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okay my best guy friend and my best girl friend are going out...i really wish them luck..but i cant help but feel jealous...i keep telling myself that i dont like the guy.but every time i see him i melt..the girl invites me to the movies with them but i dont think i could take it..watching them hold hands..is there anything i can do about it..or should i just sit back and watch them go out to the movies and crap right in front of me...i promise ill rate high and i really need help...(13 female)
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Ok. I know about the whole jealousy thing. I know. It's really hard to see people you really care about going out. You might actually like the guy, I don't know. But for now, you can't stop them being together. I really know how you feel right now and it's down right crappy. After they break up, then you can go after the guy if you really like him. But for now, just sit back and relax. I know it's hard to watch them together, but for now, cheer up and be happy. You don't need a boyfriend, you can be happy anyway. :)
~Hope that helped~
~K~
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I have the same problem...Just talk to the one you feel closest to about this problem...odds are that they'll understand and try to keep the PDA's to a minimum when their with you...if they don't, then just take a break from going out with both of them together...It really helps!:)
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yeah its probably hard for you ...but just sit back and relaz be happy for them .....when you get a bf i bet your guy friend will be jealous
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Seeing as they are your best friends, I think you're going to have to sit back.. They'll break up eventually, and if you still like the guy (and your girl friend doesn't mind - remember friendship is more important than a relationship any day), you can see if he likes you. But for now, you're stuck.. sorry if that wasn't what you wanted to hear.
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Don't torture yourself. You can hang out with them separate. She is just trying to include you. Tell her you would like to do something different with just her. Or you could find someone else you like and take them with you.
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OK, don't get mad if I don't sound sophisticated or smart or whatever, because with this question I'm going to be completely honest and tell ya what I'd do. So this girl is your bestfriend and the dude is your best friend...hmmmm. If you melt when you see this dude, imagine how you'd feel if you saw him and your BEST FRIEND all over eachother at the movies? Totally not fair, and that's why I would NOT go. If you wanna be bold, you could tell both of them how you feel. But for now, say your busy and just don't go.
*Hope I helped!*
-Emily-
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Well, now is a bit too late to start it all over again - but if you can't stand going with them, don't. And if you need help with it, tell your girl friend how you feel, and if she's a true friend, she'll understand. But never try anything behind the scenes to get them to break up or anything; that can only make things worse. Let them go out, and maybe they'll get bored with each other, who knows?
-Disregard any and all sop-called-advice from the columnist "Roadkillsalad35." It was me, but now it isn't.
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The same thing has happened to me plenty of times and i always felt really bad about it. you have a few options to solve your problem.you can tell your friends how you feel about it but theres not much that they can do. you can deal with it and keep it to yourself.or you can try talking to someone else like a sibling or relative and see what they say. hope i helped.
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tell your friend how you fel, at first just tell your girl friend and tell her you cant help it. Let them be but once they break up if its okay with your friend tell him. If you want them to be happy just let them be together and wait for your special guy.
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okay... you could your girl friend how you feel. but she might get a bit angry... you could also look around for another guy. it really depends on what ure friends are like. if i was in that position i would try move on... get another guy and forget about my feelings for my friend. but that could crush you if it doesn't work. i'm sorry... havn't really been that helpful. if you think your girl friend will take it well then talk to her.
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Hey!...i think you should sit down whith them both {at the same time or seperste what ever your comfotable with } and just tell them how you feel if there really your friends they'll understand...hope i helped
xoO Carly <3
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you definetly like this guy... but you shouldn't try and steal your best friends man... its cruel... maybe you should go to the movies with them because its not like you guys aren't friends... plus it will give you time to be with your crush, but don't hang out with them all the time because they definetly want some alone time too.
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Dont go out with them. You'll feel left out and like the third wheel. just explain to her that you dont want to go because you'll feel left out because their going to focus on eachother and not you..she should understand
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