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Annoying Guy!
Hi, I'm a 14 year old, girl Freshman. Recently this guy moved to my school. He is a Senior and he rides my bus on the way to school and from school. After a few weeks of being here, he started to talk to me. He got me to write him notes and I only like him as a friend. But quickly after that he began asking personal questions like, "Are you a virgin?", "What have you done with guys?", or "Do you want another guy to do that to you?" He doesn't want me to go out with any other guy. He wants me to go out with him. It is getting really annoying. He is the most perverted guy I have ever met and everytime I wear a skirt he is always peeking up it! I can't stand him! Now he wants me to sit in the back of the bus in the morning so he can do stuff or whatever. I said, "No!" of course and made up an excuse. Then yesterday he told me to skip 3rd and 6th period at school so he can 'do' me ith the bathroom. I am only a virgin and he is 18 I think! I don't know what to do. I tell my guyfriends and they say 'smack him', but I'm not violent.
Please help! This guy is so annoying. I don't like him anyway. He does drugs, smokes, and drinks. He is not my type and he has sex with all these girls! I don't want to have sex until I am WAY older! What should I do? Will this turn into something bad later? Thanks for the help!
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ok i think you should tell him to go fuck himself and next time he sasy sumn u dont like or does sumn rack him thaat should get the message across u could also file sexual harassment and or call the cops on him and watch him get carried away and laugh at him while hes jacking off to himself in the mirror in the jail cell.......
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Listen just tell him to fuck off, if your not ready than your not ready!!! and if he does try to make you do that really even if your not a violent person do "smack him" dont let him make you do somethin you dont want to do!
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You've heard this abillion times, but you need to tell someone. or else, wait for him to find someone else his own age. untill then, wear pants, ignore him, etc. just stay away from him.
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If you feel violated by what this guy is doing then you need to tell someone. If he sits in the back you need to start sitting in the front of the bus. But if he keeps bothering you, tell a supervisor. Don't let him scare you. Take action.
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hi....
ok just let this guy know that your not interessted in a really bad way...like next time he asks you to do shit tell him...(yuk!I wouldent do anything with you if you were the last guy on earth and even then i would have to think about it!)brusing a guyz ego is the best way to go when you want to get rid of him but trust me your gonna get alot more of that type of guy because most guys are like that lol and if you have anymore questions at all just ask me and i'll answer for sure!
chow 4 now hun!
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well my 1st thing i would say is kick him in the balls when he says that kind of stuff but since your not the viloent type i think you should considered telling your mom and the pirciple this and let them get to the bottom of all this! cuz this is pretty darn serious! ((sorry if i spelt some words wrong but i think i did)) ne'ways! tell someone!!
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Wow Im sorry to hear this, i feel bad for you.
I think that this is sexual harasment (sp)? You HAVE to tell someone! Or ask your mom if you can liek get a ride to school so you wont have to seee ihm on the bus!
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thats horrible!...I'd say just ignore it. I mean, if u think that its really serious then i would tell someone. But I would say that if you leave it alone, and ignore him, then he might stop. Sit kinda close to the front. Never be alone with him cause you never know what he might do. You shouldn't have sex until your ready. Don't let him pressure you into it. If he tries to pressure you into it. Be firm and say no. say, "you smoke which is gross, I couldn't even think about kissing a person who smokes...you drink that makes you smell bad, and you have sex with all these girls, so you could have like STD's and stuff....sorry no thanks" then walk away. Let him no that you don't think its cool. You sound like a really nice girl, so you probubly have a hard time being mean!! lol ( ( thats good ) ) but, unfortunatley, in situations like this, sometimes, its the only option!
Hope I helped!
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omg im sorry to say but i think this is out of your hands. just about a month ago this kid told me he was gonna make sure i was the first person he slept with and if he had to he was gona rape me. i was scared to tell my parents but my boyfriend finally got me to tell them and they told my principle. i think you should tell your parents then you should tell your school counsler if you dont want to do anyhting with him that could very likely be harassment if you look in your school hand bookif you have one. but you really should tell someone. hope i helped
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Tell a teacher, tell a parent, an adult, tell your office, princable or tell him to leave you the f*ck alone.
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Dont do it.. If your not comfortable, then dont do it simple as that
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oooh my gosh get outta there girl you need to tell someone about this guy. wow he is very very perverted and should stop being that way. this stuff he is doing to you is called sexual harassment and it is a serious issue tell your parents, the bus driver, a teacher, someone that can get you outta that situation.
