OK i got this realllly cute real Guchi purse for my birthday. Its really cute! and I just figured out that the most popular girl in school has the same purse! Im really mad cause i really want to use it but i can't because if she see's it shes gonna hate me! and well she kinda likes me right now and lets me hang out with her and shes really nice and stuff. BUt we cant have any of the same stuff as them. Even clothes. It really stinks cause i love all her clothes and i have the oppurtunitiys to but them! I really like there group! should i even hang out with them?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Fashion and Styles? _eMiLy answered Saturday March 19 2005, 5:53 pm: First of all you need to double check that and make sure the purse says GUCCI and not GUCHI if it says GUCHI then it's far from real. Very fake.
Also, you got it for your birthday it's not your fault. If you're so bothered about what she's going to say then explain it to her before she jumps to any conclussions.
Besides, she won't care if she's a real friend. Which by the sound of it she isn't, but I'm not assuming untill I know the facts.
If she flips out on you after you've explained ditch her, no true friend tells you what to wear and when to wear it anyway. [ _eMiLy's advice column | Ask _eMiLy A Question ]
xOtWiXi answered Saturday March 19 2005, 5:50 pm: If it says GUCHI , its fake dear :-/ I don't believe that is real if you can't spell Gucci. Anyway, I'd just wear it. [ xOtWiXi's advice column | Ask xOtWiXi A Question ]
suz-e answered Monday January 31 2005, 4:27 pm: bring it somewhere outside of school that you are going to be with her. Ask her to go to the mall or something. When you both get there, butur purse on ur shoulder and start walking around. if she comments on it, wack her upside the head and say "i can have this purse if i want it, so let me be!!" [ suz-e's advice column | Ask suz-e A Question ]
luckycharm answered Monday January 31 2005, 4:26 pm: ok well first of all its GUCCI!!! never spell it guchi again thats horrible... but yea you should be able to wear/have what you want! if you go to school and she sees that you have the same one then just be like "omg you bought that too?" and tell her that youve had your for a while so she will think she bought it second and she wont be able to like "exclude" you or whatever... if she cares that much about herself and like not letting anyone else have anything that she hasd then i do not know why you would want to be friends with her but thats your problem... so anyways.. if she does dislike you then become friends with other memebers of the group... hope i helped
--lucky [ luckycharm's advice column | Ask luckycharm A Question ]
CollegeGirlNH answered Monday January 31 2005, 10:29 am: Teenage Drama, I have always loved it. You got your purse for you birthday, think of what you want and you shouldnt care what she thinks. Use your purse, it was a gift and you love it. Dont worry about what anyone else thinks. 10 years from now you will look back and laugh at that, and you probably wont be following styles as much.
mousie_101 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 11:29 pm: just ask yourself, are they my true friends or are they going to dump me tomorrow for the next new girl? If they are your friends, just let them have their style and you have yours and you can use your purse when your not with them. If they are going to dump you tomorrow just wear your purse every where, its not like you will care about them either in a week or so. I hope i helped at least a little!
~luv Lyndsey [ mousie_101's advice column | Ask mousie_101 A Question ]
livestrong answered Sunday January 30 2005, 11:25 pm: You shouldn't hang out with them what kind of group doesnt let eachother dress alike thats dumb me and my best friend go shopping together and buy the same stuff I think Its fun to dress alike... you should wear your purse I mean it is yours and if you don't you will just have to stare at how dumb is that... you should get them to change that rule... hope I helped..
