i have a good guy friend that i hook up with a lot. i really like him and ive been thinking about having sex with him for a while. im not sure if he'll think im easy because were not actually together. should i just do it or wait to see if we go out?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? elizaburt answered Saturday January 22 2005, 12:32 pm: hun, you should really wait till you go out. or even better wait for the guy you marry. sex is supossed to be something special between you and your husband not you and your best friend. if you decide to get married what do you think your husband will say hen your talking to him and you bring up the point that you'vev had sex before. or even worse an abortion or you've put your child up for adoption in like the tenth grade. all i have to say you should wait until your married and if you decide not to wait then at least wait until your out of higgh school! just remember though you may think your ready you need to think about the outcome of you having sex. do yiou want a babty at this point in time. and dont just think oh it wont happen to me cause it most likely will and just remember think about your future not just the present cause what you do in this time could change your life forever! hope i helped
Addie14 answered Saturday January 22 2005, 12:54 am: I say dont do it. Because ppl will say stuff that is not true and u'll get mad so i would wait tell u go out with him...If he says anything first then tell him. But dont do it like now when your friends cause then he or somone will amke jokes and stuff about it so jus choose what is best for you. Hope i helped..x3 Ashley [ Addie14's advice column | Ask Addie14 A Question ]
NEVERLETG00 answered Friday January 21 2005, 11:01 pm: friends with benefits are always a good thing in some peoples' eyes, but going all the way with him, i'd rather wait until you guys go out, if people hear that, their going to think that your easy, and HE may even think that, until you guys go out, do whatever, but try not to have sex, but its your decision =) pick well. xox [ NEVERLETG00's advice column | Ask NEVERLETG00 A Question ]
JR830 answered Friday January 21 2005, 10:58 pm: i think you should wait till your married..but that is JUST ME.. i mean if u really wanna do it..try not to..but if you really want to..wait till yall go out atleast..
Hope i helped..BYE'S [ JR830's advice column | Ask JR830 A Question ]
BabiiD answered Friday January 21 2005, 10:28 pm: Girl,if hes a good guy friend like you said, then he'll understand that you're not easy, you just wanna have sex with him because you're interested in him and you wanna go out with him and be his boo. If you're comfortable with having sex with him, than do it. He'll understand why.
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frenchfries21 answered Friday January 21 2005, 10:18 pm: um.. i would wait. if your not even going out yet then no. if anyone finds out you'll have a reputation as a slut because you werent even going out yet, wait until you've officially been dating for a little while. ok?
hope i helped!
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lildiamyn_69 answered Friday January 21 2005, 10:15 pm: This is a gentle subject. It all depends. Does he seem to confide in his friends things like these? If he does, beware, becuz he might tell them and THEY might get the wrong idea.
This is your decision, but my opinion would be to go out with him first for a while, and then it's all your decision. but if you are still unsure, don't do it. There are plenty more guys you can trust. Hope i helped. [ lildiamyn_69's advice column | Ask lildiamyn_69 A Question ]
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