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my best friends?
okay ive known these girls for a very long time but this year we started to be best friends. we always did stuff with each other and had sleepovers every weekend. but lately they both have been getting mad at each other and they both turn to me to either invite over without the other or for advice. i feel uncomfortable because i don't want to get in the middle and i want to keep both for friends. i want to be as close as we used to be. how do i make that happen? help!
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i know about this. and my advice is simply tell your freinds about it WITH BOTH OF THEM THERE tell them you don't want to be in the middle of this and ask what happened we were best freinds and now we are not. I wanna know maybe we can still be best friends. If they say i can't be friends with her/him tell them that you won't choose who to be with that you like both of them and you don't want to that freindship to fall if you can't fix it just ask them if they can still be friends i hoped i helped you
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spend time with each seperatly they may not get along but if you do there is no use throwing away a good friendship plus why are they mad at each other maybe if you try to solve the problem or atleast figure out what happened you can mend ur friendship.hope i helped!
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well speaking from experience i would just tell them that you are fed up of being in the middle tell them to sort there own problems out
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Well just let things cool down and stay away from each other for awhile becoz some grls tend to get anoyyed after awhile with other girls soo just stay away for a few days or weekends just dont start to talk about one another becoz that will make the problem flare. hope i helped you some
kaitlyn jO*
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hey, well like ask one of them why they are always mad and then ask the other one the same question, and then try and fix it and if that doesnt work your allowed to have more than one best friends, and just because they are not friends doesnt meant that you cant be friends with them!
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get both of them together somehow and tell them how you feel about being in the situation that you are in. and maybe even bring up old memories...
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hummmm well its kinda complicated you should just sit them down and say " I want to be both of your friends but i don't want to be in the middle of this situation so if you could please work this out " idk if it'll work but you can try :)
hope i helped ya out
JaDa
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if i were you i would talk to your friends at the same time and tell them that you dont want them to fight anymore and that you want to be as close as you used to be. i know what its like to be put in the middle of these situtations. i tend to be the peace maker of my friends and me. and they always seem to come running to me for advice about everything. well like i said i would sit down with them and tell them that you dont want to have them fighting anymore and that you would really like it if they would talk everyithing out and settle it all right then and there.
hope i helped!
signed:~Desy~
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I think you should talk to one of your friends privately and ask them whats going on. Make sure they know that you are concerned about them and that you really like to hang out with them both together. Then go talk to your other friend about the same thing. Then I would sugguest going somewhere all together and try to talk this thing out because you can't avoid it forever. I know you don't want to get into the middle of it, but you might have to if you ever want you all to be friends again. Good Luck! <3
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ok try some hardcore group therapy..i know it sounds cheesy but try it! invite them over to your house (without your two friends knowing the other will be there) and when they are both there get into the mind of a therapist or something...tell one friend to start to talk about her feelings and tell the other friend not to interupt..maybe if everyones feelings are poured out, things will patch up..if not , hey you gave it one hell of a good try and they will have to makeup on their own when they come to a point of understanding. if this group therapy thing doesnt work out, make it clear to both friends you dont want to be caught in the middle..they will understand if they are true friends
i hope i helped..if this doesnt work inbox me
-meliss-
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well little missy...invite them both over and i think you should all have a talk. or else eat lunch together and get things straight..they shouldnt turn u down since they want to be w/ you w/o the other...just give it a try! being a prep lots of drama comes in and i always try to help whoevers fighting in the group to get back together..it always works =D..hope i helped!!
-TaYlOr*BeAr-
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