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ok, well here's the deal. my bofriend and i hav been going out for about...3-4 months. and i love him,but i dont no if its because HE says he loves me every few minutes im with him. ive thought about breaking up with him, but wen i told my best friend she said "he loves you too much. if u broke up with him, it would kill him" and hes tried to make out with me, but i rejected him. wat should i do?
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tell him that you need to take a break. then decide if you really love him or not... it's better to end it now..then to wait another year and find out you don't love him...it would hurt both of yall way worse...
take it from me baby
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YOU SHOULD T3LL HiiM HOW YOU F33L, BUT PL3AS3 DONT BR3AK HiiS H3ART OR KiiLL HiiM AT THAT.
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dump him...he is insucure and only says he loves you because lust is covering his eyes...he sounds like my ex-bf, so dump him...
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well you do what your heart tells you..i went out with some body for pitty..and i so regreted it.. and thats what your exzacly doing!! going out with for pitty..so you shouild sit down with him and tell him that you think its best if you two just were friends or split up...i think you shouiod break up with hiom if you want to...but if your doing it just becsuse people dont like him or they want you to then dont do it girl...you do what you feels right..and he will live if yall break up..who nos maybe yall wil go back up...but you halft to understand that if yall break up and he doesnt want to be firends dont take it personally..its proably going to be really hard on him but he will be fine..jst do what your heart feels you to do!!!!!!
hope i helped you....
love always,
ilovepink101
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maybe you should try breaking it off and if you don`t like it then maybe you guys can get back together... if you aren`t sure of your feelings for him it`s probably not a good idea to continue the relationship and your best friend may think that you should stay with him but this is really about how you feel and what you want... if she`s a good friend she`ll support your decision to move on...
The best of luck to you!!
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you need to do what you want to do.. of course it would kill him.. but in a month or so he will pick himself back up and go out looking for a new girl... it just wasn't right between the both of you.. just let him know that you still want to be friends etc. so maybe it sets him at better ease.. but you need to do what you want to do.. because if it isn't right there is no need wasteing your time being with someone you aren't going to marry when you could be out there looking for the right one.. soo follow your heart and do what you have to.. hope i helped..
xox.....
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You need to tell him how you feel, and ask if you can just be friends. Tell him that if he is going to hurt himself because of that then tell him you will never talk to him agin.
~*Brianna*~
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well, if he tried to make out with you but you were too scared or uncomfortable, that doesn't mean you don't care about him. however, "ive thought about breaking up with him" is a huge indicator that you don't care about him in the way that he thinks you do. you shouldn't ever date anyone for your friends, or continue a relationship to spare their feelings. eventually you'll either have to break it off or marry them, which you won't, so delaying the inevitable is only going to hurt the guy in the long run. you need to sit down and decide what your relationship means to you. not your friend, and not your boyfriend. but if you can give your boyfriend the love and respect he deserves, or if he's just being carried along for the ride and feeling things for you that you only pretend to feel in return. when you figure all that out, you'll know whether or not you should continue dating him or break up with him. hope i helped <3
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