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Is he going to?


Question Posted Friday May 6 2005, 2:00 pm

well theres this guy at my school and ive always really liked him. but hes one of these guys that everybody likes and is really popular so people just think hes out of their legue and so forget about him. well that what i thought anway but now ive found out that he likes me. he asked someone for my msn address and so ive been talking to him a lot. then he asked me for my number so we have been txting each other a lot. and the thing he has been saying are seriously flirty! and sayin what we could do when we are together. but heres the thing he hasnt asked me out or anything so we arent actually an item or anything. and my mate has asked him if hes goin to ask me out but he just said not yet because he wanted to get to know me but now im thinking does he just want to be friends? does he really like me? please help me! i rate high if its good!

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alexd3355 answered Sunday May 8 2005, 4:23 am:
well ask him if he wants to come over and watch a movie at your house or go have an ice cream its hanging out without it being to much of a date so he feels confortable and see how it takes you if he makes up some stupid excuss then just say ok well i guess ill just invite suzzy or whoever i think she really wanted to see that movie and just forget about him and play it cool like you just wanted to hang out.

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VanityScore answered Saturday May 7 2005, 10:22 am:
If he wants to get to know you better, usually that's a sign of respect. And I'm sure he doesn't want to be "just friends" if he went so far as to get your phone number, and your email address (along with telling people that he likes you).

Telling him you like him too would probably influence his decision towards asking you out. Personally, I'd wait for him to ask me out, but if you're the type of girl that asks a guy out, go for it! I mean, it does work. I've done it before.

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mapletreerachel answered Friday May 6 2005, 5:54 pm:
Well if i were you i would take a risky chance and YOU ask HIM out!! ask to go to the movies or something!! Because if hes flirting with you and he keeps doing it, he probably likes you. and if has been going on for a while, just ask him! if he says no you'll find out he only wants to be friends..and it doens't feel that great at first..so there is a downside, but i think i would rather do that then just wait for him to ask me out. b/c believe me, THATS torture!! but if he says yes (!!!) you could be his gf!!

hope i helped!
-RaChel

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xpianogirl89x answered Friday May 6 2005, 5:47 pm:
It doesn't mean he wants to just be friends, no.. he might want more. I've heard guys say they have feelings for girls but they wanna get to know them better or wanna try it out first on a date and see how it goes. Just keep up flirting, I know it's frustrating waiting around, maybe you could make the first move :) Ask him if he wants to hang out sometime. I think you may have something here. Goooood luck! Hope everything works out for you hun!

Hope I helped!
~Lana

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gsngirl7 answered Friday May 6 2005, 4:14 pm:
I think he does want to go out with you but just needs a little more time. Trying asking him if he wants to go to dinner or something. That way he can get to know you even better. Hope my advice helps! Let me know how everything turns out!

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Teza answered Friday May 6 2005, 3:39 pm:
I think that he likes you. If he hasnt asked you out yet, dont worry about it. Like he said he wants to get to know you better and thers nothing wrong with that. He will ask you out but just give him a little more time. X0`

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Aunty_Anna answered Friday May 6 2005, 3:03 pm:
stop, stop, you sound very desperate... be patient if you want him to ask you out, he clearly likes you and is probably just trying to build up the confidence to ask you out...even the most confident of guys are shy when it comes to things like this... the only other way is if your really that desperate then ask him out yourself!!!
good luck, hope it works out

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elena answered Friday May 6 2005, 2:52 pm:
hey girl, well if you dont like to wait why dont you just ask him out 1st? If he says no then atleast you guys will still be friends and if he says yes well then congradulations.
many guys are really scared to ask a girl out because their afraid that the girl will end up saying no.. they hate that feeling just as much as we do. so give it a try, you know he likes you and he knows you like him so just ask him...
here to hlp
elena

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Van_10 answered Friday May 6 2005, 2:16 pm:
maybe he just want something from you because if he isnt going out with you , and he's sending flirty text message and he is the good looking type he could have a mixed hidden agenda

beware for anything

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