for my msn address and so ive been talking to him a lot. then he asked me for my number so we have been txting each other a lot. and the thing he has been saying are seriously flirty! and sayin what we could do when we are together. but heres the thing he hasnt asked me out or anything so we arent actually an item or anything. and my mate has asked him if hes goin to ask me out but he just said not yet because he wanted to get to know me but now im thinking does he just want to be friends? does he really like me? please help me! i rate high if its good! (link)
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hey girl, well if you dont like to wait why dont you just ask him out 1st? If he says no then atleast you guys will still be friends and if he says yes well then congradulations.
many guys are really scared to ask a girl out because their afraid that the girl will end up saying no.. they hate that feeling just as much as we do. so give it a try, you know he likes you and he knows you like him so just ask him...
here to hlp
elena
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my friend has this boy friend who is cutting himself and inking it (pouring ink all over the cut) because he wants to die and he is in a mental hospital right now and my friend likes him alot because he cares about her more than her step dad cause he beats and rapes her. well my friend said if this guy dies she is going to kill herself and ive tried talking to her but she wont listen and she still wants to kill herself if her bf dies. plz help (link)
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she should tell the b/f what she want to do. Im sure that if he knew what she would do he wouldn't do it himself.. Instead, you should tell the guy that if he cares for her so much he wouldn't put her through the pain of seeing him in a mental hospital and he should actually keep his arms around her not cutting them.
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... i love my boyfriend and never want to leave him .... its just sometimes ... i dont and i want to kill myself because he never seems happy with me ... he get irritated and even slaps me sometimes. But i dont want to break up! Please help ... I dont know what else to do
~ Hurtin' on the outside (link)
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look sweetheart, If he hits you its not right at all. No man should ever raise his hand to his lover or even friend.. I understand that you dont want to leave him but if he doesn't aprecialte the fact that you are there for him and your trying to please him then he doesn't deserve you at all. You can find someone better..there is a guy out there who will respect your body,Mind and feelings you just have to wait a little longer then you plan.
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My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and I just had my period. I usually have it for 4 or 5 days but I only had it for 3 this time. The first two days it was very heavy. I had to change my tampon (regular absorbancy) every hour. Thats a lot for me but still it was only heavy like that for 2 days .. Im really nervous. I just want to know if u guys think I could be pregnant. I dont feel any different at all.. no stomach aches or dizzieness. Please help.. I rate high! (link)
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You are not pregnant...The reason for the change in flows is because you did have sex.. Sex tends to change the flows. Sometimes they can make them go longer or even shorter, heavier or lighter...
but dont worry your not pregnant.
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My friend is pregnant and she's only 13. She's freaking out a lot..and she wants me to help her. What should i do ? i dont wanna end up killing someone else's baby! (link)
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what do you mean you dont want to end up killing someone else's baby?
She asked for help and you should be there for her.. Tell her that she has to calm down because she is going to be a mother and she is going to be bringing a new life into this world and its going to love her, and need her as much as she will it...
Be there for her and show her that she has help, and that she should stay strong.
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So my best friend had this crazy idea... she wants me and her boyfriend and her to do like sexual things... i was all for it before but now im thinking twice... i don't have a boyfriend so i have no one holding me back... but im looking fo someone and idk if i should be doing this... i told her ealier i would do anything with them exept having sex... cause im waiting till i get married to have sex... but idk if im going to find that somone and im soo condused... she is my best friend and i love her to death... and this is something we could do together and me and her have been kinda fading... but im scared im going to regret it and me and her are going to have problems and i love her...
Confused and lonely girl (link)
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nothing will go wrong between you and her. If she knows that you want to wait until you get married then she wont be mad for you telling her no. You should wait for the right person to come along.
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hey it is nikki okay me and my ex boyfriend have been broke up for 3 weeks and actually a month today. anyways we are always kissing and holding hands hugging and stuff like that. well this morning in first period he told me he loved me and that i was the only girl he cared alot about, well he knows i love him and i have told him i loved him and he replies back "i love you too and yes i do want to go back out with you too" well we both want each other back. well after lunch see i was jealous of my best friend monica and she likes him and he liked her, but i told him that if he dated her that i would never talk to him ever again. so he told me that he wasn't going out with her and that he knew me longer and he wanted to remain friends, so i made a big deal out of it and i told monica that you don't date your best friends ex boyfriend or girlfriend and she was like " your gonna have to move on get over it, well i threaten to kick her butt if she did. so jeremy found out about it and now all of us are straight. then after lunch he ignored me well wasnt really ignoring me but he just walked off with monica didnt even say hey or bye tro me, well anyways um back to the first part well we act like we go out but without a title you know so the question is how can i get him back? ui mean he wants to go back out with me and he has had a month to think about it and i understand why it takes so long. see the reason we broke up was because i cheated on him. i kissed another guy and i wasnt myself today i had went to my friends house and i was messed up but how can i get him back plz help
holla atcha (link)
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hey, Honestly if he did like you so much an di fhe did tell you that he loved you maybe you shuld trust him.. and honestly not to jump lkon your friends back or anything but if she is a good friend she would ask you what you think about her and this guy talking..She should check if your feeling would be hurt and if you would mind whats going on...If she knows how you feel about him then you gots to make sure nothing is going on behind your back. Talk to both of them and see if they have different stories.
But if you still love him you should go out with him. Expecially if you care so much about him....
Elena
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