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ok well ive been goin out wit this guy 4 about 2/3 months and we still didnt kiss he alwayz sayz he is gonna kiss me and wen he is wit me he he dont stay by me at all he alwayz makes ^ exuses about y he didnt tak 2 me n stuf i realy like this guy & he tells me he luvs me & he tells his friendz he loves me but i dont this he realy likez me ! he also dont like some of mi friendz i think & he says they r the reason y he dont tak to me and i think it is wrong i am not alowed to have a boyfrend cuz i am only 12 and he alwayz says he wanna hang out n stuff but when we do hang out his frendz alwayz come before me and he ignores me n wen i talk to him about it he says he tried n stuff and im getting tired of it ! i really like him ! so wat do i do !please help mee
is he shy , scared of me or wat?
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well, guys have a rule, bro's before hoe's... dump him and hang out with ur friend if he is doing all that crap
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Tell him you want a one on one date with him liek staraight out. Ask if he wants to c a movie or go to a fair or sumthin etc. etc. If he sorta ignores the question or says hes buisy like eveyr day u ask him- then plan for the week ahead.I f he just makes up mroe and more excuses try tlkain to him again(hoo knows he poss. could just be intimidated and jittery by having a gf of nervous around u)- tell him all of the thigns you just told me and ask him wats up wit it all. If he still says its because of your freinds- tell him plain old out htat you like your frends and frends become before boyfriends. You ight have to let go of him, but ull realize he wasnt worth loosing your freinds, I eman youd probably keep loosing them and loosing them if u did wat he said, and all so hed be the only one your could turn too. he'd probably liek that and all, but face it isnt hvain alottta frend better then 1 guy? you decide!
hope i helped and gud luck!
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This guy doesn't sound like he loves you very much. If he loved you, he'd want to be with you all the time, he wouldn't put his friends infront of you (especially ditch you and ignore you). You seem a lot more mature then him and you want a boyfriend you can actually be with and spend time with. This guy is so immature. If he really ment everything he says about you, he'd actually want to hangout with you! Since you really like this guy, stay with him. But if he keeps doing this to you; ignoring you, ditching you, not talking to you or kissing you. Dump him! He shouldn't be with a girl like you. You should be with someone that puts a smile on your face, not tears in your eyes! Remember, you got to meet a few wrong ones before you get the right one.
♥ Krissy
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Dear Tired of Excuses,
Okay okay, lets take a breather and take this one step at a time okay? Ready? Here we go..
First of all you said you arent allowed to have a boyfriend. I cannot tell you I am okay with this. Disobeying your familys rules is not very wise idea. But since you still choose to be in a relationship lets try and figure out what's presently wrong with it.
If you have been dating this boy for 2-3 months and he still is not comfortable with kissing you, then perhaps you should consider the idea that he may have never kissed anyone before. You two are very young, he may not have had many relationships before yours. The only advise I can give here is to confront him about it. Tell him you think you two are ready to take your relationship to the next level (the kissing level). If he still feels he is not ready then you must respect his wishes.
But trust me when it comes to kissing, he will come around eventually.
As for the dilemma between both of your group of friends, I think it is best that you have a discussion with them separately. Talk to your boyfriend first. Tell him you want both him and your friends to get along. Tell him you are also interested in befriending his friends. I think it is important for your friends and boyfriends to get along with each other. Both will help balance the other.
I supposed the key to fixing your relationship is communication. Be sure and let your feelings out. Tell your boyfriend how you are feeling. Tell your friends you want them to get along with your boyfriend. And you may even consider talking to your parents about you being able to have a boyfriend. Secrets are never good.
Talk your problems out and I promise you they will fade away.
Best of Luck,
She Screams.
P.S. If you find my advice helpful, please rate me and be sure and tell your friends.
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hmmm.... it sounds like he really does like you, because he told his friends that he LOVES you. But it doesn't sound like he's too mature, because he always puts his friends before you.
It sounds like he doesn't realize what he has most of the time:( But I always tell people, if you're unhappy in a relationship, leave. And since you're young, you have plenty of time for all that heartbreak. You can find someone who will give you the attention you deserve.
I think you should give him one last chance to straighten up by talking to him, and if that doesn't work, leave, even though it might hurt.
If you have ANY other questions, you can always come back:) Hope I helped, and hoped it works out for you.
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He doesn't love you, he doesn't even like you. Or he might not be ready for a relationship. How old is he? 12 too? or 13? He might not understand what its like to have a girlfriend yet. I think you should break up, and just be friends. Maybe later on, when your both older and mature..you'll go out. but right now your too young to understand girlfriend/boyfriend stuff. Maybe your ready for a relationship but your boyfriend is not.
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Ok well I think hes shy to kiss you but also I think he's being some kind of a jerk... he shouldn't ignore you that's dumb your his girlfriend... I think you should dump him Im sorry I know that's not what you wanted to hear but he ignores you and doesn't talk to you when your friends are around and chooses his own friends instead of you and doesn't even make time to come up and talk to you... you can do so much better... take a deep breath... and think about it... is he even worth it... your 12 you got the rest of your life... take a break from him...
Hope I helped...And remember... ~!~Live Strong~!~
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aww..Okay here is what i think. I think that you're are a more mature level then him and are ready for a boyfriend and all of the responsibilities that come with it. I think that this guy really does like you and thinks you'r really awesome but i don';t know so much about "love". He might just be saying that because he doesnt really know what love is and how to express it, he is onyl 12. So he is probablyh thinking about haning with his buddies when they come and he doesn't want to make a big deal and show affection to you when you are there. I think that you shouldn't let it bother you too much and just act as though you are just good friends because i think that is probvably what he is thikning right now.
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already answered that one darl!!! lol.
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He is probably a little of both. Maybe he just is scared to have a girlfriend and or amybe he has bad experiences with them in the past. You should just kiss him first. that way it takes the pressure off him and you already seem like you would be comfortable with it. wait for the right moment and just do it! And tell him that if he stops putting his friends first, you dont want to be with him, then he will get the idea and will pay more attention to you and talk to you more and if he doesnt, leave him, he doesnt deserve you if he is going to treat you like that. And if you do break up tell your friends how much he ignores girlfriends and that way the memo will get around and the next time he asks someone out, she wont want to because she heard he wouldnt treat her right. I hope i helped!!
~luv Lyndsey
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well, because of your ages i'd say he's shy and scared. he may not have even kissed a girl yet. he prolly dont know what to do. at that age guys act all macho around their friends so dont be surprised if he puts you down in front of them. it a pain in the arse time in your life to date. guys are so immature! think about it... it has been scientifically proven that guys take at least 2 years longer than girls to mature. keep that in mind. and also, this is time for you to have a bunch of fun with your friends. if a relationship with a guy gets in the way of that then leave him. friends stay forever, boyfriends leave when bored. keep that in mind. dont ruin your friendship for him. good luck darl
~ANGE
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