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Any guys who can answer truthfully?
Ok this is a stupid question but i'll ask it anyway. What should you tell a guy if he ask you if you're a virgin? Evereyone is telling me different. some of my male friends tell me that you should defenetly tell them that your a virgin because all guys like the girls to be like pure and clean and stuff (i dont know, thats what they tell me) and that if your a virgin they will like you more because it will be like a big deal for them..you know, to get a virgin to lose her virginity is big, it will make them proud of them selves or something. And some of my friends tell me that they always go for girls that lost their virginity already because that would make them more experienced and stuff.And it will make the sex better.. And that it wont be as gross as having sex with a virgin..I dont know im soo confused! I dont want the guy to think that im a slut! but should i tell him that ive already done it so he likes me more? please don tell me to tell him the truth! tell me the truth, what do most guys like? Thank you! (K)
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Be totally honest, and don't tell the guy unless you know him well, tell him it's a personal question. Never lie just to try and make you him like you more. If there is anythig there, if you lie, you will ruin it, so tell the truth.
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I hate to say it, but you need to tell him the truth,sorry. But, to answer your question, the guys that are worth dating are going to prefer a virgin,because they believe in abstinence. Hope I helped!
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Tell the truth. It doesn't matter what they would prefer you to be. You can't change what you are or what you've done. Be upfront. Sex is not a subject to lie about.
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I'll tell you what you don't want to hear - that you should tell the truth. There is never a cut and dry answer to what guys as a whole like; everyone's different.
Most guys would want a fun, smart, honest girlfriend. If a boy finds out you've lied to him, he'll lose respect for you faster than you can imagine.
If you've had sex before, then you've had sex before. It's part of who you are and you can't change that. You probably don't want to have sex again with a guy who can't respect your past choices. If you care about yourself, then it's only fair to expect that any guy you're with should care about you as well.
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Tell him your a virgin and be proud. Dont lie to him, because if you guys hook up he'll probably know you lied. if a guy doesnt/does go out with you for your virginity and whether you lost it or not..hes too immature to be in a realtionship anyway. tell the truth. the end.
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