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I am a graduate student at a public university in New England. I am a social liberal, and I have (and can give advice on) scenarios involving the discovery of sexual traits.

In other words, I can talk about questions like:
Am I gay?
Am I bisexual?
Why do I enjoy getting/giving pain to others?
Why do I enjoy tickling others?
Why do I enjoy being tickled?
Why am I fixated on one non-sexual body part?
E-mail: recycler@duh.org
Gender: Male
Location: Epping NH USA
Occupation: graduate student
Age: 32
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Hey everyone! Okay so I am going out with this one guy named David. So anyway, things have been going great but recently he has be talling about these weird "scenerios" that he wants to do. He keeps telling me that he wants to hold me down and tickle me under my arms and on my feet (my most ticklish spots) until I cry and beg, which scares me because I am majorly ticklish and I hate it. He also has been talking about different sexual things and its kinda creeping me out. I dont wanna break up with him, but he is acting so weird. I think it might be just a stage or something. Should I break up with him or give him another chance? Thanx 4 ur help! (link)
i think I'm in the same boat as your boyfriend... but I've controlled my, um, obsessions with both tickling and "different sexual things." It sounds like he has a tickling fetish.

If you're really tired of it, tell him:

"I have bad news and good news. The bad news is I'm dumping you -- primarily because you like to tickle me and I hate it. Most people hate it.

The good news is that you're not alone. There are some people that like to tickle, or be tickled, or both. You (and they) have a tickling fetish.

Here's some terminology for you. If you like to give, but not receive, you're referred to as a TICKLER. (Big surprise there.)

If you like to receive, but not give, you're referred to as a TICKLEE.

(Many times, these are abbreviated with apostrophes: Being a 'ler or a 'lee.)

If you like to give and receive, you're referred to as a SWITCH."

There are hundreds of websites out there, but I hesitate to share them with you (and/or David) because I don't know your age.

Also, there are tickling-oriented gatherings throughout the world; most are in the U.S. I've been to many in Pennsylvania, Upstate New York, Ohio, and California. Again, I hesitate to share details of these events with you (and/or David) because I don't know your age.

Feel free to e-mail me with questions: recycler@duh.org.

-- Adam


Please help me with my relationship problem, my boyfriend is like absessed with tickling me, he thinks it's funny and cute. It's fun, but it gets annoying. When I tell him to stop, he just keeps doing it. I can't get away. What do I do?? No matter how much I ask, he won't stop. (link)
I think I'm in the same boat as your boyfriend... but I've controlled my, um, obsessions. It sounds like he has a tickling fetish.

If you're really tired of it, tell him:

"I have bad news and good news. The bad news is I'm dumping you -- primarily because you like to tickle me and I hate it. Most people hate it.

The good news is that you're not alone. There are some people that like to tickle, or be tickled, or both. You (and they) have a tickling fetish.

Here's some terminology for you. If you like to give, but not receive, you're referred to as a TICKLER. (Big surprise there.)

If you like to receive, but not give, you're referred to as a TICKLEE.

(Many times, these are abbreviated with apostrophes: Being a 'ler or a 'lee.)

If you like to give and receive, you're referred to as a SWITCH.

There are hundreds of websites out there, but I hesitate to share them with you because I don't know your age.

Also, there are tickling-oriented gatherings throughout the world; most are in the U.S. I've been to many in Pennsylvania, Upstate New York, Ohio, and California. Again, I hesitate to share details of these events with you because I don't know your age.

Feel free to e-mail me with questions: recycler@duh.org.

-- Adam


Hey all! I have this really weird fetish. For some reaaon I really love to tickle people and I love to be tickled. Do this make me a freak or gay or anything? Im afraid to tell my friends because I dont want them to think im weird. Should I tell them? Thanks! (link)
I'm in the same boat. You're not alone. Here's some terminology for you.

I like to give, but not receive. In the online tickling community, I'm referred to as a "tickler." (Big surprise there.)

I know some who like to receive, but not give. In the online tickling community, someone like this is referred to as a "ticklee."

Many times, these are abbreviated with apostrophes: Being a 'ler or a 'lee.

You, like most people with tickling fetishes, like to give and receive. You're a "switch."

There are hundreds of websites out there, but I hesitate to share them with you because I don't know your age.

Also, there are tickling-oriented gatherings throughout the world; most are in the U.S. I've been to many in Pennsylvania, Upstate New York, Ohio, and California. Again, I hesitate to share details of these events with you because I don't know your age.

Feel free to e-mail me with questions: recycler@duh.org.

-- Adam




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