Names Justin, if you need any advice, just ask me, i'll answer you with total honesty...
E-mail: Ask Me
Gender: Male
Location: Texas
Age: 18
AIM: ZxBoArDxZ
Member Since: January 23, 2005
Answers: 25
Last Update: June 4, 2005
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Female,16
The guy i like is really shy about girls, hes never had a gf before, and we are really good friends. ive liked him a long time, and i figured it was just time to tell him. I guess he really had no clue.. yesterday i talk to him alone after school, and said you know i like you and he was silent scuffing his feet and half smiling and he said THANK YOU.. tell me what is that suppose to mean? thank yOU!? and then he said wow this really caught me off guard i i.. and his friend walked by and siad lets go, i need a ride home, so hes said well i guess ill talk to you later and left...do you think maybe he jsut didnt know what to say, usually he'd say oh well lets jsut be friend or somthing like that but he said thank you, and its such a neutral comment... plus most people i know think he likes me.. so do you think maybe he was jsut caught off guard and didnt know what to say or what? (link)
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No clue, if he does like you tho, he'll start talking to u more and calling you and stuff...thank you, thats different i guess
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Alright I am 14 and have been going to my church youth group for about two years now. Luke .. My pastors son. He is 16 and totally cute! And I would love fer me and him to be friends. I would call us friends now, but we make fun of eachother alot. How could I get him ot notice me more ? (link)
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Ignore him for a while and see how he deals, if he likes you, then you'll know it cause he'll wanna see you...
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What is this friction between us?
If someone says that, then what does it mean and what does the friction part mean?
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what does it feel like when your rubbing together...hmmm dryyyy
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what do u look for in a girl? (link)
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i look for an honest, fun, outgoing, smart, and beautiful girl...
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Ok this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like? Thank you! (K) (link)
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Be totally honest, and don't tell the guy unless you know him well, tell him it's a personal question. Never lie just to try and make you him like you more. If there is anythig there, if you lie, you will ruin it, so tell the truth.
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u seem to give good advice so i thought i would ask u for some. me and this guy had a good friendship last school year and got closer over the summer. we never really started hanging out until this school year. when we did start hanging out we slowly became friends with benfits, lots of benefits. at first i thought i was okay with it because i thought he liked me and i liked him too so i thought all was good. i began to fall for him, hard, really hard. then after a while he started treating me horribly and became a total asshole. it didnt matter what he did to me or what he said to me or other people or how much he degrated and belittled me i couldnt stop hooking up with him or i couldnt say no. i just need help on what to do to stop getting with him and what to do to say no and tell him how i feel because i have learned that my ways are not working because i keep going back. thank you. (link)
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Tell him he's and asshole, and stop hooking up with him, maybe you should consider a boyfriend, or another guy who will respect you, dont just give him what he wants, make him work for it
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since ur a guy, i thought i would ask u .. ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female and i need the truth .. please dont just tell me what i want to hear .. i need to hear the truth! (link)
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i think since he is not answering that he still has feelings for you, send him some signals if you want anything to happen, a smile or just a hi how are you doing kinda thing. Let me know how that works out....
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Hello
I have been gaining alot of weight here lately and Im not so worried out the numbers on the scale its just the fat around my stomach and legs that is starting to get to me I am wearing a 5 in pants right now and i wanna lose some of the fat and make myself have a good stomach and legs does anyone have any ideas for me? (link)
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Buy one of those big exercise balls and you can do situps, pushups, and lots of balance exercises that can get rid of the fat. Also if you drink sodas and eat candy, try and cut back to just drinkign water and not having sweets. Eat lots of proteins and don't do that whole low carb thing, eat every 2-3 hours smaller meals.
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Just a random question :)
You know those jelly bracelets? The thin kind that come in colors like black, red, pink, white, etc.? Well I've heard that they mean different stuff i.e. black= had sex. So I'm just wondering, what do the other colors mean?
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That whole bracelet thing was made up by some idiotic group of soccer moms who wanted to make certain girls look slutty so thier own children could look really good...
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what do u think of break ups over the internet? would you ever break up with someone the day before V-day? (link)
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breakups over the internet are really immature and stupid. And yes if there was a good reason to breakup with someone the day before v-day i would. I would not be mean about it tho...
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Ok, so there's this boy who I was talking to, and I instantly knew we hit it off and I know he likes me. Problem is, he doesn't know I'm attracted to him! If he likes me, why won't he ask me out? I'm scared he'll lose interest in me because it's happened with my past 'potential' boyfriends because they never knew if I liked them or not. Plz help! (link)
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Maybe he's afraid to ask you out because he doesn't think your interested, try showing him more that there is something there...
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Okay, so I know this guy named Josh and I really like him. But, turns out a whole lot of girls are interested in him also. I wrote him a note telling him how I felt and he wrote me back saying he was talking to someone else and that we could still be friends. But, I want to be more than just his friend. What should I do??? (link)
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bang him...
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months now and as you probably know Valentines Day is really soon but i cant seem to figure out what to get him, i dont want to get hime like cologne or jewlery or clothes, something diffrent but i can't figure it out and i really need to figure out soon, and since you are a guy i figured i'd ask you, and i thought maybe you could tell me something you would like to get from a girl or something you got in the past from a girl on valentines day.. thank you.. ill rate high
*courtney* (link)
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I would want to get soemthing that really means something to me, like maybe a note about past time with each other, song lyrics, a cd with our fav. songs, maybe a picture or something. A classic valentines card would work as well. You could try like cooking for him too. Another thing that i have heard of some girls doing is actually getting flowers for their boyfriends, something kinda different...
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ok.... so im dating this guy, hes super nice and i care about him a lot and i know he cares about me too. i know he would always treat me right...but its kinda awkward when we kiss, its almost like we cant get in tune with eachother....and he has a friend that i was friends with before i even knew my boyfriend and i think im starting to like him more than my boyfriend. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but i just feel as me and his friend connect so much better... what should i do? (link)
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tell him how you feel, he will understand. It won't be easy for him at first but over time, things will be fine. Be friends...
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do you like it when girls take control of a situation? (link)
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yes i do, to an extent...
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this girl in my class started this rumer in school saying that i like her even though she knows its not true. know some of my friend snicker when i ask her a question.how can i stop this ?
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Punchisize her face, no i'm just kidding, start a rumor about her; a really mean one like she is a lesbian, haha...no bro just confront her about it and get things straight, don't be a pussy...
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my boyfriend and i just broke up but i cant seem to get over him...what are some ways i could get over him? (link)
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First make sure you really need to get over him, then start hanging with your friends more i guess, party have a good time, and don't hold back. Also don't ignore him, be mature and talk things over.
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my boyfriend and i just got back together after being broken up for a year, do you think that there's still a chance for us? i know that i'm in love with him and he loves me only not as much as i love him. i don't know if i'm just holding on to something that's not there anymore
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realtionships are crazy, but if u can get back together after a year of being apart, i'm sure the love will still be there. Time heals things significantly...
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whats the first thing that draws you to a girl? (link)
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Her smile, and how she looks into my eyes
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so i like this guy but like i dunno how to like get him to really NOTICE me. LIke he knows who i am but.....he doesnt see me like that i guess. I htink he used ot like me when we were a little younger, but now i think he just sees us as friends. He sits next to me in one of our classes, but like is totally flirting with the girl next to me. Wat should i do to get him or just guys in general o notice me?? (link)
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when he looks at you, smile big, be yourself and flirt with him a little. He'll get it...
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