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hey. just to let you guys know. this was posted on louisianaisforlovers account but i have asked her perrmission and she said i can use her account to ask my question. i am a 12 year old female and i live in a REALLY small town that probably has about 500 to 600 people living in it. & my parents are WAY to overprotective. i mean take actually today for example i was at the local hangout and about 15 to 20 people were going play basketball at a schools playground just down the road. with 2 of these people being at least 16. and we all have cell phones. & i called to see if i go & i named all the people going. well she said no. and i aasked why. and she told me thats it dangerous. WTF? i mean theres 20 people there. hooly s**t im not freaking 8 years old. and when i got home i was mad so i walked up the stairs pounding my feet on them & she called me down and said yea im sure they're were 20 people going. and i was like mom i named the people. what do you think im lying. and she said i only do it because i care. but i mean. i never get to do the stuff EVERYBODY else is doing. and i always have to make up some lame excuse why i cant go. ugh. i need help!. pleasee im deperate
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Well, find out exactly why she is being so overprotective. She needs to atleast give you a valid reason for you not being able to go. I'm sorry but "because it is dangerous" isn't a very good excuse when your going somewhere with 20 people, 2 of them being old enough to have some responsiblity over the others, to a place right down the road from where you are. You need to tell her your getting older and your old enough now to be able to go more places, and especially getting to go places where there is an abundance of friends you obviously know very well. You also need to tell her this in a calm matter, and if she still disagree's, pursue the conversation, let her know how frustrated you are with all this overprotectiveness and keep telling her about it and to give you more freedom and responsibility. Be honest about it and keep at it.
I hope this helped and and your mom eases up a bit.
-Ryan
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your in the seventh grade...explain how you havnt had a lot of change in what you have been able to do from elementary school, tell her you always have your phone on, tell how you hang out with good people...dont lie!! she can take away everything if she catches you in any lies! remember you want her to trust you! talk about the subject more than once!
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you should just sit down and talk to her and tell her how she feels. i know its not what you wanted to hear but dont worry about it..she'll lighten up sooner or later, after all you're only 12.
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