There is this guy that was my best friend last year. We always used to do stuff together and have fun but over the summer he got distant. At the beginning of the school year, it was fine. But then we stopped seeing each other for awhile becuase we weren't in any of the same classes. I always waved to him in the hall and sometimes he waved, others he gave me a dirty look and walked away. He has changed a lot, now he is very selfish and goes for girls by there looks. He is mean to mostly everyone and he changed so much. At the beginning of the year i had a crush on him and he understood but he wouldn't go out with me because i wasn't pretty enough. Now he won't even be my friend anymore. I miss him sooooo much how do i get him back? I'm sick of crying over him.
poetqueen answered Sunday July 10 2005, 5:26 pm: guys can be the biggest jerks if he doesnt want to be your friend anymore dont worry and get over that pathetic waste of a guy if hes so shallow hes only into appearance and has an attitude problem you dont want to waste your time with him. ever heard of a thing called karma? well i think that eventually this will all catch up with him hand hes gonna end up all alone just dont dwell on it and try to make some new guy friends. Hope i helped! [ poetqueen's advice column | Ask poetqueen A Question ]
sweetcorn answered Friday July 8 2005, 3:05 pm: First thing to do is try and talk to him and ask him whats wrong and is he ok? usally people go like that maybe when they have a family problem and they take it out on others.If he wants to go for girls with looks then let him because looks are not everything. Just text him and say ( hi (Name of boy) i was wondering how you are? if something is wrong i want you 2 know i am hear for you!) maybe he will answer and maybe something is wrong. Usally boys are mean 2 you when they like you! So don't worry i am sure he will be fine and you will be friends again soon. [ sweetcorn's advice column | Ask sweetcorn A Question ]
one_of_a_kind_chicka answered Friday July 8 2005, 12:18 pm: now that he has changed you have to think do you want him back? he isn't the same person that you became friends with. do you want a friend that treats you like that? i would just let the friendship die because he isn't the person you first became friends with and isnt' a very good one. [ one_of_a_kind_chicka's advice column | Ask one_of_a_kind_chicka A Question ]
icey0990 answered Friday July 8 2005, 11:57 am: so you tried to talk but he doesnt understand..im sorry but this guy changed and you need to accept the fact that hes just really mean now : /
friends are made and lost throughout life..it sux sometimes because i lost some really cool friends, but then new friends come along..you cant make him be nice to you, hes acting like an asshole so thats his problem and hes missing out on a good relationship..
i hope i helped..dont cry over this guy sweetie, he isnt worth your tears.
taylorbug234 answered Friday July 8 2005, 11:38 am: I'd talk to him. Write him a note about how you feel or call him or invite him over! Tell him that hes changed and you want the old him back...If he wont be ur friend cus ur not pretty thats wrong..just cus your popular or sumthin doesnt mean you dont have friends who arent the best looking..i have maybe 1 or 2 friends that are really overweight, but really sweet....and sum who arent that great lookin, im just an all around nice gal to everyone..just talk to him!! ;-) HOPE I HELPED!!
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