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Why Is He crying?


Question Posted Saturday April 23 2005, 1:09 am

ok the guy who im basicaly going out with and we are inlove well he called me crying from work and he told me he doesnt know whats wrong and he is thinking about suicide and stuff and he just wants the world to die basically but i dont know why i need help to figure out what to do he is going to come over to my house in like three hours and i need to think of something fast and i want to know what is wrong does anyone have any clue or knows what im going throug???

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Casey answered Saturday April 23 2005, 5:43 pm:
I think you should try some serious supporting to him and just listen to what he has to say!
Casey out!

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DrAnqel answered Saturday April 23 2005, 2:06 pm:
I guess you could say I've had a suicidal, depressed boyfriend before, anyways, sometimes they just go through stuff like that and you have to support him mentally, but really you can't like help him or anything, don't be to nosy, and accept the fact if he doesn't want to talk about it then he doesn't want to talk about it, when he comes over, maybe you should have like something prepared for him, like some cookies or just something to let him know that you were thinking about him, be creative. Hope I helped and good luck -Angel

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confusedbabii answered Saturday April 23 2005, 1:38 pm:
i know what your going through. except this guy liked me and i wouldnt go out with him so he told me he was going to commit suicide because of me. sit him down and talk to him. ask him why he feels that way. i personally think that he might feel like he's not cared about...but obviously you care if you're asking this question. ok, straight to the point. ask him why he wants to commit suicide, try to talk him out of it, if he still wants to do it after your talk, get an adult or his friends or your friends involved. so many people die from suicide,and so many people are affected by those who die from suicide. i hope all goes well.

XOXO ~*~*Nicole Lynn*~*~ XOXO

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karenR answered Saturday April 23 2005, 11:45 am:
He is depressed about something. You won't know until he tells you. Just be a good listener and encourage him to get help if need be. The problem may be to big for you to handle...don't feel guilty about it if it is. :)

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Ladyfish answered Saturday April 23 2005, 11:11 am:
There is a very hight chance that he is in a deppression. he needs to have supervision all the time. if he is thinking about suicide he needs help, therapy or somthing. there is not much yoy can do to help him. just support him and dont let him be alone! I know of some one who was in a deppression and committed suicide and she was only 10! Please dont let him be all alone.

get him help asap!

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x0xMrSm answered Saturday April 23 2005, 10:48 am:
hey i know what he's going through...hard to explain...but i just know...just make sure you listen to everything that hes saying. and most of all, don't judge!!! if you need to really talk, my aim screen name is x0mrm0x. i'll help out with whatever i can. i'll talk to you, or maybe your bf. (which i know makes me sound retarded since he's yours, but i don't know, i could relate and he might need someone who really understands to talk to, you know?) well, i'll ttyl, hope all goes well.

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Evikins answered Saturday April 23 2005, 9:46 am:
I don't know what you're going through but i know that your b/f is somehow unhappy /or depressed . I think it might have to do with family, school, work, or other things., There's no knowin' for sure until you've talked to him. Sit him down and listen to EVERYTHIN' he says. He really needs to talk to someone ... (you) if he was cryin'. You said that he said he was thinkin' about sucide? Well, he'll need more help that the one you'll give him. If the things he tells you are pretty serious or no serious at all and if he repeats the fact that he still thinks about sucide, suggest that he see's a counsellor. That's my advice, I hope it works out.

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rOcKiN4GoD2010 answered Saturday April 23 2005, 8:51 am:
just support him...say prayers...and maybe even take him to church...everyything is in Gods plan..itll all go ok! rocker4God

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