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i am 13/f and i like one of my best friends! i liked him for about 3 months now and all i have found out was that he has a girlfriend... thats like all he ever talks about! One day when i was hanging out with him and a couple of friends and we kinda made a bet about if this one basketball team wins that i would have to ask him out... well they won and i did and i told him it was a joke and he said idk ill think about it... but i dont know if he was joking or not to and then today at lunch he said yes... but he is known to make alot of jokes and i bet he is gonna turn around and say just jokin so idk what i should do... i bet he was joking... but he could be serious. how do i found out if he was joking or serious w/o him finding out that i kinda was serious?
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ask him " are you serious or are you joking."
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go ask him what time is he picking you up.
If he was going to joke he probably would have done that when you first asked him
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Well, it sounds like you've got a dilemma. The way he seems to be "playful" kind of hints to me that he is maybe a little flirtacious. This is a sign that he may be interested. I wouldn't push it though. If I were you, I'd just go about my days as if nothing new had happened. Right now, it's really fragile because he has a girlfriend. Personally when someone has a significant other, I just leave them alone, but if you really like him and want to make him want you, you need to flirt some. Be playful with him and laugh and smile a lot. These things really attract guys. If it's going to turn into anything, this will most likely speed the process and keep him wondering. This approach will probably make him think about you two as an item, and therefore it will help you out. Other than that, I would just play it cool. I hope this helps. Friendly advice from Caleb.
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This is really tough...talk to your closet friend that also knows him well enough to talk aobut that. Find out if he is breaking up with his current girl and if he like you as more than a friend. You never knows since you guys are really good friends..that happens alot to me and my friends...their really good guy friends will start to like them from talking so often. Well i hope i helped Good Luck!
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