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Question Posted Saturday April 23 2005, 1:48 am

okay I didnt know what to put my 'questions' under so I just put miscellaneous, okay well I'm 13 and my mom and I fight a lot, I don't know why but we just argue all the time, is this normal?
okay another of my problems is that I used to like this guy very seriously, and now he's dating my friend, and this doesnt bother me at all, but I just feel like I got the short end of the straw, because I liked him for so long and now I'm left with nothing, I just want a boyfriend and I feel like the opposite of special, almost invisible, and some of my friends and I arent getting along as well, like one of my friends (she dresses very modestly) she said that I dress too showy, and it hurt my feelings, and last but not least, I am gaining weight (atleast I think so) and I don't want to say anything because people would think I just want attention or they would think I was crazy because they call me twiggy sometimes, I just need help with these problems, please this is important.


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ToddnDesBffeNe answered Sunday April 24 2005, 5:40 pm:
yes it is normal for you and your mom to fight a lot so you dont need to worry about that. it will problably get worse before it gets any better between you and her. i dont know what to do about you and your weight because some people have VERY high matabolisim and the higher it is the skinnier you stay. so just dont let anyone bother you about your wieght because it is probably just because of your matabalisim.

good luck.

hope i helped!

signed: ~Des~

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tada answered Saturday April 23 2005, 1:02 pm:
well i fight alot with my mom too but it will change cause our mind is changing too it will go away if you try and be helpful and not fight as much

now well if you like this boy for a really long time have you tried and talk to him or being close friends with him?

and dont worry what your friends think of you dress how YOU want to dress who cares they just might be REALLY JEALOUS of you and want your clothes forget them and find friends that wont judge you and will love you for YOU!!! hope i helped

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Shelly_x answered Saturday April 23 2005, 11:43 am:
well mums and daughters do fight well some girls have a perfect relationship with their mums but thats only a few. tell your mum that you hate arguing with her and say it really upsets you. the other problem with the guy and your friend, dont think about him go and find another guy who's better than him anyway! and as for this friend who is saying things about the way you dress then i would tell her exactly how i feel tell her it upsets you the way she says things about you if she does it again then i dont think she is a very good friend. and for your weight, when you say your friends call you twiggy then you must be thin, al girls are self concious about their weight even when they are really thin. just dont take any drastic measures like dieting or starving yourself. most of all BE HAPPY WITH THE WAY YOU ARE!!!hope i have helped you and sorry its long. lol
luv shelly

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