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Boyfriend
... i love my boyfriend and never want to leave him .... its just sometimes ... i dont and i want to kill myself because he never seems happy with me ... he get irritated and even slaps me sometimes. But i dont want to break up! Please help ... I dont know what else to do
~ Hurtin' on the outside
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omg i`m sOo sorry!! first of all you may love him but if he treats you this way he isn`t worth it... no one should EVER think they have the right to slap you and treat you that way and if he does this and sometimes makes you think about suicide he isn`t good for you... it may be REALLY hard but it would be best for you to break it off... it`s not safe and if the relationship goes on it could get worse!!
best of luck!!
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look sweetheart, If he hits you its not right at all. No man should ever raise his hand to his lover or even friend.. I understand that you dont want to leave him but if he doesn't aprecialte the fact that you are there for him and your trying to please him then he doesn't deserve you at all. You can find someone better..there is a guy out there who will respect your body,Mind and feelings you just have to wait a little longer then you plan.
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You def. need to break up with him. Love isn't supposed to hurt. He has no right to put his hands on you and you should def. leave him. Your relationship isn't healthy and you need to find a guy who CAN appreciate you and respect you.
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if he slaps you then you should definitley NOT be with him. i know love can be a hard thing but a girl shouldn't be getting abused, you could find someone much better....im really sorry tho!!
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If he is hitting you, you need to distance yourself from him and completely run him out of your life relationship-wise. You do NOT want this situation to escalate to where he is beating you on a regular basis and then coming back to say he loves you and will never do it again. Tell him he needs help with his anger and that you do not want to be around him until he has it under control.
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It doesn't matter if you love him, it matters if he loves you. And NO MAN no matter how much they say they do, loves a woman they hit. You really should get far away from him, he's not good for you, or your self esteem.
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Just try to talk to him and talk it over tell him how u feel about loving him and about him beating you or whatever just try to talk everything over with him.
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-hurtin' on the outside
i hate to tell you this but he's just not that into you...if he slaps you even if it sometimes...he really doesn't care that much...you deserve better then that and if he gets iritated with you all werent' ment to be together...its not far for ither of you to be unhappy...you would be better off and happyer if you moved on..
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please get out of that relationship! that is not love if he hits you. you are just gonna end up hurt and wating to kill yourself even more cuz this guy is never gonna let you feel like your good enough. find someone that treats you right. <3
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Well let me tell you something he has no right to hit you ! You need to take a stand and make sure that you beilive in yourself and that you can make it without him here is a quote to try and look back on ...
* you gotta reach for the stars or youll never know whats in the sky *
just think about it .. you could be doing soo much better if you just look ! But make sure you take chances not dangerous buh exciting live your life to the fullest dont let some guy bring you down ! If you ever need any advice just write me on here or email me at www.Craziisexiicooll@yahoo.com
byebye,
Jordan
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I think you need to break up thats just my IMO and abusive relatinoship is not a way to go. He hits and makes you feel depressed and even makes you think of suicide.If he's not happy with you thats his problem. Dump him and find someone who will be happy with you.
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heyy .. the best thing to do is break up with him no matter how much it hurts you need to he should not be abbusing you like this
hope i helped
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if he ever slaps you again dump his ass.. dont take any shit like that from a guy you dont deserve it.. you just have to talk to him and tell him you love him and that you dont know if he feels the same.. i know you dont want to break up but you have to be strong.. never ever let a guy hit you
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You may not want to leave him, but you deserve so much better. A real boyfriend who cares about you will not hit you, or abuse you in any way. He's slapping you now..how do you know it won't escalate into something much more serious. Honestly, you need to get out of this relationship. Find someone who treats you right.
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You may not want to leave your boyfriend but if he slaps you at times then that's probably what you need to do . Even if your boyfriend doesn't mean to hit you , you have to leave . Just because your man hit you because he's irritated doesn't exactly give hin the right to knock you around . And as far as the suicide thing , you really need to talk to someone about your problems or perhaps you can write them down . The relationship that you're involved in is just another negative thing and worrisome in your life . If you don't want to leave him then you at least need to talk to him and find out a way to make it work .
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First off, I think that you need realize that a slep is a sign of disrespect. Your boyfriend obviously has some issues with respcting you. You should talk to him about this. If you do not do anything about this slapping, this can usually lead to bigger and more serious type of abuse. I think you should reconsider if you really do love this guy and need him in your life. He is disrespects you now, trust me, it can only worse. Also, ask him why he is unhappy with you. It really isnt fair to stay with someone if it is making them unhappy. You should consider finding another boyfriend if he truely is unhappy. Its only fair. Hope this helps!
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If he's slapping you then you need to ditch this guy. I know you think you love him but you don't need an abuser. You also warn other girls away from him. Hes never happy because he's a controlling jerk. You get out as fast as you can before it gets worse. And it will eventually. You let him get away with that and he will continue. There are better guys out there, you go find one of them. If he hits you again...call the cops. Good luck :)
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You deserve so much better than that! It may hurt, but walk away and we can all promise you that in time there WILL be someone much better.
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hi, just try and keep calm and talk to him about it and if he dont stop them leave him - even if you do love him - a girl shouldnt be treated like this!
love nicki xxxx
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HE SLAPPED YOU!?! What kind of a man would loweR himself to hit a chick? That's the most pathetic thing I've heaRd in my life! Why on eaRth would you love someone who tReats you like shit?? He obviously holds no Respect foR you of *ANY* kind! Life is difficult enough as it is.. but you definitely *DO NOT* need his shit pilin' up ontop of eveRything else! I suggest gatheRing up all the pieces of youR bRoken heaRt, and walking away fRom this Relationship!! And if you don't feel like his violence towaRds you is Reason enough to leave, then think of it this way: Love is RecipRocal, Hun... it's not just on sided. Why on eaRth would you botheR to give youR heaRt away to someone who's not willing to give you theiRs!? You need to use youR head, and think of youR OWN well being heRe! I wish you the best of luck!!
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Should you really really be going put with someone who is violent towards you? This could possibly be why sometimes you feel like you don't want to be with him. You know its wrong to be with him when he's violent but you're still in love with him. Sometimes it's best to be really strong and end things when there's a situation like this. You deserve so much more than a bloke that is violent towards you. Good luck
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