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Me And My Ex
Well This Is Goin To Be Long. I'm 15 a Female...and me and my ex just recently broke up we dated for a 1 yr and half..i did 1 thing wrong. i was drunk and selfish didnt no wat i was doin and we broke up..i swear up and down that i love him..he said were history were through he never wants to talk to me again...well i got a msg on icq last night..sayin him and his sister is after me..so i msged him back..and he threatened me and *ALL MY FRIENDS* which is pretty much the hole county. and he said for us to show up at his house and if we didnt we was pussys..well we didnt show up..cause we didnt have a way..and because half of my friends is on vacation. so now his sister said that she gets her liscence monday..and that i have it coming. and shes gonna stomp my ass..and she said for me to watch my back..well she said that i threatened her when i didnt..the only thing i said is if u come up to my house and try to fight me youre gonna get it..she goes thats gonna look great in the police records..well shes 18. and shes already been in jail once..and her brother (my ex) beated me and everything..what should i do???..bout the hole thing...the fight and gettin threatened..should i take a compliant thingy out on her and her family for threatening me..
PLEASE HELP
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I think you tell your parents and then you call the police and see what they suggest you do. Don't take threats lightly and keep friends close when you go out until this is resolved. Whatever you do...DO NOT take this guy back as a boyfriend. He is bad news! :)
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I would really call the police or something!!! When people threaten like that, it's always safer to have somebody like the law help you out. And really think twice about this guy. If he's doing all this stuff to you then i would seriously recommend NOT even considering going out with him again. It just wouldn't work out after all this. If you don't want police involved, try talking to your parents. They luv you and want to help you out. And i'm sure they would have better ideas than me!!! Just don't go through all this alone because you dont have to and it's not safe!!!
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First I would tell your parents then I would go file a complaint against your ex and his sister.
I don't know exactly what caused the breakup but I think it was a good thing. What he did to you was abuse and you don't have to put up with it. A true man settles his differences with his words, not his fists. Also since he's having his sister get in the middle of this, it makes me wonder if he's even "man enough" to fight his battles himself.
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Go to the police about it. If you have proof (the conversation), show it to the police. And just because she gets her lisence, doesn't really mean a thing. Just go to the police, if you have the proof.
and if he abused you, he can go to jail for that too. take some legal action.
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Go to the police if shes allready been arrested once then she will prolly get arressted again people now a days take threats serious..or even if u want let her hit u , your a minor she can get in so much trouble for that..youd have to go go court an everything but its every thing worth it just make sure you got whitnesses.
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First of all.
What the hell is a 15 year old doing drunk?
Then I have to ask - were you drunk while writing this? Your grammar is terrible, and there are plenty of obvious and easily picked out mistakes. If you were sober while you wrote this, then you should've been able to pick most of them all out instantly.
You, are ignorant.
A fifteen year old girl that drinks and "loves" a man who beats her. Now you are in some crazy mess.
Have you ever considered that - maybe in an alcohol-induced stupor you threatened them?
This could all be YOUR fault.
Anyway, they are probably all talk anyway. Just ignore it.
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I do think you should considering they threatened you. You should tell your parents and file a complaint. If she's already been in jail once and he beat you then their probably serious and it probably won't turn out good unless you file complaint and talk to your parents about it. Hope I helped and hope everything turns out ok.
<3 Blair
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