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guy confusion... sorry it's so long...
Ok, so I really like this guy and he said he liked me, but he barely talks to me, wich his friend says is just because he's shy, but still annoys me and makes me think it might be a scam (it's happened to me before). But there's this other guy who I used to like who also said he liked me too, and he asked me out but cancelled to go out with someone else that night, wich really hurt. And he said he really liked me, but cancelled due to insecurity and thinking I'm too cool for him (wich is absolutely ridiculous) and now I don't know what to do... try ro make it work with the 1st guy, try to make it work with the second gut, or give up completely?
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omgosh .. that is confusing but i say you try to work it out with the first guy and get him to open up just a little bit. if the other guy blew you off for another girl he must not like you too much. but if the first guy keeps ignoring you after you try to make it work i kinda just say give it up .. guys are really stupid at times and think girls are just fun to mess around with. so if that happens just try to find another guy that you really like and flirt with him a lot! flirting always helps =) i hope i helped you out a little and good luck with your guys.
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don`t give up!! =]. maybe the 1st guy really is shy or maybe he gets nervous around you and can`t think of anything to talk about.. next time you`re around him try to start a conversation about something he`s interested in... try to get to know him a little more as a friend so you can get an idea for where your relationship may be headed!! as for the 2nd guy... with the cancellation and everything maybe you should wait to see what both of their intentions are and which you are more comfortable with and have more fun with... hope it works out!!
the best of luck to you!!
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hey there!!
first of all, just because he's the guy, doesnt mean you can't be the one that goes up and talks to him. ask him where your relationship is right now. and ,i no your gonna wanna hear what you want to hear, but ask him for the TRUTH.
thats all i can say...
...tootles!!!
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