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I'm boring.
I think I'm beginning to bore my boyfriend a little, which is very scary because I really want it to last for a long time. See, we just started officially "going out" not too long ago. At first, the conversation on the phone was awesome....Everything was great. But I think you eventually come to a point where you've gotten to know the person well enough and you run out of questions to ask...random childhood stories to tell...And then there's nothing to talk about other than stuff that happened to the two of you that particular day and junk like that. Because lately, our phone conversations have been reallly dead, and it seems like our relationship is beginning to become more and more of a "sexual" rather than mental relationship. What can I do about this?????? How can I think of interesting stuff to talk about on the phone and not bore him to death?
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I have to agree with the advice some people have given here, actually. You should try to go out with him more often one-on-one or with a friend or two joining. Hanging out is often better than the phone, since there is a bit more to do and there is always something you can talk about. Just be careful of what happens, watch yourself, and things should go fine. And trust me, there is ALWAYS something you don't know, even my closest friend and I are still learning things about each other that we never knew. All I can really say is this and look to the bright side, if things aren't working out, tell him the truth and just see what his opinion is. Good luck.
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hey u
spice it up talk about things like what he want in life and stuff just make it about him because with men you have to do that. ok just e-mail me if you have any more questions Taivon21@yahoo.com
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I had that same problem once. I think that you doing different things than just sitting on the phone, like meeting places and everything, that might help. But anything can make for good conversation. One subject might lead to something more interesting. Never know. Hope it all works out:)
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