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boys..ugh...
hey im a girl and im bout to be 15..i feel like i *need* a boyfriend but i cant find any guy that i would want as one...every time i start "talkin" (thats what we call it here..it means that were both likin each other and we konw that we like each other but he hasnt asked me out yet hah) idk what happens...we talk for a lil bit but every time i like totally ditch him and i dont know why..i mean i want a boyfriend but im havin trouble gettin one in a way..i mean im scared im gonna get the reputation as a hoe or somethin bc everytime i end it with someone theres always a *back-up* i guess you could say bc a day or 2 later i have another guy..what is wrong with me? should i just leave the guys alone and be single for a while? is this jus a phase? do you think a lot of gurls go thru this?..
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hmmm... well if you like him, you shouldn't ditch him.. make him feel comfortable, dont worry so much about what everyone thinks, if u like the guys and they like you, then go for it!
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hey man!! theres nothing wrong with you
all u need to do is find a person who is perfect for you instead of "talkin" and "ditching"
dont go from one guy to another choose and make your decision wisely .....dont jus start a "talk"
and bang end it .....and you should just be single for now ..its the wisest thing to do ....it is a phase and yuo will soon get over it
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I think your doing what dating at 15 should be. You shouldnt be tying yourself down or getting too serious with one boy. This is the time you should be "talkin" with different boys to see what qualities you like in a boy so that when its time to get serious and find a life partner you will know exactly what you want.
As far as being seen as a "hoe" that wont happen if your just "talkin" and not makin out or stuff with all of them.
Good luck!
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