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Back To Friends?


Question Posted Friday July 8 2005, 5:41 pm

I have a new boyfriend. He used to be a good friend of my but we started to have feelings for eachother. I know this question may be a bit cliche` but things are awkward. It just so happens he's my first REAL boyfriend & I'm not used to what's going on. Tonight's our first day & I'm started to have second thoughts. I miss how things were when the two of us were friends but I'm afraid that if I end things, they'll never be the same.

~Violet // 13/f


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LanaBabie answered Friday July 8 2005, 7:09 pm:
Being Boyfriend and girlfriend would just be more friendly, not less. Now if things end, you guys can still be friends. Just tell him about it now. I've stayed friends with some of my ex-bf's. It just depends. If you guys have a good relationship, then you should be able to remain friends even if you were to break up. Good Luck. <3 Lana

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twistedsister17 answered Friday July 8 2005, 6:57 pm:
Being a boyfriend and girlfriend shouldn't be all that different that being friends...you two will hang out as friends and as a couple. Just because you are going out with him doesn't mean you can't be friends, and just because youre friends, doesn't mean you can't be boyfriend and girlfriend. I hope I didn't confuse you. lol well Good Luck! <3

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ToddnDesBffeNe answered Friday July 8 2005, 6:07 pm:
if i were you i would explain everything to him. i know that he might act weird for a few days but he will get back to his normal self. thats what always happens when i date my bestfriends. they freak out after we first break up but they always bounce back. sometimes it takes longer for other people so give him at least two weeks and he will most likely be back to normal. hope i helped!

good luck!

signed:~Desy~

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Friday July 8 2005, 5:58 pm:
well if you where friends with him at first it might be a lil werid but if you liek him a lot then dont worry about it just let it take time. like a week or too f things dont seem to get any better 4 you then tell him how you feel and maybe you guys can be friends wit benifites =). hope this helps you out.
*~Stephanie~*

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