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Weird Boyfriend
Hey everyone! Okay so I am going out with this one guy named David. So anyway, things have been going great but recently he has be talling about these weird "scenerios" that he wants to do. He keeps telling me that he wants to hold me down and tickle me under my arms and on my feet (my most ticklish spots) until I cry and beg, which scares me because I am majorly ticklish and I hate it. He also has been talking about different sexual things and its kinda creeping me out. I dont wanna break up with him, but he is acting so weird. I think it might be just a stage or something. Should I break up with him or give him another chance? Thanx 4 ur help!
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i think I'm in the same boat as your boyfriend... but I've controlled my, um, obsessions with both tickling and "different sexual things." It sounds like he has a tickling fetish.
If you're really tired of it, tell him:
"I have bad news and good news. The bad news is I'm dumping you -- primarily because you like to tickle me and I hate it. Most people hate it.
The good news is that you're not alone. There are some people that like to tickle, or be tickled, or both. You (and they) have a tickling fetish.
Here's some terminology for you. If you like to give, but not receive, you're referred to as a TICKLER. (Big surprise there.)
If you like to receive, but not give, you're referred to as a TICKLEE.
(Many times, these are abbreviated with apostrophes: Being a 'ler or a 'lee.)
If you like to give and receive, you're referred to as a SWITCH."
There are hundreds of websites out there, but I hesitate to share them with you (and/or David) because I don't know your age.
Also, there are tickling-oriented gatherings throughout the world; most are in the U.S. I've been to many in Pennsylvania, Upstate New York, Ohio, and California. Again, I hesitate to share details of these events with you (and/or David) because I don't know your age.
Feel free to e-mail me with questions: recycler@duh.org.
-- Adam
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ok this is just what i am gonnatell you THIS GUY IS CRAZY!! who wants to tickle you untill you beg!! that is weird, for you break up with him!! and do it fast untill you have to start beggin
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stay with him... being a love slave is fun :-)
right..... no break up with him, hes a fucking physco... spread rumors about that weird things hes saying too so no one else has to deal with him
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maybey he is acting weird because he is on drugs or drunk. i would give him another chance but if he is doing drugs or an alcoholic dump him! dump him! dump him! if this helps rate me.
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hmm..sounds creepy. haha. just let him know that he is creeping you out i guess. haha. just try to let him know in a cute way. if he doesn't stop and you are feeling uncomfortable, then you should break up with him.
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i think you should give him another chance and see what happens if he doesn't change and you don't want to have sexual things with him then you guys should probably break up..
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If it's really making you uncomfortable about him talking like that, then tell him. Teenage boys are probably the horniest creatures on the planet, so maybe he's getting slightly aroused thinking about something like that. You need to tell him that it's bothering you because if you don't talk to him then he won't stop. Breaking up with him because of that would be a stupid thing to do. You need to at the very least tell him that you're uncomfortable with it and you want him to stop and if he continues, THEN break up with him. If you break up with him now, he won't know what he did. Just give the guy a chance, who knows, it could be just a stage. All I can say is to talk to him about it, even if you're uncomfortable talking to him about it, you still really need to if it's making you that uncomfortable.
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Hey umm...well that is kind of funny but creepy at the same time! LoL! maybe you just need to tell him not to do that because its kind of creeping you out! but if you really liked him then you wouldnt break up with him! i mean he probably really likes you and he doesntknow that hes creeping you out so just talk to him! well i hope i helped and i hope it works out! follow your heart!
0x0x' dina
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i don't think there is a stage. but some boys when they have girl friends are sexually attracted. just cuz they have the prettiest girl.tell him to tone it down and that he has been acting strangly.dont' tell it to him in a rude way . tell it in a nice way but straight enough he dosen't think your kidding.
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