Hey people!! my name is Clair or Clarice if you prefer to call me that!! I`m 13 years old && i live in SC. According to some people i give good advice so i thought i would use my fantabulous gift to help the world!! or at least a few people... hehe. well if you need help with ANYTHING don`t hesitate to ask or IM me on my screen name!! much lovin && good luck!!
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Ok well im a 13/f and my mom gets someone to babysit my brother whom is 8 just because im always out havin fun and doing stuff and i dont want to watch him. but anyways the point is lately his babysitter and me are like good friends. So well anyways she is 18 and I really i guess i could say i look up to her. I really do i love her like a sister and right now i know she is going thought a hard time and she started smoking and she said im gonna quit im just having a hard time well i dont think shes gonna quit because smoking is addicting and she might not be able to quit and im scared for her and myself because i look up to her so whats happens if i start to and i also dont think shes getting paid enought a week i added up all the time she worked this week and the money she got and dived it and she got like $2.78 an hour thats not fair she needs more money because she is gonna have to start paying for bills and stuff and shes not getting paid enought and now shes smoking and im lookin up to her and i just dont know what to do she is like a sister to me we are good friends and i really look up to her and i dont want her life to get screwed up plese help sorry this is so long
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the best thing would probably be to talk to her and tell her how you feel! if she sees how concerned you are about her she might be more motivated to stop... you can also set up a way to help her quit like if you see her smoking just say something to her about it. as for the pay... let your mom know that you did the math and you don`t think she`s getting enough money to stay on her feet and that you think it would be a good idea for her to get a raise...
best of luck!!
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my guardian won't let me attend my church cause she doesn't like what they are teaching me, but she has never liked the religion. also she hates my mother and has a grude against me because i look like my mother. should i keep on obeying her or is this really something she needs to work out on her own and not take it out on me? (link)
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your guardian shouldn`t control your life and be mean just because she doesn`t like your mom... if you ask me she has some issues... find someone you can talk to about your problem that could help you out... you shouldn`t have to keep obeying her like this...
the best of luck to you!!
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... i love my boyfriend and never want to leave him .... its just sometimes ... i dont and i want to kill myself because he never seems happy with me ... he get irritated and even slaps me sometimes. But i dont want to break up! Please help ... I dont know what else to do
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omg i`m sOo sorry!! first of all you may love him but if he treats you this way he isn`t worth it... no one should EVER think they have the right to slap you and treat you that way and if he does this and sometimes makes you think about suicide he isn`t good for you... it may be REALLY hard but it would be best for you to break it off... it`s not safe and if the relationship goes on it could get worse!!
best of luck!!
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Ok, so I really like this guy and he said he liked me, but he barely talks to me, wich his friend says is just because he's shy, but still annoys me and makes me think it might be a scam (it's happened to me before). But there's this other guy who I used to like who also said he liked me too, and he asked me out but cancelled to go out with someone else that night, wich really hurt. And he said he really liked me, but cancelled due to insecurity and thinking I'm too cool for him (wich is absolutely ridiculous) and now I don't know what to do... try ro make it work with the 1st guy, try to make it work with the second gut, or give up completely? (link)
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don`t give up!! =]. maybe the 1st guy really is shy or maybe he gets nervous around you and can`t think of anything to talk about.. next time you`re around him try to start a conversation about something he`s interested in... try to get to know him a little more as a friend so you can get an idea for where your relationship may be headed!! as for the 2nd guy... with the cancellation and everything maybe you should wait to see what both of their intentions are and which you are more comfortable with and have more fun with... hope it works out!!
the best of luck to you!!
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wat are the signs to a girl wanttin u to kiss them i mean i already know some but wat are the others. and what should i do on a first date i've dated plenty of girls jus not literally and i truely like this girl and i really want to get close 2 her (link)
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A LOT about what girls think and feel is in her body language such as kinda stiffening up if she`s uncomfortable or putting her head on your shoulder if she likes you... that kinda stuff... a good first date would be a movie... once you get in the theatre and everything just kinda settle down and put your arm around her... if she responds in a positive way then it would probably be ok to kiss her on the cheek first and then if she seems to be ok with it kiss her on the lips but don`t make it an all out kiss... it`ll freak her out just somethin soft and sweet. besides... if it`s a nice and gentle but a good kiss it`ll leave her wanting more and a reason for a next date.
the best of luck to you!!
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ok, well here's the deal. my bofriend and i hav been going out for about...3-4 months. and i love him,but i dont no if its because HE says he loves me every few minutes im with him. ive thought about breaking up with him, but wen i told my best friend she said "he loves you too much. if u broke up with him, it would kill him" and hes tried to make out with me, but i rejected him. wat should i do? (link)
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maybe you should try breaking it off and if you don`t like it then maybe you guys can get back together... if you aren`t sure of your feelings for him it`s probably not a good idea to continue the relationship and your best friend may think that you should stay with him but this is really about how you feel and what you want... if she`s a good friend she`ll support your decision to move on...
The best of luck to you!!
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Okay well my problem is really kinda hard ! Okay now ... we were the *POSSEY* for almost half of the year ! and Me and the rest of the possey were in a really big fight ! and I`ve tried apologizing to them and it just doesn`t work ! but it worked with two people but I`m not sure if it worked out between the 2 of us ... and i really want it to work out with the others and all become on big happy *POSSEY* again !
so Clair help me ! yeah this is who you think this is ! bye good luck on helping me again love yas bye ! (link)
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well for the first half of the year it was all really fun && everything but as the year went on we all kinda changed && shit happened... yeah we`re friends but i don`t think the *possey* will ever be the same again =\. it sux but i guess that`s just the way it has to be... =[. don`t worry... everything will work out && i know you have a lot of friends anyways so...
Good Luck!!
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ok, i'm dating a boy that's 15 and i'm 13. i asked my parents repetedly if they minded that he was older and they said no and that they trust me and him. well i don't think they do bc all my other friend are allowed to stay out till 11 or later and i have to be home before dark! i totally can't stand it anymore! me and my mom get in fights all the time and i can't handle it! i wish she'd just let me be a normal teen like everybody else! and my boyfriend is totally understanding too. so that is a plus! but what can i do to let my mom know that she can trust me to hang out down the street at my best friend's house after dark? and i mean it's not like her parents aren't there. they actually hang out with us. they're pretty kool. but i really need help with this! (link)
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ok a lot of parents (including mine) are a little old fashioned and stuff. what you can do is sit down with your mom && just let her know how you feel about not bein able to stay out as late && stuff. don`t whine or complain just act mature and tell her what you want and some things that might support your ideas. set down some ground rules and things you could do to keep in touch when you`re out so she knows you`re ok and maybe she`ll see it from your point of view!!
Good Luck!!
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Sorry its a little standard but i will try to make it quick, My mate likes a guy, who only likes her as a friend. She acted like she didnt mind but i think it hurt a bit. Anyway, today i found out he likes me, but i only like him as a friend, plus he is a year younger than me. so 3 questions, do i tell her? If so how do i tell her? and how do i let him down gently? (link)
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I`ve been in your friends position before so I think that you should let your friend know that he has feelings for you but that you don`t like him like that. She will understand. Just sit her down or tell her on the phone or however you feel comfortable and say "i think (whatever his name is) likes me as more than a friend... but i don`t like him like that and i`m going to let him know because i don`t want to get in the way of anything you two might have in the future and i know you have feelings for him." and then tell the guy that you don`t like him that way but your friend does (if she doesn`t mind you telling him that she likes him if he doesn`t already know). hopefully they`ll both understand!! and that way all of your feelings are in the open and everything else will just take care of itself!!
Good Luck!!
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