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get over you ex
I really need a lot of help on getting over my ex boyfriend. I went out with him for 9 months and we loved eachother and everything*. but we broke up like 4 months ago and since he was my first love and first and only person to have sex with.. i was absolutly in love with him. But now he has a new gf and i need to move on. I sorta like this kid and he likes me a lot too but i just need help .. i can't like picture myself with any1 else yet.Nothings like 'clicking' with any1 esle.. nothings the same. Help please- i'll rate
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i had that problem..there isnt a specific answer that works for everyone. Just get out and look for the good in guys that what i did . think of things you like about in guys you know... not very helpful but thats what i did and it worked for me
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well, yours is a tricky one. i know how you feel, let me say that. Same thing happened to me and my ex. If i were you, i would try this other guy out and see how you feel. I would also talk to your ex and tell him how you feel. Also be sure to alk to his new girl friend and tell her that you arent trying to stal him away from her, you just want some answers to your relationships. but with this other guy, let him know that you like him, but let him know that you just got out of a really long relationship. Just be honest with everyone. that is the best thing you can do. Hope i helped!!!!!!!
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Dont waste you time on him....i knwo you think he is great but trust me he isnt worth it, i went through this like 5 months ago, and dont worry it will get better, and dont throw your whole life away over one guy i mean your 13 dont grow up too fast
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Just because he has a new girlfriend doesn't mean you have to move on... but from what it sounds like... i don't think ur ex has any feelings for you... if you kinda like this other kid than maybe you should go out with him. WHo knows, maybe you'll wind up liking this kid alot. Sooner or later something will click and you will be able to picture yourself with someone other than your ex
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first loves are always the hardest... you need to keep yourself busy and surround yourself with friends. find some new hobbies or try some new sports or something and keep your mind off of him. dont call or try to communicate with him much afterwards either cuz that will always make things worse. break ups are hard but its an opportunity to learn a lot about yourself and what you want out of a relationship. remember that there will be somebody else out there for you, and you might not find him right away but just be patient. you might even be able to consider that first relationship when you get your heart broken as something thats necessary to find that really great one that can last a lifetime... good luck.. always here for you!! ~Kendra~
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I was in a similar situation before. What really helped me, was that I kept myself busy. Try going out with other friends alot. If you hang out with friends and throw yourself into your work, you will not think about him as often. Hope my advice helps!
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You need to surround yourself with a million different things like going out and partying with your girlfriends, schoolwork, after school stuff like sports and junk, this new guy that you think you might like...Just try your absolute hardest to completely put this guy out of your mind. Think of it as you moving on to bigger and better things. Eventually, you'll realize that you're better off without him.
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You should Move On...You'll feel a lot better! Just think that he left you, he missed out! BE with the Other Kid! Don't Worry, you'll get over your ex
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I know how you feel. You fell like there will be no one else ever to love again. Trust me, those things your thinking are wrong. I totally thought that and I found myself, a few months later...over him. It might take a while..but try not to focus on him so much. Try to like other guys, get to know other guys..stuff like that! I know what your going through..if you want to talk..you can leave one in the inbox:)
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