~!~Live Strong~!~ [ livestrong's advice column | Ask livestrong A Question ]
fall_to_pieces answered Sunday January 30 2005, 10:40 pm: no, DO NOT hang out with these people if you are not allowed to be yourself.
that is the dumbest thing i have heard of...not letting other people wear the same clothes. ARGG...that makes me mad.
go buy those clothes that you want, use that awesome, new Guchi purse that you just got, be yourself and don't let other choose what you can and cannot do. [ fall_to_pieces's advice column | Ask fall_to_pieces A Question ]
cheerldrgurl answered Sunday January 30 2005, 10:17 pm: if they wont like you just cause you have the same stuff as them then they are not worth it. be yourself and no one else should care. have your own style and if your purse is your style then dont worry about what other people think.there are plenty of other really cool people that would want to hang out with you. and who knows maybe wearing your purse and not caring what the really cool popular girl thinks will make you the really cool poular girl. hope i helped [ cheerldrgurl's advice column | Ask cheerldrgurl A Question ]
dragonchick answered Sunday January 30 2005, 9:35 pm: ummm...... first things first its GUCCI! and who cares if the girl has the same purse i mean heck its a GUCCI purse if i had a GUCCI purse id be all over it so if she tells you anything tell her to take a hike! [ dragonchick's advice column | Ask dragonchick A Question ]
xShOrTiEx answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:41 pm: use it! it was a gift. if she says something, say you really like it and it was a gift and you cant give it back or say no, she needs to get over it. [ xShOrTiEx's advice column | Ask xShOrTiEx A Question ]
TanyaxO0 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:29 pm: i really dont think you should hang out wit that group then..if you like the purse you got then u should deff wear it! who cares what anyone else thinks or says..and if you like clothes that she has too, who cares buy it..dont put yourself down just because a few popular girls. if they're going to act like that you dont need them as friends..hope i helped [ TanyaxO0's advice column | Ask TanyaxO0 A Question ]
gsngirl7 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:25 pm: I think you should continue to hang out with them. See if your friend minds that you have the same purse. If she does, the you can still use the purse when she isn't around. Let me know what happens! Hope my advice helps! [ gsngirl7's advice column | Ask gsngirl7 A Question ]
angieroonie answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:24 pm: you shouldn't let other people tell you how and how not to dress. if they are like that then why would you want to be friends? is being popular so important that you lose yourself? my advice is to use your bag and dress how you want and if she doesn't accept that then go find some other friends. [ angieroonie's advice column | Ask angieroonie A Question ]
BoyILikeYourFace answered Sunday January 30 2005, 6:04 pm: Well. She dosent see like a really good person to hang out with. Just because she has the same purse as you, dosent mean that you cant use it. If she approaches you and tells you you cant use it, then you shoudl really just tell her to get over it, and stop hanging out with her. Most popular people are really bratty and selfish. I say, you just use the pyrse, and let her deal with it. Kthxbye [ BoyILikeYourFace's advice column | Ask BoyILikeYourFace A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:54 pm: Hell no dont hang out wit em.. you are allowed to wear what you want.. fuck what she says or think.. i mean thats not cool.. actually that sounds pretty damn stupid to me.. i'd wear and use any thing i want.. if she dont wanna hang round you cause that then forget her.. jus rock the things you wanna wear and dont think bout what this girl says.. and um if shes so nice she not going to care..jus do what you want.. and wear and dont let this run lil things like that..~*DEZ*~ ThugGirl041790 [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
xolilabbs214ox answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:34 pm: i would keep the purse.... if you really like it. and she will probrbaly feel flattered. just use it. shes noe gonna be the only girl that has that purse. and for the clothes.. shes not the only one that can wear them either. if you want them then just get them .. who cares what she thinks even though she is popular! hope i helped! please rate!
x0x0 abbey x0x0 [ xolilabbs214ox's advice column | Ask xolilabbs214ox A Question ]
TannerT09 answered Sunday January 30 2005, 5:14 pm: to hell with them...wear the clothes you want to wear..if they get pissed just say its a free country read the 1st amendment bitch.. [ TannerT09's advice column | Ask TannerT09 A Question ]
Sherry answered Sunday January 30 2005, 4:56 pm: Dont hang out with snotty girls like that. Wear the purse, and wear the clothes..if she has a problem with it...tell her to get over it! You can wear your purse and you can wear whatever clothes you want. Dont just not wear them because you want to be friends. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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