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SEXUAL HERASSMENT! can you say PERVERT! you neeeeeeeed to tell a teacher or something.this guy is no good and wont leave you alone,he needs to come to reality,someone also need to know that he is doing drugs and smoking drinking. cause he could be having some serious issuse from that and one day he isnt going to take no for an answer from you if you dont tell a teacher or counserlor then this situation could get much worse MY ADVICE: SPILL
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Your first hint that this guy is a fuck up is that he still rides the bus at 18. The second clue should have been the perverted questions. But if you still haven't figured it out,then he let you know perfectly when he wants to "do" you in the bathroom. Don't talk to him anymore except to say that'll you'll press sexual harassment charges on him if he says anything like that again.
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thats sexual harassment. tell a professor or something if he continutes not to stop
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First of all you should tell someone. And If he does drugs, smokes, and drinks, and he isn't 21, that is illegal, just as illegal as rape which is what he wants to do to you. Tell him you are not interested, and to piss off, and that he is a loser. Then tell an adult.
-ChRiStY
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Tell your administrator or councilor or even the principle that this guy is sexually harassing you. Tell them what you've told us. There was this one girl who I thought was threatening to "beat me up" but it was a misunderstanding, but before I found that out my mom heard me talking to my sister and called the school, they had no proof or anything, but they had suspended her for making threats. I ended up getting her unsuspended, but they don't necisarrily need proof. Or do you have a officer at your school (we do even though we're a good school) if so then try to get him busted for drugs. If teachers/administrators have a reason to believe someone has a dangerous or illegal item with them then they CAN and WILL be searched. So if you know that he brings weed and/or other things to school then tell on him and get him busted. I know tattling is not the best idea, but this is for your own good. Tattling is telling that someone tripped you, but when someone does something that makes you uncomfortable like this then you need to speak up. Maybe get one of your guy friends to talk to him, or seriously tell a teacher or administrator or councilor. Hope I helped, sorry if I didn't.
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You need to tell the bus driver. You can get him kicked off the bus. You cant just say he is assualting you. Then tell the school cousolar he is being sexualy assaulting. YOu can get him into major trouble-trix
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Hey, I would say that if he asks you to sit in the back of the bus again tell him no and that you dont want to be anywhere near him and if he doesnt leave you alone then tell the bus driver or tell someone who can help you and make him stop bothering you that is called sexual harrassment and you need to do something about it quit befor it gets worse, it could end up him forceing you to have sex with him which would be considered rape, and you should tell someone a/s/a/p like a grown up, telling your friends isnt that much help because theres not a lot they can do about it but tell your bus driver or someone you trust! I hope this helps, if you need anything else let me know and i'll help you out!-Nikki
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Dear Miss Annoyed,
Why don't you just ignore him. Now I know that might sound like something your mother would say, but honestly I think it would work. He would eventually get the picture. I know what you mean by his perverted remarks. But sometimes that's just a guy for you. I guess they think that turns us on or something, not knowing that it makes us lose respect for them and that it becomes very annoying QUICK. Yea he doesn't seem like urtype at all. So trust me just ignore him,and if that doesn't work then tell him you're not interested and that his little sexual comments are really immature. IF he really is 18 then it sounds like he needs to grow up..but anyways hope that helps hun. Good luck...
Much Love,
cHeMiCaL rOmAnCe
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It could turn into something bad later if you don't do something about it now. This guy is crazy. Tell him to lay the hell off and you want nothing to do with him. You don't want to do anything with him or speak to him. Tell him he makes you sick and when he finds something to talk about, other then sex all the time, then he MAY be worth your time. Other then that, tell him to find someone else to annoy the shit out of. This guy seems like a real creep! If he still keeps bothering you after all you say to him, report him to the cops. Or talk to a teacher, friend or close family member. This is sexual abuse. No guy should be talking like that, especially when you told him you have no interest in him what so ever.
♥ Krissy
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First of all sweetie you should really talk to someone about what this guy is saying and doing to you! Its called sexual harrasment! You can tell anyone a parent or a guidance counsiler at your school. If you think its to embarissing to tell someone then you should probally say something to him like "im only fourteen and im not into statutory rape thank you, why cant you just mess with some other girls your own age and leave me alone!" that might work. i know you mentioned your not a violent person so if you feel uncomfortable with saying anything to this guy then try to find rides to a from school so you can avoid him on the bus rides. Dont write him notes anymore and if he tries to talk to you during school then just walk away and pretend like you didnt hear him! If this guy has every touched you or if he ever does thats when you need to talk to an adult, he can go to jail for doing that! Its really important that he knows to wont take this from him anymore!
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If this guy is giving you this much or a poblem and making you feel that uncomfortable...and youve already expressed to him not to do certain things, then I would take this up with a conselor or maybe a school policeman (i you have those at your school) He doesn't have the right nor permission to do those types of things and say that kind of stuff to you! Stand up for yourslef and let him know that your not a smut and he's a perv!
Good Luck babe!
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