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whats wrong with talking to other males
me and my boyfrind have been together for almost 10 months now. we never really argue, except when i talk to other males on the telephone. i tell him, they are only friends, but he feels uncomfortable with me talking to them. should i give in, and not talk to my friends or should i continue being friends with my male friends? besides i dont understand why he's uncomfortable anyways.
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NO continue being friends with your guy friends. If he gets to jealous then break up with him. He can't control you like that.
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my boyfriend is the same way! like when i talk to my ex's that are friends now...and he gets pissed when i talk to my neighbors that are like my bros...and so just tell him that he has to trust you. relationships get ruined if there is no trust...
take it from me baby
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well i do he just thinks ur cheating on him. talk to your friends that is not his decision. if he cant trust you with that then break up with him he is so not worth it
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yall have been together for a while so yall should be comfortable talking to one another so thats what i suggest you do....tell him again that they are only friends and that is all they will ever be tell him that hes important to you and you wouldnt want to lose him but he can not control who you can and cannot be friends with...that is your choice he should trust you enough to have guy friends....good luck hope i helped
Andi
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Tell him to back off [politely of couRse]. He's NOT youR keepeR, noR does he have ANY authoRity oveR you. He has NOOOO Right WHATSOEVER to dictate who YOU CAN and CAN NOT assosciate with.
I suppose I could KIND OF undeRstand why he MAY be woRRied at times, but just ReassuRe him theRe's nooo Reason foR him to be woRRied. Tell him that TRUST is a MUST in a Relationship, and without it.. you've got nothin'. Goodluck to you!!
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How would you feel if talked to other gils on the phone.
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Is he there why you are talking to them on the phone? If so then don't talk to him why he is there. He deserves your attention when he is with you and has a right to be upset if you are giving your attention to someone else.
If he is not with you when you are talking to them, then just don't give him a run down of who you talk to on the phone.
Yes, you should continue to talk to all your friends. Nothing wrong with that if you are considerate of your boyfriends feelings while he is with you.
He is uncomfortable because they have your attention and he doesn't.
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I dont know, some guys are just jelous, and they will always be that way. Just be happy you have someone who really does want you and cant stand to share you. Theres this new episode of Family Guy where Quagmire has an affair with Clevlands wife and Clevland doesn't even care. Would you rather have a lathargic boyfriend whos free of emotion. I think u should admire his passion for you, whether its good or bad.
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NO... you dont stop talking to your friends. never ever do that. your boyfriend is most lieky wanting your attention. dont give into it. tell him that they are friends and that you are going to keep talkin to them. he shouldnt tell you that you cant talk to them. and he shouldnt make you choose between him and them either.
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he wants the attention...even the shy guys will ultimatly get jealous. well if he doesnt know your friends then introduce him or if he does, set time for just him and time for your friends.<3
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tell your boyfriend that they are just friends and then set up a date to where he can meet your friends. that way he will know more about your friends and he won't feel untrusting.
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tell him he should trust you.. tell him your not just going to stop talking to your friends cause he dont like it.. their your friends and thats it so he should trust you more.. i can understand why he's uncomfortable but dont give in.. ♥ Dez
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You should never give up friends because he feels uncomfortable with you talking to them. This is something for him to get over, not something for you to change. Does he have a reason to be worried? Is there anything you've done in the ten months that the two of you have been dating to make him think that you wouldn't be trustworthy?
Trying to isolate you from all of your friends, regardless of your friend's sex, is a form of abuse. You will never be able to be truly happy with this guy if he forces you to give up all of your friends. You need to talk to him and make him understand more clearly that they are friends, and you can't give them up.
If he refuses to understand that, then you should let him know that you won't change that part of you.
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