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he said thank you.....whats that suppose to mean
Female,16
The guy i like is really shy about girls, hes never had a gf before, and we are really good friends. ive liked him a long time, and i figured it was just time to tell him. I guess he really had no clue.. yesterday i talk to him alone after school, and said you know i like you and he was silent scuffing his feet and half smiling and he said THANK YOU.. tell me what is that suppose to mean? thank yOU!? and then he said wow this really caught me off guard i i.. and his friend walked by and siad lets go, i need a ride home, so hes said well i guess ill talk to you later and left...do you think maybe he jsut didnt know what to say, usually he'd say oh well lets jsut be friend or somthing like that but he said thank you, and its such a neutral comment... plus most people i know think he likes me.. so do you think maybe he was jsut caught off guard and didnt know what to say or what?
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He was probably a little caught off guard & you already said he was shy about the whole girl issue. He probably needs time to think about the whole thing. Don't pry [keep telling him & keep asking what he thinks] let him come to you when he is ready, trust me! He'll come around with a better reply than 'thank you' next time! If he doesn't say anything for a while about it than maybe you should move on cause you deserve a guy who will let you know exactly he feels. Hope it all works out hun xo
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I think people normally respond with a 'thank you' when they feel they've been given a compliment, and that's what you've done. It makes people feel good to know that people like them - especially when it's someone they care about as a friend or more.
I don't know if he likes you. The obvious two options are that he doesn't - but is flattered - or that he does and was caught off guard.
Either way, I think he was surprised by your comments....especially if he had no idea. I've give him a couple of days to reflect on what you've said. If he doesn't bring the topic up in that time, then YOU bring it up.
You're obviously a girl in touch with her feelings AND her bravery (good for you - it's rare!), so taking the next step to ask his thoughts on what you've said is well within your reach. And as a friend, he must understand that you'll need some sort of response.
Scuffing his feet shows he was nervous, and the smile shows he wasn't displeased. I'd say things are looking up.
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No clue, if he does like you tho, he'll start talking to u more and calling you and stuff...thank you, thats different i guess
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he probly was just caught off guard and was so surprised he didnt know what to say. he probly does like you and is kicking him slef in the ass right now for not saying anything. i would bring the subject up again, and see what he says this time.
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It could mean "thank you" for letting me hear the one thing I've wanted to hear for a long time. He's probably just really happy and was lost for words. Boys are weird that way lol. Just talk to him and ask him what it meant but I'm pretty sure it's because that is what he wanted to hear. xO ali Leave me another with what he says!
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