hey it is nikki okay me and my ex boyfriend have been broke up for 3 weeks and actually a month today. anyways we are always kissing and holding hands hugging and stuff like that. well this morning in first period he told me he loved me and that i was the only girl he cared alot about, well he knows i love him and i have told him i loved him and he replies back "i love you too and yes i do want to go back out with you too" well we both want each other back. well after lunch see i was jealous of my best friend monica and she likes him and he liked her, but i told him that if he dated her that i would never talk to him ever again. so he told me that he wasn't going out with her and that he knew me longer and he wanted to remain friends, so i made a big deal out of it and i told monica that you don't date your best friends ex boyfriend or girlfriend and she was like " your gonna have to move on get over it, well i threaten to kick her butt if she did. so jeremy found out about it and now all of us are straight. then after lunch he ignored me well wasnt really ignoring me but he just walked off with monica didnt even say hey or bye tro me, well anyways um back to the first part well we act like we go out but without a title you know so the question is how can i get him back? ui mean he wants to go back out with me and he has had a month to think about it and i understand why it takes so long. see the reason we broke up was because i cheated on him. i kissed another guy and i wasnt myself today i had went to my friends house and i was messed up but how can i get him back plz help
shake answered Thursday May 5 2005, 5:38 pm: Well, he really probably doesnt want you back, hes retarded to like you. If you cheated on him. Who in their right mind would go out with you for cheating?!?!?!
Teza answered Thursday May 5 2005, 3:54 pm: It might take him a while so he could trust you again. You shouldnt of ever cheated on him but you cant take it back. Since you both want to go back out just let him know that you will never ever do that to him again! And that you are really sorry. He just has o trust you again. Why is your best friends flirting with him infront of you. Well it kind of seems like it by the way you tell it. You shouldnt of said that you were going to hit her or anything because she can do whatever she wants and she can go out with him if she wanted to but that would be totally wrong. Tell them both how you feel because it will help and hopefully make them understand. X0` [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
elena answered Thursday May 5 2005, 2:59 pm: hey, Honestly if he did like you so much an di fhe did tell you that he loved you maybe you shuld trust him.. and honestly not to jump lkon your friends back or anything but if she is a good friend she would ask you what you think about her and this guy talking..She should check if your feeling would be hurt and if you would mind whats going on...If she knows how you feel about him then you gots to make sure nothing is going on behind your back. Talk to both of them and see if they have different stories.
But if you still love him you should go out with him. Expecially if you care so much about him....
Elena [ elena's advice column | Ask elena A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.