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I'm a 15-year old female. I've liked the same guy for approximately 2 years. I told him about a year ago that I liked him and all he said was "I don't want to get involved." Recently he has begun to act slightly differently towards me. On a mission trip with our church we stayed out and talked after "sharing night" for about half an hour. We would have talked longer, but the leader called us in. When we got up to the dorms, we kind of just stood there and looked at each other for a minute, then went in. It felt like a kissing moment. He'd been asking me if I would mind if he sat by me, instead of just sitting there like he had done previously. I brought him jello last week when he got his teeth pulled and he hugged me as a thank you, which he's never done before. The only times I've ever hugged him is in church. Not that I minded. ;) I'm wondering if I'm reading too much into this. Is this normal friend behavior, or should I "make a move"?
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i would hold back a little he might hav slight feelings toward you maybe a closer friend let him make the first move get to be close friends so maybe he feels "brave" enough to let you know hes interested
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He really seems like he likes you.I think you should make a move.And if he still isn't intrested, then just keep trying!hope i helped!
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I think it is borderline between normal friend and boyfriend. He is warming up to you for sure. So I would just go slowly and enjoy the ride. The fact that he wants to sit right beside you is a small clue that he wants to be more than just friends. As long as he is doing new things, let it go. It's probably time for a talk about feelings if you are up to it. But otherwise I would sit back until it got too uncomfortable.
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It is normal friend behavior for some, but not all. If he has never done if before, it may be a sign. But it may also just be that he is warming up to you. At any rate, don't make a move yet. Watch and wait.
If you feel the need to do something, though, be subtle about it. Do something just as friends, or in a group.
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DON'T wait for him make him suffer til'l he makes the first move but if a week goes by and nothing then MAKE THE MOVE
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Since you already told him how you felt a year ago I think You should let him do the asking if hes going to. His behavior could just be friendly. That doesn't mean it won't turn into something more but let him decide. Talk to him and keep doing what you're doing and see what happens. :)
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