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Hey!
my name is Liz Lewis.
Im in 8th grade at oltman junior high school
i like to play softball during the summer. ive gone through lots of frustrating things during my life. althought im only 13 years old i have been through lots. my cousin was 27 and died in a car crash last fall, leaving 3 children. My grandpa has had 5 heart attacks in my life time.
I nevermet my grandmother. My uncle is a truck driver so i never get to see him. adn so forth. you get the point. ive been thourgh lots and i LOVE to help people out. i go to church every wednsday. but just to get it striaght its NOT confirmation (i have no clue what that is)
but yea so i like to know i helped at least one person out at the end of the day.

Love Ya'
Liz
E-mail: yuteschick090@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Cottage Grove, Minnesota
Occupation: student
Age: 13
AIM: yuteschick090
MSN: jllewis59@msn.com (i eat chicken food)
Member Since: January 17, 2005
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ive been with my boyfriend for 8 months, and we still havnt had sex, he had never given me a reason for it.. until my frustration forced me to have a chat with him about it and he said 'to be honest its because... the 'soldier' doesnt always stand on command' im 15 and he is only 18 is this normal?? can anything be done about it!? (link)
MY GOD WOMAN!!! its only been 8 months and your only 15!!! wait a while. at least wait till your outta highschool! do you know how hard it is for single teen mothers! they have to get a job which is most likely crapy and the crapy wadges they make is all they have to support them and their baby. and that includes housing food and diapers and other stuff like clothing! and dont think he'll always be there cause he loves you! get a grip! he's 18 so im guessing hes graduating this year or what not. which means he'll most likely be going off to college next year. and if he's not then he not a guy to stay with anyways cause he cant get a very good paying job with out going to college. and if he can than so be it. but all i really wanna say is wait. and if you dont wanna wait then at least think out your consequences! you might even have to drop out of school. so later you'd have to go get a ged which isnt a as good as a diploma. basically just think about your future not just the present!

liz


hi...i'm a 16/f and i like a guy in my grade.. we always chat and hang out together but i never tell him that i like him. he has a traumatic experience in love,his exgf that he used to love with his whole heart dumped him and since then he wasn't able to accept any girls. we are like best friends since he really believes in me and he tells me all his problems that he won't tell others.i've tried to give him a few hints b4 and it ends up like he doesn't understand it.. recently,our schoolmates start to make some rumours that me and him are couple. when i asked his opinion bout it he jus smiled and say he dun mind.whenever i need him he will always be there for me.he always act like my bf but he din actually tell me b4 that he likes me.is there anymore hints that i could give him or should i just ask him straight to the point?? please give me some advice... (link)
im sorry to say i dont have any ideas to drop a hint. but i will say that im going through the same thing
i like one of my best friends but recently the girl i know he likes thinks i called her a b***h and now shes spreading rumors around the school that my friend and i have been sleeping together.
which we havent casue i would never do that with someone unless we were married cause thats just how i am. So really all i have to say is that just ignore people. if they say something you know isnt true then thats all that matters. sorry i didnt really answer your question but that just poped into my mind and i had to tell you.

liz


Hi, I'm a 14 year old, girl Freshman. Recently this guy moved to my school. He is a Senior and he rides my bus on the way to school and from school. After a few weeks of being here, he started to talk to me. He got me to write him notes and I only like him as a friend. But quickly after that he began asking personal questions like, "Are you a virgin?", "What have you done with guys?", or "Do you want another guy to do that to you?" He doesn't want me to go out with any other guy. He wants me to go out with him. It is getting really annoying. He is the most perverted guy I have ever met and everytime I wear a skirt he is always peeking up it! I can't stand him! Now he wants me to sit in the back of the bus in the morning so he can do stuff or whatever. I said, "No!" of course and made up an excuse. Then yesterday he told me to skip 3rd and 6th period at school so he can 'do' me ith the bathroom. I am only a virgin and he is 18 I think! I don't know what to do. I tell my guyfriends and they say 'smack him', but I'm not violent.
Please help! This guy is so annoying. I don't like him anyway. He does drugs, smokes, and drinks. He is not my type and he has sex with all these girls! I don't want to have sex until I am WAY older! What should I do? Will this turn into something bad later? Thanks for the help! (link)
omg im sorry to say but i think this is out of your hands. just about a month ago this kid told me he was gonna make sure i was the first person he slept with and if he had to he was gona rape me. i was scared to tell my parents but my boyfriend finally got me to tell them and they told my principle. i think you should tell your parents then you should tell your school counsler if you dont want to do anyhting with him that could very likely be harassment if you look in your school hand bookif you have one. but you really should tell someone. hope i helped

liz


i have a good guy friend that i hook up with a lot. i really like him and ive been thinking about having sex with him for a while. im not sure if he'll think im easy because were not actually together. should i just do it or wait to see if we go out? (link)
hun, you should really wait till you go out. or even better wait for the guy you marry. sex is supossed to be something special between you and your husband not you and your best friend. if you decide to get married what do you think your husband will say hen your talking to him and you bring up the point that you'vev had sex before. or even worse an abortion or you've put your child up for adoption in like the tenth grade. all i have to say you should wait until your married and if you decide not to wait then at least wait until your out of higgh school! just remember though you may think your ready you need to think about the outcome of you having sex. do yiou want a babty at this point in time. and dont just think oh it wont happen to me cause it most likely will and just remember think about your future not just the present cause what you do in this time could change your life forever! hope i helped

liz




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